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giving up on love?

  1. mace729 profile image59
    mace729posted 7 years ago

    do we ever give up on love just because
    we was hurt?

    1. sassychic profile image61
      sassychicposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I kinda have for now, Ive been hurt and I just need a significant other to be there and love me, truely love me. . . .

      hmmmmm. . . .Wish he was here right now!
      Sasha

      1. mace729 profile image59
        mace729posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        join me my fan

  2. Colebabie profile image62
    Colebabieposted 7 years ago

    I never have. But I'm just speaking for myself.

    1. mace729 profile image59
      mace729posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      ok so what do you say if you have been in a relationship
      for over 5yrs, and you find out that your partner is cheating
      on you.

      1. Colebabie profile image62
        Colebabieposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        There is a difference between giving up on a person and giving up on love entirely. Would I be hurt? Of course. But I wouldn't swear off another chance at love and happiness.

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    ralwusposted 7 years ago

    Just keep loving them anyway, it will scare the hell out of 'em. Don't give up forgiveness is the fragrance that the flower sheds on the heal that has crushed it. Love is only 'round the corner of your heart's desire.

    1. Daniel Carter profile image92
      Daniel Carterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Dang your livin' hide, ralwus. I LOVE that saying so very much I despise it. Because it hurts.
      Still trying to get over a love myself.

      But, I digress.

      Ralwus is right. Never give up on love. When you need to move on, you thank the person for all the good they brought to your life, and let go and keep your heart open to love. And whether you think they will or not, they usually do show up again for some reason. It's never the same, but if you keep your heart open, it's fine and good. Further more, if you're open and not bitter, it's just amazing at who will show up in your life. I've lived this over and over.

  4. mace729 profile image59
    mace729posted 7 years ago

    ok so what do you say if you have been in a relationship
    for over 5yrs, and you find out that your partner is cheating
    on you.

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    ralwusposted 7 years ago

    It's not the size of the dog in the fight...it's the size of the fight in the dog. So either fight for them or leave via court and take them  to the cleaners.

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    I had becaues I had been hurt but then love had a funny way of finding me again and now I am happily married. smile

    1. Luciendasky profile image75
      Luciendaskyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      had a same experience - except the marriage part...

      mace, I wasn't in a 5 year relationship where I was cheated on - it was a three year relationship where I was engages and then cheated on - yeah it hurt... yeah I stepped back and gave up... but is wasn't permanent(no matter how much I swore it would be) and now I am in an amazing relationship and am grateful I got hurt in the first place because it would never had let me to my current relationship.

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        wow Luciendasky sorry you got hurt but glad that you are in a good relationship now

        1. Luciendasky profile image75
          Luciendaskyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          it the hurt that grows us big_smile I think we have all been hurt from time to time big_smile

    2. mace729 profile image59
      mace729posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      ok iam very happy for u im married too.! been married for
      7 1/2yrs total together 11yrs. its a question that i have
      been ask many times

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Yep a question I am asked a lot too. Congrats on the 7 1/2 years together. My husband and I just celebrated our 2 year Sept. 22. and total time together 5 years. of course we dated on and off during HS. he was my first boyfriend back in HS big_smile

  7. dohn121 profile image87
    dohn121posted 7 years ago

    I think these guys got it right:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GluCM_ggMvw

    smile

    1. Colebabie profile image62
      Colebabieposted 7 years ago in reply to this
      1. dohn121 profile image87
        dohn121posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        lol I guess you see things "half-full," eh? big_smile

        1. Colebabie profile image62
          Colebabieposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Always smile

 
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