its a hacker-bot. A web-based bot that crawls criminal records from FBI,etc. Even talking about it here is dangerous. I'm in Africa, they dont have jurisdiction here. But you, their cyber-crime division will get you so fast it'll make your head spin. Sorry, cant help.
When you decide to get a lawyer , try n find one who will work pro-bono....I dont know about the states , but in NZ a Childrens commission makes sure children are represented with their own lawyer..independant of mum an dad... Maybe call around a few places and ask , sooner the better for the kids sake...good luck with that