Gentle breaking a horse for riding

Gentle breaking any horse

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There are two ways to deal with a horse, one works well the other causes more problems than it is worth. Being gentle, handling colts often, then gentle breaking them works best. They build a trust with the person who handles them which will last a lifetime.

The other is forcing the horse to your will. This does not work well as every animal including the human animal will rebel when they are forced. Horses can be forced to obey they will however end up resenting you and act up way more often.


Gentling and gentle breaking takes time, it can be done with just the horse and the eventual individual rider however this takes more time than is necessary. Is best done with more than one person with already trained horses very close.

Like with human children “monkey see monkey do” comes into play. When a horse sees someone doing something to one horse, without that horse showing fear, they will want the same done to them, especially if treats are given. This is when you should be training the horse to accept a halter.

Halter training

When you are spending time with the horse daily and as young as possible the horse should see you putting halters on other horses. Spend time brushing and petting the colts head. Give treats often at this point. Use varied treats to find out which one the colt likes best. Make sure you have this available when you are halter training. In my life, there was never a time the colt took a halter the first time it was tried. Have patience; even so do not let it go on too long.

Once you have the colt comfortable wearing the halter, it is time to start leading. This is when to become serious with the two-horse system. Use a trained horse and the colt you are training. The first time go to the other end of the lead rope and hold up a treat. Do this with both horses. The trained horse should then start moving up to receive its treat. More often than not, the horse you are training will follow suit. If not, move a little closer. Do make sure the colt has to move to receive the treat. in a short while the colt will lead well.


Bridle training

As soon as the colt reaches full head size, bridle training should begin. Use the least restrictive bit possible. You should never have to use a restrictive bit. This should be done the same way only with a treat that the colt can handle with a bit it its mouth. Leading and the colt learning to do direction movement should be done before you ever put a saddle on. Once it is bit trained the same style of bit should always be used.

Bit training

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Saddle training

Every time in my life while gentle breaking there were always other horses right there, the first step is to lean on all the horses while brushing them, then just anytime. Find small things (an old coat works well) to put on their back, making sure to put it on the horse already trained first, then give treats to both horses. When they tolerate the small thing well, move on to the saddle blanket. The horse should now accept this with no problem, if they balk go back to the smaller thing again for a while.

Once they take the saddle blanket it’s time to start adding some of your weight to their back. This can be done by working from a stool, brushing the horse while leaning over them is a good way to do this. Just make sure you can move away from the horses back quickly. Once you can do this without the horse balking it’s time to start putting things around them, from the back around the belly. This gets them used to the idea of a cinch. In my experience his generally takes the longest. Brushing the horse the several times as you try this is a great idea.

Once this can be done comfortably it's time for the saddle. The best way is for the horse to see other horses being saddled as often as possible at this point in time. Riding other horses close by should also be done at this time.

Horse with saddle


Ready to ride

When time to start riding began we always worked with three horses two of which should already be well broke. We sandwiched the new horse between them and tightened up once the rider was mounted. This can be dangerous if any fear is shown and not recommended for a beginner.

In my experience the horse will now move as the others do without bucking or otherwise acting up. As the other horses turn right or left move the reins in the appropriate direction and if you want the horse to follow toe commands use them at this time also. Following these suggestions will give you a horse who trusts you and is more obedient. Horses like people are capable of love and in reality because you have remained gentle the horse has a relationship close to love with you. Breaking a horse gently for riding will have forged a relationship between you and the horse which will last a lifetime.

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wheelinallover 21 months ago from Central United States Author

Ally, without knowing how you give the horse commands there isn't much I can tell you. It is my belief the horse is responding to commands you might not be aware you are giving. My suggestion is put the strongest rider you can find on the horse and see how the horse responds to him or her. If the problem remains with the other rider work on creating a command, which gives you the desired results. Horses learn from example so if you can canter next to a horse that keeps it's head up try that too.

Ally 21 months ago

Hi, I have just I quick question for you about cantering. I am breaking in a 4 year old horse and we are working on cantering, he is a very energetic horse. On about the second stride he keeps whipping his head down. Can you tell me how to fix this problem please. Thank you:)

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wheelinallover 24 months ago from Central United States Author

Dressage husband you make some great points here. Trust is a major factor when working with horses or people. The ability to understand how a horse thinks helps tremendously. As a teen I remember spending hours with the horses. This was the same when I owned my own house of was training for others. I have seen videos of others who can train a horse to be ridden in three days. This is something I never did or would even consider. To my way of thinking a horse can't understand me, and I can't understand it in that short amount of time. I spent six months working with the last horse I trained. Then again maybe I was at a disadvantage because I was wheelchair bound at the time. Believe me it is harder when you can't give foot and leg requests. When I was living and training in South Dakota I spent more time in the pasture with the horses than I did anywhere else. My scent was on every bale of hay they ate. It was also all over the pasture. Mutual respect goes further than anything when you are working with horses.

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Dressage Husband 2 years ago from Pine Grove, Nova Scotia, Canada

We have four horses of our own and have had boarding horses too. The truth is that you have to understand each animal and the way he or she thinks. They all will come to me at the gate whenever I approach with a halter in hand, but not for anyone! You have to have their trust and this means you should pick out their stalls while they are eating and other such tasks.

Normally a horse will react as they think you may want to take their food, but if you reassure them and pet them then after a while they accept you. You need them to accept your commands rather than think for themselves.

This is not breaking, but establishing yourself as more knowledgeable and so it is easier for them to follow your direction than think for themselves. Horses make this easier as they are herd animals and lazy thinkers who like a lead animal (Alpha horse). You just become the alpha. This means when they are little push them off their food, the animal whose front feet move first has lost, do this gently when they are young and get their respect (leaving this later makes it harder if not impossible).

Make the young animal wait a while then let it eat and reward it with love pets and brushing while it eats. This overcomes its tendency to defend its food and establishes you as a great provider (Alpha horse). This relationship will not be questioned as long as you provide food and treats and petting and grooming on a regular basis.

I have found the letting them watch approach is one of the quickest ways to get them to overcome their natural fears. Good article (Hub). Voted up.

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wheelinallover 4 years ago from Central United States Author

Thanks Rolly. I love working with horses too. At this point in my life I don't have time which is probably a good thing. Now the only thing which would probably be broken is me. In the last xray they took of my legs the bones looked like Swiss cheese. I never broke a horse, they were always trained, just so you know. One of my hubs talks about how I came to work with horses. It is one of the "Indian" series.

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Rolly A Chabot 4 years ago from Alberta Canada

Hi Dennis... what a great article and one which caught my eye as I love horses and working with them. Over the years I have learned breaking a horse slowly and gently develops trust and establishes relationship. To break the spirit of the horse is to no ones benefit. You have written a great article here...

Rolly in Canada

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wheelinallover 5 years ago from Central United States Author

I had the use of a horse from the time I was 13 but didn't actually own my own until "later in life". Through the years I have worked with training other people's horses, ridden every time I have had the chance.

Even after becoming wheelchair bound have still worked with horses, and ridden. I am supposed to be working with one now but have too many other irons in the fire.

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kittythedreamer 5 years ago from the Ether

I had my own horse when I was 13. Her name was Zoe and she was a morgan quarterhorse mix. She wouldn't let anyone else ride her except for me. She wouldn't even let my mom (the horse expert) ride her! I've seen my mom break many green horses...whether green or broken, horses have always captivated me.

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wheelinallover 5 years ago from Central United States Author

Answering your question was my pleasure. Even if it cost me some sleep. LOL

I have heard all my life to write about what I know. Much of my life was spent around horses and I saw many instances where things could have been handled better. My hope with this article was that people would see a different way which has always been very effective for me.

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meow48 5 years ago from usa

really liked this article and am glad for the definitions. take care. oh, and thanks for answering my question.

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wheelinallover 5 years ago from Central United States Author

To me she was, her conformation wasn't the best as she was short bodied. Sorry I have no pictures, all of the pictures were left behind when I moved to California to take care of my father. I tried at a later date to get some and was told they had all been thrown away.

There is no way I can be considered a newbie as I have known about proud cut horses since my teens. Actually have ridden them both before and after the accidents. Some people like my father prefer them because they are more spirited than a gelding, but easier to handle than a stallion. For newbie's "a gelding is a neutered male horse and a stallion can breed".

According to rickrideshorses we need to stop thinking in terms of catching horses and change our thinking to bringing them in. According to him it takes a little time but they can be trained to come to you.

I know in South Dakota one thing that helped is we had plenty of social capital. There were two well trained horse people, two teens who loved to ride, also two people who popped in to help with the horses care and me. Didn't hurt either that the water trough which was required for us was right next to the gate. LOL

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DTroth 5 years ago from My Little Hole In The Wall, HubPages, USA

I bet your horse was beautiful! What a mix! I'd love to see a picture of her if you have any on the computer.

My oldest horse, Sparky, is easy for anybody to catch. She always has been. But Red, not so much. He's really easy to catch unless he reads my mind and knows I'm gonna give him de-wormer... which is basically every time I do it. Even if he's the very first one to get de-wormed out of all the horses and I leave the unwrapped tube of paste in the house until I catch him. He's such a stink! (: He doesn't mind when I give him shots though, just the de-wormer, even if it's the supposedly great tasting apple flavored kind. He's a proud cut gelding, so he still acts studdy...basically, your typical boneheaded stallion, just without the "goods."

**For the Newbies out there following these comments, being "proud cut" is a male horse that only had one testicle descended...and therefore only one testicle removed when he was gelded. The other testicle is still up in his body cavity somewhere and although it's useless for making babies from being too hot up in the body, he still "acts" like a stallion. He doesn't nip, but he is thick-headed and incredibly strong! You HAVE to be on your toes with him when you're around him, otherwise you could get very hurt.

The 3 babies are getting easier to catch every day. Stig has always been the easiest, then sister Dakota...and bringing up the rear is Buzz. He's finally to the point where I can pet him on the neck without him bolting away. I'm just taking my sweet time with him and giving him lots of space. I let him come up to me, not me to him. If he doesn't want to be touched that day, I let him be.

I'm sorry you had to sell your mare, Denna. I hope she calmed down enough for her new owner to handle her...for HER sake.

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wheelinallover 5 years ago from Central United States Author

My horse, the only one I ever really owned was an arab appy mix, for me she was a war horse for anyone else she spooked easy and threw anyone who she could, other than my son. He was like having a feather on her back. When he rode he was eight and small for his age.

I can't tell you how many times I laughed when anyone went into the pasture to bring her in. All it ever took for me was to go to the gate she was right there to meet me.

The man who bought her told me if I couldn't ride her bareback he wouldn't buy her. So I did, it took two men to get me on the horses back. She had a halter on but it wasn't needed. I got extra money for her when he saw that she turned and stopped with only hand (requests)commands without anything ever coming out of my mouth.

She loaded right into the trailer but I was told it took three men and another horse to get her out.

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DTroth 5 years ago from My Little Hole In The Wall, HubPages, USA

I actually had been doing that with "The Girls'" mama, Rose, and they were always either curiously watching or following us out in the field, so I'm sure it helped!

If I ever find anybody to help me with the "sandwich" horses though, I'd MUCH rather do that! It sounds a whole lot safer than goin' it alone like I have been and occasionally gettin' dumped on my ass! Especially with Pearl. She's still pretty young and VERY spooky! Even for an already spooky breed like Arabians...she's full of firecrackers and has springs in her feet!

Thank you for the encouraging email. I'll definitely look into that stuff!

It's midnight here and I'm hittin' the sack, so take care of yourself and I'll chat with ya later!


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wheelinallover 5 years ago from Central United States Author

I wrote this from personal experience so have seen this many times for myself. Oh and if you don't have the social capital (people you know and trust as riders) it's better to do it the way you are. You can still use the monkey see monkey do, saddle and ride another horse into the area where the one to be broke is as often as possible, to let the horse to be broke see another horse being ridden with you in the saddle.

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DTroth 5 years ago from My Little Hole In The Wall, HubPages, USA

Hi wheelin'...

Great article! Excellent info on the use of 2 "sandwich" horses to start the young-un. My only problem is, is that I don't have anybody willing to help me with this, so I hafta put in a little more groundwork and a few extra weeks of round pen work until they get completely comfortable with the idea of having a cinch around their belly and extra weight on their backs. You are absolutely right about "monkey see monkey do." I've seen it time and time again with horses (and other critters as well).

Very helpful. Keep up the good work! Thank you! (:


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