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Calling You Out - Negative Karma Hubbers

  1. paradigmsearch profile image88
    paradigmsearchposted 3 years ago

    But only for posts made in 2014. It is up to you.

    [I may add to this post in the next three hours. Or not.]

    Update: I just unfollwed 2 people for repeated negative-comment forum posts.

    Final update: I have failed. I have succeeded. I have been the best that I can be. I will be the best I can be. Happy 2014, all.

    1. HattieMattieMae profile image68
      HattieMattieMaeposted 3 years ago in reply to this

      Hmm...Sending positive vibes for the new Year! lol Law of attraction states put a smile on and you will get one back! lol You must not be to negative if I'm here. lol

      1. paradigmsearch profile image88
        paradigmsearchposted 3 years ago in reply to this

        You are so right. smile

    2. paradigmsearch profile image88
      paradigmsearchposted 3 years ago in reply to this

      Bump.

      1. Dale Hyde profile image87
        Dale Hydeposted 3 years ago in reply to this

        Ouch!  Ummm....that hurt you know.

        1. paradigmsearch profile image88
          paradigmsearchposted 3 years ago in reply to this

          I am glad you posted. Thought I was following you. Fixed that; am now.

    3. Bishop55 profile image90
      Bishop55posted 3 years ago in reply to this

      was it just negativity?  Or actual constructive critisism?  I had someone leave a really shitty comment that was a guest user.  Take it all with a grain of salt and keep on keeping on!

      1. gmwilliams profile image86
        gmwilliamsposted 3 years ago in reply to this

        Just DELETE the negative and hateful comments.  Negative comments have NO PLACE in HubPages either from hubbers(very few and far between) and guests.  Some people have to make themselves heard and lead such miserable lives that they go into ATTACK MODE.
        http://s2.hubimg.com/u/8527693_f248.jpg
        It all boils down to HATRED and JEALOUSY!

        http://s1.hubimg.com/u/8562232_f248.jpg

        1. NateB11 profile image92
          NateB11posted 3 years ago in reply to this

          So true.

        2. Solaras profile image90
          Solarasposted 3 years ago in reply to this

          I LOVE YOUR EYES...

    4. Marisa Wright profile image92
      Marisa Wrightposted 3 years ago in reply to this

      I was a site steward on Helium for a while.  I was very active on the forums there, and one day I joined a discussion about a problematic feature of the site and how it could be improved.

      I got a snarky email from Helium saying that as a site steward, I wasn't allowed to voice any criticism of Helium.  My job was to reassure everyone of how great the site was. 

      I resigned.

      Being "positive" can so easily turn into fawning and brown-nosing.   I think it's healthy if people voice their concerns and disappointments.  In the old days, HubPages used to keep a very close eye on those discussions and the site was improved in many ways as a result.

      1. paradigmsearch profile image88
        paradigmsearchposted 3 years ago in reply to this

        Yep. HP was and is a good site. As long as it is not an outright false accusation, we can pretty much say whatever we want.

    5. frantisek78 profile image86
      frantisek78posted 3 years ago in reply to this

      Well, lots of people like to see the reactions they can cause by their comments, so this is nothing new. Everyone does it to one extent or another. Some are malicious, others not. Some of the negative comments are obviously for the sake of negativity, whilst others actually make sense. The angrier people get over them, the better some people feel, so no point in taking it seriously.

      1. HattieMattieMae profile image68
        HattieMattieMaeposted 3 years ago in reply to this

        Take nothing personally! It is always someone else's issue! They should own it! lol

        1. frantisek78 profile image86
          frantisek78posted 3 years ago in reply to this

          It seems silly to take personally a comment from someone we don't know and who doesn't know us. It can't be personal, because it's just an unknown criticizing another unknown.

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      Lybrahposted 3 years ago in reply to this

      Why would you unfollow someone for having an opinion, or thought that is different from your own?

      1. paradigmsearch profile image88
        paradigmsearchposted 3 years ago in reply to this

        Who said I did? I don't. However, I would certainly un-follow someone who makes unfounded accusations; whether against me or anyone else. Fortunately, those are few and far between.

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          Lybrahposted 3 years ago in reply to this

          Didn't you just say in your original post that you unfollowed two people?

          1. paradigmsearch profile image88
            paradigmsearchposted 3 years ago in reply to this

            Yep. And in both cases, they were repeatedly insulting other people. Note I said other people, I wasn't even the one being insulted. In short, I run away from negative people.

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              Lybrahposted 3 years ago in reply to this

              That's unfair.  I don't condone nasty and degrading comments, but people should be able to speak their mind (within reason).

              1. paradigmsearch profile image88
                paradigmsearchposted 3 years ago in reply to this

                No argument there. As an example, I don't believe in various religious precepts, but many of the people who I continue to follow do. In other words, differences of opinion do not play a factor. Only things like ethics, etc.

  2. Suzanne Day profile image96
    Suzanne Dayposted 3 years ago

    Good on you Marisa, sounds like they couldn't accept constructive criticism, which is the best way to improve anything!

  3. Cardisa profile image90
    Cardisaposted 3 years ago

    I'm in a terrible mood. Someone tried to kill my dog. I hope I didn't offend anyone today smile

    1. Marisa Wright profile image92
      Marisa Wrightposted 3 years ago in reply to this

      What?  Is he OK?

      1. Cardisa profile image90
        Cardisaposted 3 years ago in reply to this

        Yes, we treated her and she's now fine. Someone fed her poison. It has to be because we don't set poison there in the country because all the animals have to roam free. It was deliberate and I know which neighbor did it. Thanks for asking smile

        1. Writer Fox profile image80
          Writer Foxposted 3 years ago in reply to this

          I hope you report them to the authorities.

          1. Cardisa profile image90
            Cardisaposted 3 years ago in reply to this

            This is Jamaica, nothing will come of it. If they had probably tied up the dog and beat it then I could have gotten them arrested but they'll just deny they had anything to do with what happened.

            1. Writer Fox profile image80
              Writer Foxposted 3 years ago in reply to this

              I'm really sorry to hear that.  People like that will do it again if they are not stopped.  I think you should file a complaint anyway so that at least there is a record if it happens to someone else, too. Can you sue them for the Vet expenses?

              1. Cardisa profile image90
                Cardisaposted 3 years ago in reply to this

                Suing will cost more than the medical bill. To tell the truth, I'd rather go to jail than make a complaint. I'm feeling like making someone feel pain right now...sorry not thinking or feeling quite rational.

        2. fpherj48 profile image81
          fpherj48posted 3 years ago in reply to this

          Well...speaking of negativity....that is ONE NASTY, MEAN, SICK NEIGHBOR!!  Anyone who could try to harm any animal......especially someone's domestic pet (member of their family!)  has serious issues.  Poor baby.......Hope she is OK.  She needs lots of hugs.  That must have been a frightening ordeal for all of you.

          1. Cardisa profile image90
            Cardisaposted 3 years ago in reply to this

            Yes, most of my neighbors are. I really hate my neighborhood. I know that's a mean thing to say but when they  aren't stealing from your property they are devising ways to make you suffer. Argh!

            1. gmwilliams profile image86
              gmwilliamsposted 3 years ago in reply to this

              That's a shame.  Some people are just horrid.

  4. Phyllis Doyle profile image95
    Phyllis Doyleposted 3 years ago

    As Mark Twain once said: "In religion and politics, people's beliefs and convictions are in almost every case gotten at second-hand, and without examination."

    Just thought I would toss that in ....

    1. HattieMattieMae profile image68
      HattieMattieMaeposted 3 years ago in reply to this

      This is the truth! Most people never investigate the truth! Just accept what they hear and it becomes valid to them.

      1. Solaras profile image90
        Solarasposted 3 years ago in reply to this

        Thar's how many talk show hosts on radio make their living.

  5. Phyllis Doyle profile image95
    Phyllis Doyleposted 3 years ago

    Or, and this is one of my favorites: "When we remember that we are all mad, the mysteries disappear and life stands explained." - Mark Twain

  6. Phyllis Doyle profile image95
    Phyllis Doyleposted 3 years ago

    Happy 2014 to you, paradigmsearch.  smile

 
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