Six things your cat will love you for.

I've always liked cats. The first pet our family had while I was growing up, was a cat named Tobermory. He was named after a talking cat in a book by Saki. Toby, as we called him, lived to be about 16 - 18 years old. Pretty old for a cat.

I've been around a lot of cats since then. Recently, my parents got a cat, named "Kitty" not such a great name; so they renamed her "Tigger". When I first was introduced to Tigger, I had a psychic experience. I physically felt my heart chakra opening, a very subtle spinning sensation in my chest. I love kitties, and kitties love me! Tigger wouldn't come out for other people, but for the first two or three weeks, would only be seen when I came over. What a nice cat!

So, I was thinking, it would be great to share with you some of the things that I've learned about cats. They are very fine animals, and respond very well to loving kindness. I've got a list of six things that you can do for your cat, that will make your relationship with them smooth and loving.

Cats love to be brushed and combed.

I didn't know it until this year; and, cats love to be brushed and combed. You need a special brush or comb for your cat; and while you are brushing him or her, you'll quickly remove a lot of the fur that's being shed. This is great for your cat! Any fur that you get on the brush, is fur that the cat doesn't ingest while grooming. Cats are designed to swallow some hair; but if you spend a minute or two every other day combing your cat, they will thank you for it! The cat I live with now, Emma, just loves to be brushed! She'll sometimes come over when I show her the brush; and when I'm done, she'll rub her face (that's how cats mark their territory) all over the bookshelf near where I groom her. I like to groom her, because I know that it will help her to not throw up hair balls quite so often.

Cats need to get their nails trimmed.

Emma the cat recently had a nail that grew too long. It circled around and started to cut into her paw. She was limping and unhappy, until she got to the vet, who trimmed her nails. Now she's OK.

Trimming a cat's nails can be done at at home; especially, if you get the cat used to it at a young age. We got an emery board scratching tool for Emma. I'm not sure how well it's going to work yet; I hope it does, since Emma isn't used to getting her nails trimmed. My mother used to trim Toby's nails, and it was quick and easy for her to do. So, if I end up trimming Emma's nails, I'm sure she'll get used to it, also. Here's a video about trimming your cats nails. You can see the cat in the video is OK with it, and doesn't mind at all!

Cats (and especially kittens) respond to their environment.

When I lived in Arkansas and the cat there needed to go to the vet, we had to chase her around with a blanket while wearing leather gloves; and then forced her into a carrying case. What an unhappy cat! And then, the cat hated being in a car! But this could have been avoided; especially if you can work with the animal at a young age. Now the tips here may help with an adult cat, but are almost certain to work with a kitten!

First, carry the cat out to your car; and with the engine off, let him or her explore the interior of it for about ten minutes. Then take the cat back to the house. Praise the cat, and tell him or her "You're such a strong cat! You're such a brave cat!" Do this again, the next day. You are acquainting your cat with the car. Now after you have done this for a couple of days, take the cat out and do the same thing. Only this time, start the engine. Just sit for a few minutes. Turn the engine off, praise the cat again; and wait until the next day. Do it again, and keep doing it every day until the cat gets used to your car. This is where a quiet car comes in handy! In just a few days or a week, your cat ought to be OK with this.

Depending on you level of comfort, you may or may not want a kitty cage for when you actually travel with the cat. Now that your cat is comfortable being in the car with the engine running, you can go out for a short 5 minute ride, preferably on smooth roads. The vibration of the car may be unsettling to your cat; but don't worry, in time he or she will get used to it, and stop yowling. When the ride ends, be sure to praise your cat as much as you can. Five or ten minutes of loving affection, or as much as the cat can stand, will help the cat look forward to it. If your cat responds better to a treat, give them some now.

You have to take your cat on several short runs like this before you are ready to take the cat on a longer run. Be sure to praise and reward your cat after every ride. It may seem like the odds are against kitty every adapting to the car; however, there are cats that ride on motorcycles! So you know it can be done. And then be sure to take your cat out on a ride every couple of weeks, at least, so that when you have to get him or her into the car, it won't be a big deal.

Another thing about kittens; this is the time to get them used to riding on your shoulders, being carried about the house; and getting used to being picked up in general. An adult animal will also frequently warm up to being handled like this too. Carrying a cat make's for a cat with good character and strong resolve; just be sure to be nice to your cat! Praise him or her and pet them and give them treats. They will love you for it. Remember, a cat that's used to being picked up, carried to a car, and traveling in it, is worth it's weight in gold when it comes time to move or go to the vet.

Cats love catnip!

Another thing that cats love is catnip! You can get it at the store, and if you do, just get pure organic catnip. It's also easy to grow your own catnip. If you have an outdoor kitty, show him or her where the plant is; it should weather your cat's initial attention and produce a lot of leaves later in the season. Dry the catnip out of reach; and be sure to store it where the cat can't get to it. Cupboard doors can be easy for cats to open, and bags ripped apart. So, if you are saving some for later, keep that in mind, and be sure your cat can't get to it.

Kitty litter.

Despite having been around cats a great deal, I've never actually had to litter train one! What I remember about Toby is that we kept him in a tiled area (the kitchen I think) with the litter box, while he was being litter trained. That seems to be a bit nicer than being shut up in a cage; though that will keep things tidier.

Of late, I've had the opportunity to buy some litter for Emma. So if you can, I'd try getting bulk litter like they have at PetCo. That way, you can cut down on the amount of packaging you have to throw out, and it's inexpensive also. When I get litter for Emma, I show up at PetCo with a big five gallon bucket, and fill it up with the litter. They have buckets there too. I reuse the same bucket the next time I show up. It's good litter, too. It keeps down odor, and every thing clumps to it so it is easily removed with a slotted scoop, leaving unused litter behind in the litter box.

A happy toy for your cat!

Cats love some toys, and others just lie there. The best toys are the ones that you hold onto one end, while your cat plays with the thing at the other. I was really happy with the feather toy that I got for Rusty (the cat my parents had from about 1993 until 2007 or so). And Rusty was happy with it too! The feather must seem like a bird to the cat. The feather dances and floats about in a way that really activates the cat's instinct to pounce, swat, jump, grab, hunt and kill! Cats are built for that kind of stuff, and it's a shame if all they ever do is chase after bugs or invisible insects. A toy like this is great fun for the cat, and it's great fun for the cat lovers too! Hey, it might even get some people who are a little cool towards cats to warm up a bit!

Final Words.

I hope you have enjoyed reading about cats. They are impressionable at a young age, and will adjust to litter habits and car rides easily then. Older cats can adjust to things too, it might just take a little while longer. They love catnip, feather toys and being brushed or combed. An active cat is a healthy cat; and grooming your cat can help keep him or her healthy too. Cats need to have their nails trimmed, though I'm hoping the emery board scratching post does the trick for Emma - perhaps you know something about these, or about cats in general; just leave a comment below! Having a cat is it's own reward. I've been lucky to know all the cats I have, and I hope to meet some more!

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GodsAngel1 6 years ago

Good advice. Cats are lovong animals and they are our friends and companions. You might add that a scratching post will help to keep nails filed down and cats can be trained to scratch the post instead of your furniture, which makes for both happy cats and happy owners!

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Robert Hughes 6 years ago Author

Thanks for that insight GodsAngel1! I really hope that Emma takes to her scratching post; and doesn't have another ingrown nail.

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Crazywriterchik 6 years ago from San Diego, CA

This is a very good hub.. I can tell that you've had many friendships with many cat throughout your life.

I would like to say though that when it comes to cat toys you can't forget laser pointers. There's something about a laser pointer that almost no cat can resist. The felines get their exercise and the pet parents get have fun watching their cats chase a light around the house.

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Robert Hughes 6 years ago Author

I haven't tried one! They sound great, though, can the laser be dangerous to the cat's eyes? I suppose not; though I know there are laser warnings on DVD players and stuff like that for people. Do you know?

You are right, I've can't think of a cat I didn't like. They are special beings as far as I'm concerned.

Thanks for commenting on my hub!

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4mystickitty 6 years ago

Yes, I have a favorite brush and I love to be brushed. Actually it's one of those soft pin brushes with plastic handle. But the handle broke off, and left with just the head part. This makes the brush very flexible, and bends to fit all curves of my body, especially under the chin on my neck for a super close stokes. Ooh that feels so good. Oh, I'm the kitty cat of the house in case you haven't figure it out.

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Robert Hughes 6 years ago Author

Hey 4mystickitty! I'm so glad your guardian human knows to use a brush on you. It's the best.

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Crazywriterchik 6 years ago from San Diego, CA

I don't think that a laser pointer would be dangerous to a cat's eye, although why would you point it in the cats eye at all? Hmmm...

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Robert Hughes 6 years ago Author

That's right, it would only be pointed that way by accident. My girlfriend tells me that they have a warning not to point it in the cat's eye.

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Zannie10 6 years ago

Good advice! I'm glad you pointed out the importance of keeping their nails trimmed. That type of thing should never be neglected because it can become very uncomfortable or painful for them.

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Susan Ng 6 years ago from Cebu, Philippines

My cats purr like an old diesel engine on idle every time I brush them. And they contentedly sit belly up on my lap every time I trim their nails. :) But back when I was in grade school, I don't think we ever trimmed our cats' nails. They took care of it themselves by climbing and scratching all the trees in our property. Naturally, their claws were razor-sharp which was pretty dangerous. Now that I've moved to a house with no lawn and we keep our cats indoors all the time, nail trimming has become a necessity. :)

I'm going to follow your advice on desensitizing cats to cars. I made the mistake of making one of my cats' first car ride a trip to the vet to have him neutered and now he meowls piteously when inside the car, so I have to try to undo the mistake. Hehe. :P

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Robert Hughes 6 years ago Author

Hi Zannie! Thanks for checking this hub for advice; I hope you haven't ever had an ingrown nail, like Emma did. Glad you seconded that portion of the hub.

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Robert Hughes 6 years ago Author

Hi Susan Ng! Aren't cats purrs magical?! I know that Emma purrs sometimes just when I'm standing near her, she's such a sweet cat. Hope you are able to get your cat OK with car, let me know how it goes with that.

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Susan Ng 6 years ago from Cebu, Philippines

They really are. :) Even watching my cats play with pingpong balls is entertainment in itself. Hehe. And thanks. I'm keeping my fingers crossed. :)

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Robert Hughes 6 years ago Author

Hi Susan, I'm sure your cats will do fine, if you just take it easy with them. Cats and cars can mix!

Ethan roberts 6 years ago

My cat's name is emma too!

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Robert Hughes 6 years ago Author

Thanks for commenting Ethan!

Liam 5 years ago

Jesus, and what's the car fuel cost for about 20+ car runs for your cat? It's a good idea but impracticle, letting your cat feel more secure with regular time in a travel cage is an easier and cheaper idea/option.

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Robert Hughes 5 years ago Author

Hi Liam, while I'm not Jesus, I'll take it as a compliment! And you're right, it's not very eco-friendly. If you have a car at all. But, if you do, then it would make better sense to just acclimate the cat to the car with out the start up of the engine several times. Once the cat as gotten used to the car in general, I'm confident that with your reassuring presence the cat would be fine when you started it and drove away. Just try to take it on the occasional errand (that you're already planning), so that it doesn't end up associating the car with the V E T !

Lydia Smith 2 years ago

Hello. I enjoyed your article. None of my cats have ever had issues with long claws. In the past I've trimmed a few claws but don't anymore. I didn't know they ever could grow to become too long. Thank you for the information. :-)

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Robert Hughes 2 years ago Author

Thanks for the comment, Lydia. My dad's cat, Tigger, just got her nails trimmed. They catch on the rug otherwise.

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Snakesmum 20 months ago from Victoria, Australia

My current cat is a rescue from a shelter, but she is very loving and happy. One thing she hates though, is having her claws trimmed! She will happily get brushed or played with anytime. Cats give us so much.

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