Love Yourself First – Then Loving anyone else is Easy

Just when your comfortable with who you are, filters in place to remove those who aren't resonant, your comfortable with being alone, for you find yourself to be your best company hands down... Or as a funny t-shirt said "I talk to myself because I'm looking for quality people to talk to", you find yourself in blissful utopia, no complications other than natural life variables designed to test your resolve and reinforce your skill sets have become written in stone by experience.

I find that when your not chasing love, other than self love a love so powerful you want to learn the most just to maintain your relationship with yourself, you do anything to keep your "temple pure" so you learn optimism and continue to make your resources available by learning how to better yourself constantly.

When you chase love but not self love first you do anything to destroy what you have built for a quick fix sensation of love you feel will remove the pain of loneliness or yearning.. but this is not the solution but the problem.

Self love is truly a gift but not one without earning.. it doesn't always come easy and requires thought control, but it is like a magnificent gift to have complete self control over your life, for when your sure you know who you are, when your fully dominate over your decisions, not swayed by others ideas or the media, your in a prime position to radiate your energy wherever you tred, online offline, and even at home alone.

I find that when I'm in this state, which I'm finding is most of the time these days, opportunities seem to come endlessly, resolving my toughest problems and giving me supreme joy, but when your mind is so focused on who you are and in protecting that realm you also radiate a magnetic field attracting to you those whom would also resonate with you.. Your not scatter brained and so your energies aren't either so where ever you go you become like a beautiful girl or hansom guy in a crowd of those looking for beautiful women and hansom men, the focal point for those who'd resonate to you at any level.

Focus is brilliant because it not only centers me it brings me resources that work.

My latest amazement is women and love. Since I've been comfortable in my own skin, since I've come to terms with feeling lonely, by figuring out why I feel that way when I'm such good company, get me on any computer and I can entertain the hell out of myself in many hundred ways, why feel lonely when their are people out there in dire need of my entertainment, my knowledge or my fun spirit manifest through my fingertips to the internet in multimedia?

Discover what you're about. Put that energy into getting to know you. Write about what you love, and about what you know.. Hubing can help you do this too, as you write articles about the different parts of your experiences in love, the lessons in love, experiences in confidence, your Lessons in confidence, even in hangovers, and your experience in pain.

Everything is a lesson we just have to grasp it, once we do we are empowered. When we take that empowerment and go out into the world we empower others. This is the true definition of angels in motion.

I created a spinoff hub (from this one paragraph here actually) on "Decoding Angels" to show you more on how angels are more in your life than you think and how they can be your greatest tool in achieving personal power and freedom.. It is 98% done and should be released in the next couple days.. facinating hub that one is.. Have a great day, check out my other hubs as all my hubs connect to teach empowerment and insight into life.