Exercises for Building Confidence in Insecure Dogs
How to Help Dogs Bloom Inwards Out
If you own a dog that cowers, pees submissively and hides between your legs when concerned about things, you likely own an insecure dog. These are all outward manifestations of an insecure dog that would do well with some confidence boosting. To help a dog as such, it does no good to scold him for peeing, push him away if he cowers between your legs or force him in situations he does not feel comfortable with. These dogs need to be helped inwards-out, in other words, you need to build their confidence so they do no longer need to manifest outward manifestations of fear, simply because they are feeling better and the world seems less intimidating than before.
I take this "holistic" approach with dogs I foster and train. There is no point in suppressing a behavior with harsh methods if the underlying emotions are not taken care of. If you are are fearful of spiders and tend to scream when you see one, if you are slapped in the face for screaming, this will not change the underlying emotion; actually, now you may have two fears: the fear of spiders and the fear of being slapped on top of that!
Five Dog Confidence Boosting Exercises and Tecniques
To help your poor dog learn to trust the world more and get a bit more confident, there are some specific exercises and training techniques that can help make your dog become more confident and secure. For certain, you do not want to use harsh training methods or aversion based training tools such as prongs, choke collars or shock, to suppress unwanted behavior. Even a loud tone of voice may intimidate the softer specimens. Please also remember that if your dog is acting aggressive, in many cases, there is an underlying element of fear at play. The following are some exercises and techniques that are good confidence boosters.
When introduced properly, agility obstacles can help your dog gain confidence. Inspired by a dog's obstacle course, agility is a sport that encompasses jumping over obstacles, running through tunnels ,climbing A-frames, and walking on structures with unusual footing and wobbly surfaces. Why does agility help insecure dogs? Because the dog feels good about confronting obstacles and because he must continuously concentrate on adjusting his speed and balance.
- Clicker Training
Clicker training can help build confidence in your dog. Free shaping and general shaping teaches your dog to become a creative thinker that will literally "open up" your dog. Your dog will soon learn how to try to offer behaviors. He will learn how to interact in his environment in new ways. Free-shaping is also helpful because the dog cannot make mistakes. The game "101 things to do with a box" may be helpful. Best of all, if your dog is scared of strangers, through targeting you can train your dog to target the hands of strangers and learn how to interact with them in a positive way.
- Learn to Earn
Also, known as "say please", this program can help insecure dogs gain a routine. Some dogs enjoy knowing what to expect in their day. By having your dog sit before his meal, sit before opening the door or sit before putting on the leash, he learns better impulse control and it gives him the structure and routine he may crave, especially if he's a working dog breed.
- Trick Training
Go get the beer from the fridge! Go get the mail! Open that door! Go play the piano! Trick training is not only fun, but it can also be a bog confidence booster as your dog gets to interact with the environment and accomplish tasks. If you add an audience where people praise your dog and give treats for the exhibition, he may also enjoy performing in front of them!
- Basic Obedience
Believe it or not, basic obedience can help your dog gain confidence? How? By training your dog to sit, you are giving your dog something else to think about and also it shows your dog that he does not have to decide on his own how to act. Also, the praise and rewards will make your dog feel extra happy as he acknowledges he did something right.
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