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blue.lotus

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aka:  Cadence Harper

Check out my dating and relationship blog at www.search4asoulmate.wordpress.com

I am a woman who is clumbsy, funny, and usually far too serious. 

I try to live each day to it's fullest, which can be a challenge for me at times.  I'm a mother, a writer, a photographer, a friend, a lover and so many other things.

I'm flawed and beautiful.  I write to relieve the pressure... take my thoughts out of my head and give them away.   It's a wonderful release.

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  • I Don't Want To Play By The Rules Anymore
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    I Don't Want To Play By The Rules Anymore

    5 years ago

    Recently when discussing dating a friend of mine said "When you're in a relationship it's like there's this whole set of rules that come along with it." I think that is so profound and absolutely true....

  • Dealing With The Death of a Dead Beat Dad
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    Dealing With The Death of a Dead Beat Dad

    7 years ago

    The call came in the middle of the night.  I don't know how they tracked me down, but they did.  I was twenty years old and serving in the military.  I'm sure they didn't find my phone number anywhere...

  • How Important is Chemistry in a Relationship?
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    How Important is Chemistry in a Relationship?

    5 years ago

    Let me just say from the begining, it's crucial. CRUCIAL! I used to think I had no chemistry with my ex-husband, until I met -let's call him John. John is a great guy, nice guy, hard working, funny in a quiet dry sort...

  • 8 Rules For Dating a Single Mom
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    8 Rules For Dating a Single Mom

    5 years ago

    If you are going to date a single Mom, there are seriously some things you should know... So here are 8 little tips for avoiding Mommy rampages, and dating deal breakers! 1. Do as you're told. Or, as you're asked,...

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