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The Four Phases of Confidence
Today I want to talk a little bit about confidence. It’s probably more a yang (masculine) quality than a yin (feminine) one. But I’ll just assume it’s of general interest and address both the men...
0 commentsHow Rich Guys Screw Up Their Chances with Women
I have several super-successful, single male friends here in Los Angeles who also happen to be smart, kind, educated, and decent-looking. They're solid guys through and through. And it just kills me that they...
0 commentsThe Odysseus Protocol, or how to bypass willpower to get more out of life (in dating & beyond)
I’ve briefly touched upon the Odysseus protocol in the past. The name comes from Homer’s Odyssey. Odysseus and his ship are about to pass through the Siren-infested waters. On the one hand, he knows...
0 commentsHow to Find Happiness in Four (Not So) Easy Steps
On Happiness I live in Los Angeles, which may well be ground zero for spiritual movements in the United States. Many such groups got their start here, and the diversity of faiths and movements is...
0 commentsDating for Men: The Art & Science of 3D Super-Attraction
Recently I had the pleasure of reading a very interesting book on the inner workings of the human mind. It’s by Jonathan Haidt, and it’s called The Happiness Hypothesis: Finding Modern Truth in Ancient...
0 commentsThe Ten Commandments Of Dating
This Sunday was Mother's Day, which reminded me of the Ten Commandments. That's because there's only one measly commandment telling you what to do: 'honor thy father and thy mother.' The remaining nine...
0 commentsHow to Slay Stress with the Love Response
I had the pleasure of meeting Dr. Eva Selhub at a conference here in LA a few weeks ago where she was speaking. As is my habit with all readings, I purchased her book and had her sign it - gotta support...
0 commentsWillpower Doesn't Exist: The New Way to Get Stuff Done
In a passage from Homer's Odyssey, Odysseus and his ship are about to pass through the Siren-infested waters. On the one hand, he knows that hearing their song will spell his doom. On the other hand, he's...
1 commentDating: What’s Your Compass? How to Get Rid of Toxic Guys (or Girls)
Last night, I was at a business networking mixer here in Los Angeles. As the event winded down, I was talking to these two lovely young ladies — let’s call them Ashley and Sarah — who seemed...
0 commentsWhat Is Spirituality: 5 (Not So) Easy Steps to Happiness
I live in Los Angeles, which may well be ground zero for spiritual movements in the United States. Many such groups got their start here, and the diversity of faiths and movements is impressive - from old...
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