what should i do my life is at its worse phase....till now i was waiting for tim

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   mums4uposted 13 years ago

   what should i do
   my life is at its worse phase....till now i was waiting for time to...
   
   change...so dat my gud luck begin
   but...life is getting worse and worse...
   it started when i lost my job...during recession...and till today i did not got it back...
   i tried my best to get a job...but result was negative ...
   i came back to my hometown manali...that is in a state  himachal paradesh of INDIA....
   i lost respect in family..my younger sisters thinks i am a failure...
   i hvnt stopped looking for job and giving interviews...
   but now i dnt have that confidence in me
   AM I A BIG LOSER ?
   HAVE I FAILED COMPLETLY ?

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   bender90posted 13 years ago

   A wise man once said that; "You only fail when you stop trying". My advice would be to keep looking for work. You will eventually find something. Be very open to any and all work that you can get. That is the best advice I can give.

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   vicki simmsposted 13 years ago

   You are not a failure or loser, times are tough all around the world at the minute and there are alot of people in the same situation as yourself, you need to stay positive and keep going, a job will come your way!!
   Good luck

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   keepitnaturalposted 13 years ago

   You say you have been trying your best, well quite often 'things get worse before they get better.' So keep your head up, keep going to your interviews & trying your hardest, ignore whatever else is going on around you & by keeping positive through this, something should come up for you, probably from where you would least expect it!

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   ExpandYourMindposted 13 years ago

   Mums4u:
   
   You are not a failure -- there are millions of people seeking work in the US alone and many have been looking for over a year.  Try to stay positive and keep looking.  Don't hang out with negative people and ignore anyone who puts you down. Read my hub on unemployment when you have some spare time.  Also, as bender90 commented, be open to any work that is out there; just get your foot in the door.  Good luck to you.

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   omarakthewiseoneposted 13 years ago

   First Off I would Like to encourage you Sister!!! You are doing an excellent job of looking for employment!!! Times are tough now around the world. I am going to pray that you get a job!!! A good job!!! Yahweh bless you and encourage you sister!!! Please pray to yahweh to help you out of your circumstances!!! Yahweh bless and keep up the courage and faith!!

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