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  1. paradigmsearch profile image85
    paradigmsearchposted 17 months ago

    I am not a social person.

    Reclusive I am I am.

    But I have decided to take one shot, and only one shot, at meeting a female who is as I am.

    1. willmcwryter profile image58
      willmcwryterposted 17 months ago in reply to this

      try the bus station

      1. paradigmsearch profile image85
        paradigmsearchposted 17 months ago in reply to this

        Really? Not bad of an idea actually...

        1. willmcwryter profile image58
          willmcwryterposted 17 months ago in reply to this

          lots of the ladies at the bus station don't even wear bras so you won't have to try to hard just brush your teeth and put on a clean shirt and carry some cigarettes and a lighter.  when one of the bus station ladies asks if you have a cigarette you can give her one of yours and strike up a romantic conversation.  read my romantic short story hub.  i know what i'm talking about.

          1. paradigmsearch profile image85
            paradigmsearchposted 17 months ago in reply to this

            You have an interesting history.

            1. DrMark1961 profile image92
              DrMark1961posted 17 months ago in reply to this

              Ah, to be a teenager again....

              1. paradigmsearch profile image85
                paradigmsearchposted 17 months ago in reply to this

                I need to pay more attention at the grocery store.

                But I would like one most strike here.

                But real deal about that.

    2. SheilaMilne profile image90
      SheilaMilneposted 17 months ago in reply to this

      Too far, too far.

      1. paradigmsearch profile image85
        paradigmsearchposted 17 months ago in reply to this

        Alas, you are right.

    3. Snakesmum profile image90
      Snakesmumposted 17 months ago in reply to this

      Ah !  But are there actually any who meet your standards?

      1. paradigmsearch profile image85
        paradigmsearchposted 17 months ago in reply to this

        Societal there is. Ethical there is. Happy there is.

        Conclusion there is.

    4. tsmog profile image83
      tsmogposted 17 months ago in reply to this

      Meeting is easy. Discovering can be exhaustive. Spontaneously means being available somewhere the another also has interest. Perhaps the latter is a best choice? There are others too as shared here.

      As Jan shared if you like produce a Farmer's market is better than canned good store. Different clientele. You like writing perhaps a writer's group or conduct one yourself. Which has the greater propensity of attraction? Would not have to be ten week class . . . four will be about right.

      Sharing is I taught a few times a women's only Auto Preventative Maintenance class. A great attractor for my expertise. Motive of course must be considered . . .

      Those looking for a quick fix and were gone with the blink of an eye
      Those interested in high performance zooming along to quickly
      Those with a fixer-upper asking more than the class provided
      and, those who drove a classic too. wink

  2. RJ Schwartz profile image90
    RJ Schwartzposted 17 months ago

    Try Book Stores, Thrift Shops, or similar places where people can browse for extended periods of time without being kicked out - you'll identify those who might be worth your time

  3. paradigmsearch profile image85
    paradigmsearchposted 17 months ago

    A real and curious meet. SoCal.

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    Bronwyn Joy Ellioposted 17 months ago

    paradigmsearch, from Dagobar are you?

    1. paradigmsearch profile image85
      paradigmsearchposted 17 months ago in reply to this

      Looked up Dagobar, yes.

  5. paradigmsearch profile image85
    paradigmsearchposted 17 months ago

    Looking for an entity I am.

  6. paradigmsearch profile image85
    paradigmsearchposted 17 months ago

    One as me.

  7. janshares profile image88
    jansharesposted 17 months ago

    Skip regular grocery stores, become a regular at farmer's markets and organic grocers. Maybe someone will notice you. wink

  8. Kathryn L Hill profile image83
    Kathryn L Hillposted 17 months ago

    HP Project:
    The Bachelor: posting thread for paradigmsearch
                           contestants / in-house
                           screening requirement: answer question, "Are you as he?"

    Contestant:
    #1 "Why yes, I am."   in.
    #2  "I could be, if I can figure out what he is!"   out.
    #3 "Well, of course, I am."   in.
    #4 "No."  out.
    #5 "I'm sure I am."  in.
    #6 "Maybe ... not sure."   out.

    ( lol)

    1. paradigmsearch profile image85
      paradigmsearchposted 17 months ago in reply to this

      You have my attention.

      1. Kathryn L Hill profile image83
        Kathryn L Hillposted 17 months ago in reply to this

        Thanks, fellow soul.

        1. paradigmsearch profile image85
          paradigmsearchposted 17 months ago in reply to this

          Proceed?

 
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