-This post is for entertainment and self knowledge. I would like anyone willing that knows me or assumes to know me to put me in check. I would like true 3rd person perspectives of my faults. I assure you, I will not take offense. I am not looking for compliments, only faults.
-Thread open to anyone that wants a 3rd person perspective of themselves.
In a forum you never get the whole pic. You can be mislead. That's why I'm not going to criticize you. All I'm going to say is that I liked what I read so far. And you make me laugh. Not of you but with you
Thanks Sir. I think I try to leave things open to interpretation sometimes to get a persons true thoughts. I don't want a trained answer to a question. I want individual thought. I enjoy laughing with you as well. Ty
someone wants to critique me please do? I could use all the help I can get?..........seriously....right this very moment I have a hangover.....any word of advice....lol and yes I am serious I could use the help at seeing where some of my faults are
Um well I went with out drinking for ten years more or less, do to religious beliefs, so when I finally woke up to the fact that there is nothing wrong with drinking, its all in the way you of see it that makes the difference. I have an occasional drink. I guess it just depends. sometimes I drink just to have a drink, as in sitting around with my friends, and then other times, like last night I had a need. (Heck I use to be able to drink a 12 pack of beer and a couple of shoots before I was passed out, now it takes only three beers, and I have had enough.)
I used to work as a bouncer in a bar for around 5 years. I have seen many of the negative effects of the alcohol compared to few positives. I think alocohol and weed can/should always be used in moderation if used. I sometimes have trouble with moderation myself, but I do make a concentrated effort.
absolutely, I only have a couple beers a week, and sometimes I don't have any at all. Now coffee well that there my dear, is a whole other story. Though I have to say since I have left my husband, I don't abuse it as much, nor do I use food to pacify my emotions. Weed na I do not care for it, period never did won't go back there.
To each their own, coffee, alcohol, or weed. I only suggest moderation from personal experience. I think it says a lot about you in your last statement. You sound individually strong minded "now" since you have left, I don't know if your were before or not? It also says a lot about you that you can seperate materialistic like food or other emotional supports in favor of learning instead of a quick fix.
Oh I think I was individually strong minded before I left my husband, the only thing is I could never do anything right, so I guess because I felt worthless, confused, and down right angry,and was in so much pain I had to find something to try and fill the emptiness, the numbness the loneliness, that I ate, and drank a lot of coffee.
Ty for commenting shamel. I think I have ADD problems when writing the hubs. I lose concentration too easily and get bored. It seems to be easier for me to get my thoughts down in a poem form rather than a drawn out hub. Ty for the input.
nontheless, you're a good hubber but you should find a solution for that. Get in a nice quiet place with low music effects. Have tea and start writing slowly. If you can't finish it today, proceed the day after and so forth...
lol you are silly, but you made me lol, so ty. I would probably ask some questions that I knew they didn't have the answers to. Lmao. Good call. As for the big words, I don't have many of those rambling around. I will leave the big words to the educated ones. lol
Well if you don't use big words, then I guess the ones you use, I have to keep looking in the dictionary for. I guess I do not know most of the words you use. Many times I click on the thread and read it, then I can't understand it since I do not know what the words mean. I have to give up and type something off the wall in there. I cannot be alone in this since I seen others in there saying "what?" lol. I guess I didn't feel the need to learn the big ol words since no one in my hometown could pronounce them anyhow. lol.
I am just joking pickin fun about your words like critique and enlighten and all that. I have to look em up. Actually it is not you using the big words, it is me that cant understand basic stuff I guess. Poor me, oh me, poor me. Bless my heart. Please don't make fun of me...I am southern and thats the way I speak. lol.
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