Do you fit in at work
When you work with mean girls
Have you ever worked at a job, where you don't fit in with the rest of the crowd, because they have been there longer? It doesn't matter how hard you work or what you do, they always point out your flaws even if they have a million of their own.
Mean women, who find ways to make you hate going to work, always show your boss the mistakes you make even though you find more of theirs than you could ever have. Why are these women allowed to exist in the work place? Well most of the time bosses are unaware that these women are harrassing new employees for their own personal needs.
If you are in a work situation, that makes you go home every single night and cry or wish the weekend would come so you don't have to look at or hear those mean women for a few days, you are not alone. It is estimated that in every work place there are those women who treat someone other than with respect.
You can't go to your boss because their friends so what do you do? Handle your business and let them have a piece of their own pie. You can tactfully show them that their meaness is not going to derail your job, all the while enjoying your job to it's fullest. Why should these mean women spoil your day?
If you know your doing your best, first ignore them and if ignoring them doesn't work, then speak out. Don't hold it in you will explode one day.
You don't have to yell or be angry when you talk to them because if you are calm, cool and collected, they will hate it that much more.
What about the Divas that come to work and let you do all the work? Ever come across those? Well its simple: start having a long relationship in the bathroom daily until you see them doing their fair share. The work can't sit there forever if its a job that everyone does. We all get paid to do the same thing, why should you have to work harder than the rest because you're new?
You have a right to work stress free from these negative nellies and enjoy work since you have to partake in this joyous occassion for at least 45 years or more. You have a right to not have to feel uptight every single day of your life. If these caddy women are making your life miserable, then start looking for another job. It's not worth the stress it takes to spend the day mad.
Give them a piece of your mind but in a nice way. Mean girls hate nice people. They are seeking someone to make mad on a daily basis and if you get angry then they have succeeded.
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