The Value of a Mentor: Odysseus and You

My first mentor - Charles H. Williams -  Former Principal at Abraham Lincoln High School Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
My first mentor - Charles H. Williams - Former Principal at Abraham Lincoln High School Philadelphia, Pennsylvania

Who or What is a mentor?

According to Wikipedia and Greek mythology, Mentor was the son of Alcimus or Anchialus. In his old age Mentor was a friend of Odysseus who placed Mentor and Odysseus' foster-brother Eumaeus in charge of his son Telemachus, and of Odysseus' palace, when Odysseus left for the Trojan War.

When Athena visited Telemachus she took the disguise of Mentor to hide herself from the suitors of Telemachus' mother Penelope.[2] As Mentor, the goddess encouraged Telemachus to stand up against the suitors and go abroad to find out what happened to his father. When Odysseus returned to Ithaca, Athena appeared briefly in the form of Mentor again at Odysseus' palace.

Because of Mentor's relationship with Telemachus, and the disguised Athena's encouragement and practical plans for dealing with personal dilemmas, the personal name Mentor has been adopted in English as a term meaning someone who imparts wisdom to and shares knowledge with a less experienced colleague.

In Today's World

Mentor of Greek Mythology has evolved into quite a different character today. Often mentoring is seen as an obligation, a duty executed without regard to it's potential significance. Corporations mentor their upwardly mobile junior executives. Very essential non-profits attract volunteers to mentor children in schools as a means of replacing non-existent parental guidance. Mentoring today is almost systemic, often used as a means of improving a bottom line, instead of nurturing, guiding and protecting an individual.

I hesitate to use the proverb "It takes a village to raise a child," as that would open up a different can of worms but, I do, however, firmly believe that people who are mentored by those outside of the nuclear family unit gain perspectives that are incredibly beneficial to them. That is not to say that today's mentoring relationships aren't valuable, they most certainly are and do produce vast improvements in the lives of both the mentor and those whom they mentor.

The Mentor Relationship

I have been on the recipient side of 5 mentoring relationships in my life so far, only two of which were actually stated as such. They were a High School football coach, a pastor, a friend, an educator, and a life coach. It is my belief that the mentoring relationship must be comprised of a connection that may or may not be known to the participants, but is present all the same. That connection consists primarily of a combination of a mutual interest in an element of living, including a goal or desire of each participant to a play a role in successfully fulfilling the outcome of that interest and the inherent desire of each individual to interact with the other on a profound and personal level.

Notice though, in the Greek mythological Mentor, he was charged with more than just helping an associate with his homework or getting promoted at the local factory. Mentor was charged with the life of Odysseus' son and his domain. Although the characterization of Mentor is defined by Wikipedia in this article, what stands out for me in the relationship between Mentor and Telemachus was the provision of Wisdom and Knowledge .

Whether you believe in Greek mythology or not it is hard to dispute the value of imparting wisdom to a younger, maturing generation. In my humble opinion this wasn't about doing it for Telemachus. Mentor was chosen by Odysseus because he knew Mentor would help the young man grow, using wisdom to teach, train and demonstrate the values Odysseus would have taught him if he were there. Even when Athena intervened disguised as Mentor it was for the benefit of Telemachus.

The value of a good mentor is to impart Wisdom and Knowledge for the benefit of the one being mentored. The residual benefit is to the mentor, who gains wisdom each time he takes responsibility for the growth of another human being and does so when he or she shares his or her whole self and his or her experience with love!

If you ever decide to enter into a mentoring relationship, be it mentor or mentored, consider the value of what is expected as well as what is given. The reward is as high as the price, but very, very, worth it!

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In gratitude for and recogintion of the mentors in my life, Lou Grandizio, Rev. William Southern, Gary Leedes, JD, Ed O'Keefe, PHD and Peggy Dean comments are we 6 comments

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KDee411 4 years ago from Bay Area, California

Bruce, this is wonderful. That's what you and some of the others are to me.I thank you with my heart. I love Maya Angelou,she is also a wonderful mentor. I voted up and across .

Kay


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billybuc 4 years ago from Olympia, WA

I have had two mentors in my lifetime who helped to shape who I am today; their words still echo inside of me on a daily basis...thank you so much for this beautiful hub.


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sunkentreasure 4 years ago

SECRETS OF EXCELLENCE By BERNARD LEVINE

Be true to yourself - become who you want to be.

Follow your heart

to the path of greatness that lies within you.

Focus your time and energy on your daily priorities.

Put God's Word first and there will be

wonderful victories ahead.

Find a way to serve others and you will be fulfilled.

Thank God for all His blessings you are receiving today.

Look for ways to create happiness for yourself

and for your loved ones.

Protect your heart with all diligence,

for out of it flow the issues of life.

Make God your first choice when you call for help.

Dream big dreams.

(c) Bernard Levine


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Born2care2001 4 years ago from Asheville NC Author

Hi Bernard and thank you for your wisdom here! There really isn't anything new in life, it's application that counts. I have found, through experience, that many men really do want someone to walk the path with them. Thanks for being one of them who will!

Sincerely,

Bruce


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tirelesstraveler 4 years ago from California

Have been mentored and have mentored. Each of my mentors gave valuable life lessons. I have the opportunity now to pass those lessons along; it is thrilling. Wonderful hub


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Born2care2001 4 years ago from Asheville NC Author

Thank You tirelesstraveler,

After reading a bit about you in your profile, I know you value the lessons we get through living. I also sense your passion for sharing the outcomes! Keep going, so many of us need to know what you have been shown!

I appreciate your time and comments!

Humbly,

Bruce

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