Your wish is granted- why haven't you showed up to claim it?

Do you realize that your making wishes all day? That you just rub your head and the thought genie pops out to grant your wish? Well actually the genie just takes the order then feeds it to the universe but you get my point. The problem is that nobody's claiming their wish! Let me explain a little first and this will all make sense I promises.

It all starts with confidence, where your most capable to get things done. No low self esteem to get in your way, no self doubt to stop you from perusing your dreams, and your strong enough to fight to get your life in gear.

Just when your comfortable with who you are you have all these protective things in place to assure you don't falter to who you were when you were "unaware". Filters in place to remove those who aren't resonant, your comfortable with being alone, for you find yourself to be your best company hands down.. Or as a funny t-shirt said "I talk to myself because I'm looking for quality people to talk to", it's not arrogant bragging about your accomplishments, just don't over do it or act like your vanity is your self esteem! Success stops people from trying, but when we fail miserably we try harder...

No we manifest them because of our lack of humility and awareness. Let me explain how we get ourselves into these messes (some of them). Sometimes when life gets good, when we discover success in our ability to navigate life's problems on the surf board of perseverance, tenacious effort and incredible strength to pick ourselves up we discover that although what we did worked, it was just a band-aid.

Did you ever think that maybe instead of trying to cope with all the problems, to surf them, you need to take a deeper look at them and instead of avoiding the issue with a quick fix we need to deal with it head on? Why? Because problems aren't just there to make your life hurt, their there so your life doesn't hurt.

An example is instead of dealing with their sadness some drink, or watch TV, or whatever else "distracts" them from the problem. They get good at distracting themselves and find happiness in not dealing with it. They desire to be happy and life throws them as many things as possible to steer them away from the sad "lifestyle" and yet they ignore it and avoid the pain. Drinking sorrow away works for so long then the sorrow infiltrates your "high" state too.. then your really screwed huh?

The pain is supposed to put a fire under your belly, sometimes its designed to make you completely hit rock bottom so you can rebuild from scratch, because for example to be rich you need to change how you think, how you do things, so hitting rock bottom makes you reevaluate your life! Pain is a powerful motivator, but avoiding it just postpones the inevitable. Eventually you spend ALL your time avoiding pain and stagnate, never feeling right. Have you seen those commercials for depression centers of America? I wonder if these places heal the pain by using psychology or by showing people how to deal with problems in a constructive way.

If they dealt with the sadness by asking themselves why they feel sad, what is causing it and so forth, they would eventually arrive at.. "Because what I want and what I have are two completely different animals." You're happy when what you want and what you have are the same, its called harmony. Desire needs to meet reality or you're perpetually in two very different worlds.

That's enough to confuse anyone. I believe a lot of depression is suppression. Writing cures a lot of them because you're not holding in things anymore, and personally when I write I become enlightened by my own attitude and personality quarks, why problems happen and so forth.

Too many people who are confident and know who they are, bold enough to be themselves no matter how the world looks at their form of expression are amazing people, but miss this step and thus become deadlocked by life.

I just posted an apology to a forum I was disrupting but didn't realize why. To me I was just trying to help, to stop people from fighting, but in not realizing how I was out of harmony I was actually provoking fights, and mean spirit in people.

This caused me to feel bad, lonely in a forum full of people so to speak, they started to attack me with my own bullets and yes I deserved them but my point here is that I felt bad and didn't even realize that the problem wasn't them as I perceived them, it was me in how I was seeing my world, how my personal life was in a bit of disharmony and so it spread to the other worlds.. When you learn to seek out the root of problems like a fun puzzle, suppress your need to react, it never works out right, then just treat it like a "cold case" where you're investigating the death of your happiness.

Be humble too, this pay off in many ways. You stop feeling threatened for one, and stop causing more problems. You get people to relax about you, and you can actually apologize for your actions, and move on. If it's truly your actions and not you their upset with then they will forgive you and synergy has a chance again.

Some people however place their own inadequacies and anger on the person not the persons actions and can't forgive them because it's not them they need to forgive, its themselves. We see only that which resonates within us so if your actions are resonant to their angers inside they will see it and recognize it, thus becoming very angry and bitter at you personally as if you were the culprit.

For example if you said or did something that showed them what they disliked in themselves, often if their bitter about it, they will attack you for what you represent, an external way of dealing with an internal problem. They put you at bay and inside feel they have "fixed" themselves, but they only prolong the pain.

In addition to this they sometimes attach the pain to you so they can ignore it, feel like its gone when your gone but when you return they see you as the person they can't stand and so find every reason to provoke you. This is not a direct attack on you, and you should not take it as such, in fact the easiest way to avoid their cynicism and to not fan the fire is to just ignore it, they will eventually not have any power over you and thus will find another source to project their pain on. Did you know that the people you can't stand the most usually are the people who remind you the most about yourself? Your reaction to an external source is usually a stimulation of something inside your not dealing with. If you deal with it it no longer carries the danger of being exploited. In this I know it sounds rediculous but the people who teach us the most about our selves are those we simply can't stand being around. If you pay attention and decode the "why" you can earn a wealth of peace.

Most people don't realize we all do this. The reason I mention it here is that when people get into this kind of a psychological rut they make bad choices, they wish very negative things on you and the karma of that wish returns to kick them in the butt. You must avoid reacting to these people or anything negative in nature that stirs you up emotionally. It's simply not worth the ROI (return on Investment).

You get yourself to that zenith in the sky of high self esteem, and you have never felt so free, but are you taking your new found freedom for granted? are you thinking your bullet proof? hmm.

(I didnt forget about the wish formula.. but were getting VERY close now.. If you've absorbed everything so far your well on your way probably even ahead of me at this point to figuring it out )

A new and exciting danger is afoot here. You become a bit arrogant about your security, about your life. You treat problems like obstacles, like viruses, you start to delete them in various ways, not deal with them. But like any virus it comes back, and attacks you with incredible precision, learning your tactics for pushing it away and before you know it your frustrated trying to push it away.. at some point you take the "if I cant beat em join em" mentality and ah you learn something amazing.. Or do you?

You then find yourself fighting to keep your self esteem, it seems to come and go at times, but you always seem to bounce back, but worried that your bullet proof shield of confidence has some exploits in it you start to seek out a "vulnerability patch". Its at this point you discover that your biggest adversary are your "problems". Your unforseen, inevitable, problems. So now you need to tackle this with care.. But here is why were here today.. why were going to learn to not only rub the genie and order our desires from the universe but PICK THEM UP TOO.

In my old CD Luck Generator AD I explained how to best achieve what this hub is only touching on. Generating Luck out of thin air simply by following specific laws. I will release the Luck Generator Hubs soon enough.. It's pretty amazing to take a term like Luck Generator (which sounds like fluff right?) and show people that its not a magic trick or a snake oil gag, truth is its all about paying attention, about cherry picking one of the millions of opportunities in your very room right now. Applying certain laws you will see them, but most people attribute accidental visions of these laws snapping together as "Luck" when in reality its just unconcious application of the law of Luck. The simple law of luck states:

Luck is opportunity met with actions. Seeing those invisible opportunities is the ability to "Generate" Luck at will. Most of the opportunities are not in three peice suits or mascerading as a bunch of money, in fact the opportunities are so well hidden you may never see them unless you run into the fire of your problems, for that is the door to them, the gate keeper stands there with the firey swarm daring you to just step through and grab a handful of ripe gems of opportunity, but you have to first conquer your fear or your fear will manifest and kill your ability to see in the door and to identify those magic and elusive gems. Learning this helps you to deal with problems, whcih are generated by ...

Drum roll please....

.........................WISHES! ................................

ok I've distracted you long enough, Back to our show...

I'm bouncing back and forth between self esteem and "problems" on purpose so you can relate to how these two things feel. This is how it is actually, you will feel self esteem at an all time high then problems come in and overwhelm you and there you are contemplating problems and self esteem takes a back seat.. then you figure it out, move problems aside (but dont always deal with the issues they show you) and self esteem emerges again.. its a cycle that never stops.

You can't stop it, its a part of life, but controling it by removing the stigma behind "problems" will liberate you, and allow you to claim your wishes.. Wishes arent magical either, their desires unmanifested, when you make a wish your setting into motion resources, and when you don't go use them they start to cause problems like little kids causing havok in your living room. You can't get them excited about watching "barney" then forget to put the DVD in.. they will trash that whole house waiting restlessly for you to give them what they want. Wishes I believe are energy thats like the kids waiting for you to put them into a project...

With high self esteem and alot of uncanny successes (as contrasted by your past failures) you start to feel bullet proof because you have detached yourself from pain and follower-ship. You find yourself in blissful utopia; no complications other than natural life variables designed to test your resolve and reinforce your skill sets have become written in stone by experience. You learn self love and follow every rule to stay happy with yourself thus you radiate confidence people adore. Radiance that people feel affected by phisically in or around your presence!

Self love a love so powerful you want to learn the most just to maintain your relationship with yourself, you do anything to keep your "temple pure" so you learn optimism and continue to make your resources available by learning how to better yourself constantly.

Self love is truly a gift but not one without a (L)earning curve (the (L) is not a typo).. it doesn't always come easy and requires thought control, but it is like a magnificent gift to have complete self control over your life, for when your sure you know who you are, when your fully dominate over your decisions, not swayed by others ideas or the media, your in a prime position to radiate your energy wherever you tred, online offline, and even at home alone.

This next phrase explains what "ask and ye shall receive" means, well rather it says what happens when you ask but don't go receive what you ask for.

Problems are just success in work clothes. We make wishes all day, every thought you have right now is a wish for something, some things you wish for you desire and have faith you can have it so you receive it easily, no problem (pun). You feel hungry and say I'm hungry I want food, then ideas manifest that give you the way to get it.. You don't question that you have to go get it or find a way to get it delivered, but you do realize to eat you have to take an action.

You feel dirty and your wish to feel clean is granted as you take a shower. Wishes don't magically become manifest, life is about a chain of command, a series of steps, but you can have whatever you desire if you just ask for it and pull the trigger (go get it). So why then do we pretend that asking to become rich requires no action? Or do we think for it to qualify for the "ask and ye shall receive" prize announcement that it has to be "easy"?

People however not aware of this happening, ask for things they want but don't think it through (careful what you wish for). Not going to get it (make it happen) doesn't stop the resources from coming. If you took an inventory of things happening in your life and things you've desired over the past year or more, you'd see an amazing common denominator there.

Life is a faithful secretary, you ask for something it is quick to start the ball rolling on getting you the necessary resources, people, events etc.. Happen when you want something and ask for it. Not accepting responsibility for your request is no different from getting in a car and slamming on the gas peddle and slamming into the garage door, and saying but I didn't want to do that.. But you pushed the peddle didn't you?

Thing is if you ask for something and don't go get it, make use of the resources (you will notice if you ask for something a way always materializes to get it, there are NO coincidences, 8 billion people asking for things all the time is one hell of a resource, when the universe sees your request (say for someone to buy your house) and Johnny's request over there (to find a house he likes) it slams the two of you together, Johnny gets the idea an intuitive thought to take a different route to work, or misses an exit on the freeway landing near you, sees the for sale sign on your house and thinks wow I wanted a house like this and badabing your house is sold his dream solidified everyone wins..

The universe is constantly updating the I call it the "Public thought stream" as people want things, its like a wall street broker taking and throwing in new requests every second.. that idea you got today may have been the result of you picking up on the universal thought stream needing your help to get so and so to a certain place..

Your actions and everyone and things actions are all intricately networked together. Not a breath you take or a move you make, a simple shifting of the eyes causes something to happen somewhere else. Movement is always being born and killed, everything in the universe is Always "Under construction".

This is how the universe keeps up, keeps everyones wishes coming, you order (think) and everything changes to netowork synergistically to get yours and others wishes to manifest. Thoughts do just as much as movements in this sea of vast vibrations. Matter is just compressed light and molecules, energy light and gasses make up everything.

A thought is a subltle pulse of energy (scientists have actually proven this, and that thoughts carry specific frequencies!)

By driving your car you change the very matrix of the freeway, by not leaving your home you change the world.. its uncanning to think about but in the end, you have free will but the universe does too and is always offering you information in the form of your intuition, put your order in then just follow the white rabbit. The movie the matrix touched on this concept a bit..

Did you catch it when you watched it? Or were you staring at the woman in the red dress? Look again- ((smack!)) LOL love that line. But this is what he was saying actually in that part.. Most people are oblivious and cause disruptions in their lives because they don't pay attention.

How does this affect YOU?

Imagine you don't do your part, Johnny is on his way over but your not home.. Missed opportunity, your not home because your not paying attention to the universes signals to you to STAY HOME.. The key breaks off in the door, you fall and hurt your foot, etc etc.. But you don't heed the signals.. Been trying to sell this house for years and the one man ready to buy it is on his way..

you get into your car and back into the sign the only sign that your house is for sale is now on the ground, your foot hurt from falling so your angry and keep going thinking I'll pick it up later you have no faith that today will sell your house like any other so you drive away.. But because it's buried behind the grass hill Johnny didn't see it. This doesn't screw you completely, the universe just regroups and try's again, and again, and again, but guess what? We ignore it, again and again and again! LISTEN TO YOUR GUT.

So your bills pile up, the house isn't sold and is going to foreclose.. Problems? Yes, but you did it to yourself.. Pay attention, realize life is signaling you all day every day, guiding you to your desires, resources, but free will is one of our downfalls sometimes as we think we know everything.

I wish.... (you don't get three you get infinite)

You asked for something that requires change to receive it and you're not paying attention, making the effort or you refuse to accept the gift life's trying to give you. When you do this you're going against your own mind. Problems are just things inconsistent with and unharmonious to what you desire. If you try to fit your size 9 foot into a size 7 shoe it wont work, no matter how hard you try you will run into a "problem".

You made a wish somewhere and life is trying to prepare you to receive it but your trying to fit your size 9 wish into a size 7 situation. When you resist this, you perceive this change as problems, unfair, and antagonizing. The truth is its you doing it!

Embrace your problems as clues to your happiness!

I find that when I'm in this state, which I'm finding is most of the time these days, opportunities seem to come endlessly, resolving my toughest problems and giving me supreme joy, (I know problems bring you supreme joy? What's wrong you (me)? Nothing I'm just aware of what most people seem to be taking for granted and thus where most of their problems exist. I would be completely dumbfounded if I had no problems. I wouldn't know how to improve my life, what I was doing wrong in conjunction to my goals, desires. I would actually have to work at figuring out what I'm not doing right! Truth is problems make it easier to SEE the inconsistencies in our life. What it is that I need to change? Problems are the cheat codes to a perfect game! To acquiring your every desire!

Think of it like a boxer in a boxing ring is safe; they can beat the living chit out of the opponent with no worries of being arrested. Put that same boxer on the street and he starts a street fight (even if they agreed to the fight), and you could be arrested for disturbing the peace, public assault and battery and so forth.. Solution? Keep it in the ring! Life is the same way, you ask for wealth and keep asking expect to get resources that will help you acquire it.. But if this means you have to get a better job, believe that you will get a raise when you least expect it, but accept that this may mean hell on earth.. Nothing is free. If you want to truly be wealthy you have to make sacrifices, I say sacrifices because being rich is not the same as your used to if your poor or middle class.. Theirs a real system to it and it requires a whole different way to live, think and be.

Once you're in the game and used to the rules its easy and you'll wonder why you waited so long to get there. Its not an easy transition but life tries its best to help you, problems are life's way of red inking where you are by the standards of where you want to be. Not snobbery, but mind set. Do you know why rich kid's parents hate it when they go out with poor kids? Do you think it's about the money? Its not. It's about how rich kids are raised to think versus poor kids. (Get the book rich dad poor dad to see this concept). It has nothing to do with if you're a "good boy" who "makes a lot of money" its about will you sustain that mindset they so intensely trained their daughter in, or will you convert her state of mind to that of poverty?

I see new problems as opportunity. Problems are just success in work clothing, a way to calibrate you from disharmony to harmony. From where you are to where you desire to be. When you want one thing but do another friction happens. Sure it's hard to deal with tough problems but if you see them for what they are, clues into bettering yourself, aligning yourself to your harmonic bliss states of your mind and your current environment, you won't feel so bad when they come. Your environment affects alto of things. It can promote motivation or depression, so it counts. Life knows this and will jack knife your life if it has to, to force you to make the changes necessary to fulfill your dreams! Think of it as ADT (the house alarm company) when someone breaks into your home do you get mad because the alarm is loud and woke you up or do you deal with the problem that this burglar may impose?

Duh. Well problems are just our ADT, alerting us to take action, because if we don't bigger troubles are brewing.. It's an early warning system for our happiness, telling us it's in jeopardy. The bigger the problem (like those cataclysmic problems that come and stack us till we lose our cool) is often the most rewarding when we fix it.. And usually karma is leading us anyway to a bigger better life.

You've no doubt heard the term, be careful what you wish for you just might get it? Well you do! Every thought in your head is a wish, every desire you ponder over is a wish. Every angry "I hope they suffer" is a wish, but every wish comes at a price. Negative wishes have repercussions, positive wishes have repercussions too but only if you aren't paying attention. Remember the ten fold rule? Well take some part of your problem, divide it into 10 parts and the value of 1/10 of the whole problem may be a clue into what you did to cause it :)

Thoughts want to manifest, they want it more than anything, when you wish for something then power that wish with emotion, its is going to make things happen, if you wish for something that would require your entire existence to change, you can expect problems to soon follow your wish.. Think of it as uprooting, making your bed and laying in it. If for example you ask for wealth, but also wish you could be out of the life you're in, you've just given "the universe" the recipe to pull you out of the fire of poverty; problems will manifest to do just that. We are motivated by this and often the bigger the problem the faster we get our wish, ever wonder why you always come out of major problems with a certain sense of "it sucked but I got through it and I'm better off now than I was before" well its because your wish was granted. If you saw your problems as alarms, as clues, you'd more expediently solve the case, which would align you up with your desire faster and you could avoid the friction, which is only caused by our own mind and your struggling against yourself.. You made your bed and refuse to lie in it!

Those movies and TV shows, books and so forth on the genie are warning you of this in amazing detail. You ever notice the genie always grants you a loaded wish? No matter what you wish for something bad happens, theirs a repercussions. The personal gain law (charmed TV show) made it clear too. Even their magic had a repercussion. The ten fold rule applies to every thought in your head as much as every action you take. Thoughts transfer from your mind on a carrier signal of emotion, think of it as a magnetic field that's as strong as your emotion hence when you think something the impact of your emotion about it determines if your signal has one bar or 5 (cell phone analogy).

We get what we ask for, what we ask for in our prayers either to god or to ourselves. What ever you ask for, especially if you ask over and over (I wish I had a big house, car, money, love) it will always come, but if your life is not aligned in such a way to get it you experience "life" pulling you UP to your wish, it does this, rather you feel it negatively because of the law of insanity. Insanity is doing the same thing over and over expecting different results.. We get so comfortable we live insanely.. And question why we don't have what we want.. and wish for it insistently with watching tv (envying things) thinking about it and clipping pictures onto our refrigerator.

Part of the problem is we don't accept that where we are is different from where we want to be, if it weren't we'd be there not here.

I know if that's true why am I not rich already, I've been asking for years? Because you've asked then gotten in your own way, lost your motivation because you fought your wishes manifestation at every point. What you thought was victory was defeat. When you let go and trust life to give you what you desire, just pay attention, problems, "ok bring them on", you have to say, then you have to pay attention to what you need to do (not what you want to do for comfort, comfort comes in time, theirs "work" to be done first!).. Then do it, life sends you lemons and you've been throwing them back, I don't want lemonade, but you do.. You just refuse to do the work to make the resources work for you..

Change is scary but necessary

Change is the reason most people fail. They refuse to embrace it, and in their struggle to fight it they stagnate. Without change you will only have one choice, stay where you are, live how your living, routine traps you. Change liberates you because anything you want different from what you have REQUIRES change. One way to learn to embrace it is very simple. Change everything all the time. Drive a different way home every day just to show yourself you're capable of change.

Change how you do your routines. Change what hand you eat with predominantly. Wake up at different times every day, don't lax in the comfort of routine, its what's causing you the most pain and blocking your progress! If you find this exercise hard realize that resistance you feel is the culprit for your not having everything you desire, you kill that monster by building a habit of change, spontaneity, this doesn't mean you cant have goals and routines, but leave room in your life for change and spontaneity, build the muscle and you will eventually habitually see what you have to do, resist change and you'll block your vision, blind spots will be in front of you.

You ever notice those who absolutely adore spontaneity are usually the most successful people in the world? People who've actually earned their riches not had it given to them live a life of constant change.. Old money people often trap themselves in routine, they have their money tightly budgeted although they have enough for 3 lifetimes even in their current environment. Some rich people are more depressed than dirt poor people for this reason. Change is vibrant, it's a verb, its bursting with fruit flavor!!!

Change is the road to our desires being manifest. Life throws us curve balls but in reality it's us doing it to ourselves. The balls thrown are our wishes, the curve is just our refusal to accept that we asked for something and didn't do anything to change our environment to sync up with what we wanted. Life doesn't wait around for you it just starts to make adjustments tweak here tweak there and if you accept the change it's a fast and rewarding transaction. If you get negative and take on the "I don't want to change" (then how do you expect to get something different? No one really wishes hard to be in the same place, they just live in it). All change is just life giving you what you wished for..

Start taking responsibility and you will realize that where you always arrive (eventually) is where you wanted to be. Now sometimes where you arrive isn't what you thought it would be (i.e. more money may require a better job and you didn't think that meant (the promotion that life threw at you to get you that) more responsibility.. also trust the universe on the details, wish for something but don't wish for how to get it. Don't say I want a million dollars and I want to win it in the lottery, that probably won't happen, but wishing for a million dollars could as it's just a matter of following the crumbs to the right path and resources, lottery is unlikely. The universe can give you the path easily but if you force the how to get it, you cause a kink in the road.

The sooner you realize this the sooner your life will not feel so hard, and the sooner you will start thinking your wishes through.. Wishes aren't benign, they really happen! To speed the process up of receiving the wish, take action pay attention and go get it! More on this in my Luck Generator hub coming up. Life rewards action, make a decision and pull the trigger. (Sound familiar? It is: Dr. Phil Life law 3 I think)

"Focus is brilliant because it not only centers you it brings you resources that work." - Jerrico usher