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If you could change one day...

  1. Joelle Burnette profile image86
    Joelle Burnetteposted 7 years ago

    If you could change one day, one moment, one action, what would it be and why? Or at least, what outcome would you prefer?

    But, if you are a believer in fate (not faith), should you change that time (as bad as it seems), or would it make things worse by changing it?

    1. aware profile image71
      awareposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      while married my now x wife had a abortion without my consent or knowledge she killed what would have been my 3rd child.. her reason for doing so ? she wanted a divorce not another child. i wanted both .id have given her everything in the divorce .in exchange for the child.i have 2 grown sons . they are my pride and joy . they are the only truly good things i have accomplished in this life.i so wish id at least had the chance to change her mind. that day that moment that action is why im against pro choice. i think its a dang good reason too.

  2. Lady_E profile image81
    Lady_Eposted 7 years ago

    Can't think of one - there are too many. smile

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    mtsi1098posted 7 years ago

    I would not change a thing...

    1. Paradise7 profile image85
      Paradise7posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Would you not?  That's lucky.

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        mtsi1098posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Not to imply all days have been good but I believe in taking bad and good and learning from both

  4. prettydarkhorse profile image65
    prettydarkhorseposted 7 years ago

    one day one moment, october 25, 1991,I was forced to marry by my parents when I was 21.

  5. Rehma Jamshed profile image60
    Rehma Jamshedposted 7 years ago

    The day I got married sad

  6. tantrum profile image60
    tantrumposted 7 years ago

    I wouldn't change anything. If so, I wouldn't be the person that I'm today. One learns from experiences. Good or bad.
    I like the way I am, accepting me with all my faults and virtues, which makes me unique.

  7. easy1 profile image60
    easy1posted 7 years ago

    I wouldn't change a thing and by the way today is my birthday!!!.

    1. tantrum profile image60
      tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      HAPPY BIRTHDAY !!

      1. easy1 profile image60
        easy1posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Thanks Tantrum that just made my day.

        1. tantrum profile image60
          tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          cool

    2. prettydarkhorse profile image65
      prettydarkhorseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      happy birthday easy1! more healthful years!!!here is my incense and feng shei blessins for you

    3. Sandy Thorn profile image59
      Sandy Thornposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Happy birthday from another fellow Scorpio! (mine was yesterday)

      While I believe all of the bad choices I've made have resulted in my learning something important, I would change one of them.  When I got divorced, I let my ex off the hook financially and he took advantage of that, and my kids suffered for it.  I would hold him accountable for EVERYTHING if I could do it over again.

      1. tantrum profile image60
        tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        HAPPY BIRTHDAY !!

      2. Pearldiver profile image86
        Pearldiverposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Put your tail down did ya? lol

        1. Sandy Thorn profile image59
          Sandy Thornposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          LOL!  That I did.

    4. dejajolie profile image60
      dejajolieposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Happy Birthday!

  8. Pearldiver profile image86
    Pearldiverposted 7 years ago

    Happy Birthday Easy Scorpio...... From a Not-So-Ezi Scorp. smile

    1. tantrum profile image60
      tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Scorpio here too !! big_smile
      november 5

      1. Pearldiver profile image86
        Pearldiverposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I hadn't forgotten Tantrum lol
        Have the fireworks ready big_smile

        1. tantrum profile image60
          tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          lol lol didn't know you knew !!
          when it's yours ? big_smile

          1. Pearldiver profile image86
            Pearldiverposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            November NT

  9. GeneralHowitzer profile image63
    GeneralHowitzerposted 7 years ago

    I'll change for the better and one of 'em is hehehe behaving well in the forums, I got entangled with some kinks lately and I regret it very much hehehe...

  10. Paradise7 profile image85
    Paradise7posted 7 years ago

    Happy Birthday, easy! big_smilebig_smilebig_smile cool

    Love Tantrum's smileys.

    If I could change one day...I would have helped my sister, or tried to,  instead of being too afraid to, when we were kids.

  11. easy1 profile image60
    easy1posted 7 years ago

    Thanks Pearldiver and thanks paradise7 for your kind words.

  12. Jane Dee Summers profile image60
    Jane Dee Summersposted 7 years ago

    Dear JB, I would like to change this past Thursday when the vet had to put down our little black cat called Tinkerbell.

    I'm going to miss a little wet nose pushing at my elbow in the morning to wake me up, and trying to pull back the covers to get into my bed.

    1. Sandy Thorn profile image59
      Sandy Thornposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Aw, sorry to hear that.  We lost Twinkle, our 14-year-old Himalayan last year.  It's hard to let them go.

  13. Cagsil profile image59
    Cagsilposted 7 years ago

    In my case....there isn't one.

    Just in the fact----if you chould change one day?

    Living in the past, does not allow you to live in the present or see the future.

    If you regret anything you've done, it will weigh you down and you'll be unable to move forward.

  14. donotfear profile image90
    donotfearposted 7 years ago

    I would have changed my REACTION to many things. But one particular thing, it would be hard to determine.

  15. Stacie L profile image86
    Stacie Lposted 7 years ago

    The day I bought my last house and property.
    2006 seemed like a good time to invest in property.UGH!!
    (banging head against wall).
    yikes

  16. dejajolie profile image60
    dejajolieposted 7 years ago

    I probably should change a few things,  but being where I am today, I wouldn't change a thing.

  17. trish1048 profile image81
    trish1048posted 7 years ago

    The day my hubby died at age 36.

 
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