What's the meanest thing that anyone has ever said to you?

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   MissJamieDposted 11 years ago

   My ex husband told me that my father would not like me. (My father never knew I was his and I've always wished I would've known him)....that's the meanest thing anyone's ever said to me.

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      Stina Caxeposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      A girl who was once married to my kids uncle told me that my daughters premature birth was my fault, I knew there was a chance she could die and I decided to have her anyway because I was selfish and wanted to trap her dad into staying with me.

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         MissJamieDposted 11 years agoin reply to this

         Wow! That is horrible. Some people have no heart. I hope everything went well with your baby:)

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      Sphinxs Sanctumposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      I was raised by my maternal grandparents & was upset about something, having a little spat with my grandma & she said, "You better consider yourself lucky girl cuz if your mom woulda kept ya, her pervert husband would have been havin' sex with ya & if your dad had ya, he'd have been having sex with ya too!" (in her angry southern drawl)  But that can only be tied with my uncle telling me that I'm just as crazy as my father who shot himself in the head.  Yep - my family are pretty much lower than whale-sh*t.

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         bBereanposted 11 years agoin reply to this

         Goes to show, sometimes "every cloud has a silver lining" is true, and you get to be it for your family.

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            MissJamieDposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            That was a very nice reply.
            
            I used to call myself the "white sheep" of my family because they were all goofy and I was the only halfway sane one. lol

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               bBereanposted 11 years agoin reply to this

               It's easy to let bad situations and beginnings define you, but fortunately many, if not most, don't let them.  I was very fortunate to have a great family, but am very aware of those who weren't.  Many of my friends would spend all of their time at my house and my folks loved it.

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         MissJamieDposted 11 years agoin reply to this

         Holy crap that's is unbelievable. I hated to bring up such a sore subject, but I knew I couldn't be the only person who'd been made to feel smaller than the grass under a terd. I'm sad that people are so cruel. The upside to this is that I hope we're all better than that. I know that I am. I've said some mean things in my day but I wouldn't hit below the belt like that.

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   donotfearposted 11 years ago

   While confronting someone who had disappeared for a week, he said to me:
   
   "What do you want me to say..'baby oh baby come back'.....cause I'm not!'

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      MissJamieDposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      My ex was such a jerk like this, I know how this feels. I just can't believe how heartless people are. I hope you know you're above that.

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   bBereanposted 11 years ago

   I believe in the God of the bible, heaven and hell.  For that, I got the following comment.  If you believe in these things, to be consistent, the person, (who's name I have withheld), would have to apply the same sentiment to you.  This is perhaps the meanest thing anyone has directed at me. 
   
   

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      MissJamieDposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Whoa. There are  more black-hearted people in this world than ever before. Us good human beings are the minority. It's pathetic.

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   gosupressposted 11 years ago

   In real life? Or does online count as well? Real life I don't really remember because I was probably drunk. Online it was something like: "get cancer jew"

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      MissJamieDposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Yikes:) So, do you get mouthy when drinking? lol

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   LagunaAlkalineposted 11 years ago

   **Backstory** I was adopted when I was 6 months old.
   
   Keeping to the pattern of exes, my ex told me my adopted mom isn't really my mom.

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      bBereanposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Guess he doesn't know the difference between being the person who gave birth and being a Mom.  Sad for him.  Everyone has someone who gave birth to them.  Not everyone gets to have a Mom.

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