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Any Hubber get hit on whether online or off-line? Details please!

  1. dohn121 profile image88
    dohn121posted 7 years ago

    Several times, I've been hit on before during the course of my life from different angles, some of them awkward, some of them pleasant (some from the wrong people too!)  I'd like to hear a few spicy stories if at all possible!

    1. Helen Cater profile image71
      Helen Caterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I get hit on all the time on facebook....No way will I use msn i did a few times and it's just men wanting you to cam. I must be behind the times.

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      cosetteposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      my lips are sealed. to answer your question "Any hubber get hit on whether online or offline" the answer is of course, who hasn't? I usually manage to send them packing without giving any personal information away. in online worlds, I turn off private messaging and emailing, which does the trick quite well.

      1. dohn121 profile image88
        dohn121posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I got a couple of e-mails myself and this is with my new avatar!  Actually, cosette, you've not seen my very first avatar...Maybe someday you will.

  2. Ultimate Hubber profile image78
    Ultimate Hubberposted 7 years ago

    Many stories. Too tired to think of one to share... Maybe later...

    Maybe there is a lot to learn every time one has been through such a situation.

  3. dohn121 profile image88
    dohn121posted 7 years ago

    Anyone ever squeeze your butt?

  4. PhilD41 profile image59
    PhilD41posted 7 years ago

    Ah, such things are not in the life of a nerd.  Okay, I might not be the typical nerd, but I pretty much stuck to my self for most of my life.  I don't  know that I have ever been in this situation, at least not that I paid attention to.  So, what does that say?

  5. dohn121 profile image88
    dohn121posted 7 years ago

    Well, sometimes when you do get hit on, it can be very subtle, sometimes even TOO subtle--to the point where you are oblivious to the fact that you are being hit on!  Being pretty oblivious to just about everything, I'm a BLACK BELT at missing all signs!

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    Been hit online and offline. But sadly guys hit on me even after I say I'm not interseted and the main info I'M MARRIED!!

    UGH I hate when guys hit on me after I say i'm married. They are always so dumb when they say that they are better than my husband and blah blah blah, tooting their own horn is turn off boys!

    and when a girl says their married, leave her alone duh! lol

    1. SweetiePie profile image85
      SweetiePieposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Some men consider it the ultimate prize if they can win a woman away from another man.  It is a territorial thing.  I have talked to some women who said their boyfriend had not interested in them, but after the break up all of a sudden they are acting territorial when the find out about the new guy.

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        LOl Men...ugh they are so weird lmao. no offense guys but you are.

      2. dohn121 profile image88
        dohn121posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        But women do the same too big_smile

        1. SweetiePie profile image85
          SweetiePieposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Little bit more so with men though in what I have observed anyway smile.

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      sandra rinckposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      That's funny!  That has happened to me too, then I said... "I got a kid".  Worked like a charm. big_smile

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Hmmm...I'll have to remember that one Sandra thanks lol

  7. SweetiePie profile image85
    SweetiePieposted 7 years ago

    I am not sure all the stories are suitable to share on a public forum lol smile.

  8. Connie Smith profile image90
    Connie Smithposted 7 years ago

    Sadly, I am getting too old to get hit on, but it was fun while it lasted!

    1. dohn121 profile image88
      dohn121posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Stop talking nonsense!  Crap, I just hit on you lol

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        sandra rinckposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Have you ever not hit on someone and they took it for a line?  That is even more uncomfortable I think.

        1. dohn121 profile image88
          dohn121posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Yes sad And had to spend the next awkward moments running like the wind lol

      2. Connie Smith profile image90
        Connie Smithposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I must warn you dohn, I am an old grandma lol with four grandbabies.  That seems to run them all off.

    2. Ron Montgomery profile image61
      Ron Montgomeryposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      That sounds like a challenge.  I'm going to have to hit on you now.

  9. dohn121 profile image88
    dohn121posted 7 years ago

    I've been kidnapped by a sorority big_smile

  10. frogdropping profile image85
    frogdroppingposted 7 years ago

    Guys like frogs. What can I say.

                     wink

    1. dohn121 profile image88
      dohn121posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Kermit the Frog big_smile

  11. Helen Cater profile image71
    Helen Caterposted 7 years ago

    My friend had a guy wanting her to send pics of her feet with things like cucumbers and bananas between her toes....Each to there own god you got me started I actually know loads.

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      Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      creepy foot fetish dude lol I ran into one of those...yea I blocked him so fast hsi head is probably still spinning lol

      1. Helen Cater profile image71
        Helen Caterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Funny thing was not long after she went out with a guy and he kept asking her to do you know what with the foot....She did it though...

    2. Ron Montgomery profile image61
      Ron Montgomeryposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Cucumbers? That is perverted.  Bananas are a whole nother story!

      1. SweetiePie profile image85
        SweetiePieposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Did you ever see the episode of Sex in the City when Charlotte is given a pair of really nice shoes by a shoe salesman that just want to "hold her feet for awhile".  I love the line "Charlotte what is going on with your feet," when her friends draw attention to the new expensive shoes she is suddenly wearing smile.

        1. Helen Cater profile image71
          Helen Caterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          I remeber that one sooo funny bet it's  more common than we think. So who is going to be the first to write a hub on sexual fantasies with a smelly foot yukkkkk!!

  12. dohn121 profile image88
    dohn121posted 7 years ago

    I'm all ears smile

  13. Pearldiver profile image88
    Pearldiverposted 7 years ago

    Yes it has happened several times... And No.. I'm not saying lol

  14. Helen Cater profile image71
    Helen Caterposted 7 years ago

    She drew the line when he made her walk home alone !!!

  15. fierycj profile image79
    fierycjposted 7 years ago

    I've known quite a few crazy women...

    1. dohn121 profile image88
      dohn121posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Give up the goods, my man!

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      CabinGirlposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      You bet you have big boy, I get hit on at least twice a day by fools wanting to marry me. Not actual hubbers, blank profiles with no hubs. But I am not a kiss and tell gal smile

      1. Ron Montgomery profile image61
        Ron Montgomeryposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        fierycj was hitting on me for awhile but I finally got him to back off.

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          CabinGirlposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Just you keep your back turned Ron, I don't trust that big guy !

          1. fierycj profile image79
            fierycjposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Everyone knows about the love affair between you both; dont bring me into this...I've told you, I'm happy and content with my very voluptuously sweet Ebony Goddesses...you both can keep having a go at it. I'll stick to mine, Thank you very much. lol

  16. dohn121 profile image88
    dohn121posted 7 years ago

    I think it's so sweet to give each other such good heterosexual advice big_smile

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    badcompany99posted 7 years ago

    Nobody hits on me since I took the Johnny Depp pic down, I feel so unloved, tis sad not being hit on, jeeez even the religious freaks don't bother with me !

    1. dohn121 profile image88
      dohn121posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      What can I say, Captain...The fantasy is sexier than the reality.  I'll look the other way if you want to throw on the Johnny mask!

      1. Ron Montgomery profile image61
        Ron Montgomeryposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        If you play your cards right, fiery might throw some love your way.

        1. dohn121 profile image88
          dohn121posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Flattery will get you nowhere, my friend!

    2. Connie Smith profile image90
      Connie Smithposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Jeez, I still think you are a sweetheart, BC.  Maybe not as sexy as Johnny Depp as Captain Sparrow, but then I don't think Johnny Depp is as sexy as Captain Sparrow either.  I still love ya anyway.

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    Ghost32posted 7 years ago

    I used to miss it entirely when someone did hit on me, figuring it out only long after the Door of Opportunity had been closed and locked with triple deadbolts.  But there was one time even I couldn't miss the point.

    It was in 1965.  In Germany.  On a deserted road, with some but not much light by which to see.  On foot.  I was 21, heading back to my Army base late at night.  The GUY passed me (also on foot) going the other way, then began the conversation from a "safe" distance of a few paces.

    "Not interested?"  He asked. 

    "No," I replied politely but with deep caution.  Didn't get it, though.

    "Not even for money?" He asked.

    "Hell,  no," I responded, with some vehemence this time...but (believe it or not) I still didn't get it.  Oh, did I mention I was 21?  From Montana?  Wearing (ahem) tight white Lee jeans and two-toned cowboy boots? 

    "How big is it?"  He asked.  THEN I got it.  Oh, did I mention I was a raging homophobic, a rabid gay-hater, at the time (no emails, please; got over that more than 40 years ago)...? 

    There followed (on my part) a lot of snarling, shouting, and aggressive waving of a chunk of 4 x 4 timber that happened to be lying beside the road.  Accompanied (on his  part) by a lot of continued attempts at persuasion.

    Come to think of it, that's a Hub.  Gotta make notes....

  19. hglick profile image85
    hglickposted 7 years ago

    Geez I get hit on all the time. I joined this site called Tagged,which I originally became a member of just to use as another social bookmarking site. Instead of funny looking kitties, I have a 10 year old picture of myself posted over there. It's a funny thing, I get all of these girls 20+ years younger than myself wanting to be my friend or lover or whatever, If I just sign up for a free lifetime porn membership (LOL)

  20. AEvans profile image67
    AEvansposted 7 years ago

    Yes and I even had a stalker on my tail. I ignore the ones on-line and the ones I see in person, I simply thank them and tell them no thank you I am married. smile

  21. emievil profile image78
    emievilposted 7 years ago

    Dohn, the threads that you start?! Tsk, tsk, tsk. But I'm still answering it. LOL. Off-line, nobody hits on me especially when my husband is around or when they see how chubby I am. Seems men do not like overweight women, not in my area anyway.

    Online, now that's another story (long time ago though). Used to chat online like more than 10 years ago and I get guys asking me out or asking my phone number or asking my picture. Then when they talk to me over the phone, I get more "hits". Seems like my voice over the phone sounds like the source comes from a sexy woman. smile My friends often teased me about it because they say I looked beautiful when I'm behind the computer or the phone smile.

 
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