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Should I purchase my girlfriend a vibrator?

  1. pylos26 profile image78
    pylos26posted 7 years ago

    For  reducing  tediousness while I’m away, of course.

    1. tksensei profile image61
      tksenseiposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      If that's the issue, don't bother. Just start looking for a new girlfriend.

      1. pylos26 profile image78
        pylos26posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        And this advice comes from one who perhaps just simple held an aspirin between the knees while he was away?

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      cosetteposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      why do you assume she needs one, or even wants one? that seems to be a very personal choice. some women (myself included) don't even like those things. i just don't understand the attraction, actually neutral

    3. pylos26 profile image78
      pylos26posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I'm sorry if I have failed to answer all the questions asked of me. I just wanted to know if it would be appropriate (in your opinion) if i should and I gave my reason for the venture. I don't know if she needs one.

      1. wyanjen profile image87
        wyanjenposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        More the reason not to surprise her... tread carefully...
        Don't buy the soft jelly ones in any case. They are poisonous...

  2. tantrum profile image60
    tantrumposted 7 years ago

    yes !

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      L. Andrew Marrposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Haha, why are you so quick to reply Tant?

      One to read deeply into this wink

      HAHA

      1. tantrum profile image60
        tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        big_smile

  3. earnestshub profile image86
    earnestshubposted 7 years ago

    Nah. Let her pick it herself. smile

    1. tantrum profile image60
      tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      But it's a nice surprise! A nice present ! lol

    2. maudine_05 profile image61
      maudine_05posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      LOL!!! yeah, because she may not like the color or the size may not fit hers, be safe let her do it herself!

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    L. Andrew Marrposted 7 years ago

    HAHAHAHAHA

    Love the randomness of this hub!
    It is a breath of fresh air from all the religious hubs =P

    Umm, go for it if you think she'll take it as a joke. If not then expect a slap.

    =]

  5. EYEAM4ANARCHY profile image93
    EYEAM4ANARCHYposted 7 years ago

    She already has one. She just doesn't want to make you feel self-conscious.

  6. profile image0
    lyricsingrayposted 7 years ago

    If she wants one it's only fair to get her one or two one for her own pleasures and the other for you to share in pleasure. Dude what's up with the question anyways?

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      lyricsingrayposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Is anyone buying this joke?

      1. Beth100 profile image83
        Beth100posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        No, but vibrator sales are up!  lol

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        L. Andrew Marrposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        HAHA yeah, I just read it. Nicely put tongue

    2. pylos26 profile image78
      pylos26posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Soliciting your response, of course.

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    lyricsingrayposted 7 years ago

    zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

  8. Ivorwen profile image84
    Ivorwenposted 7 years ago

    NO!  Receiving one was the worst gift ever... (shhhhh!  don't tell my husband!) *Ahem* may I suggest a book she has wanted, or a couple of movies?

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    L. Andrew Marrposted 7 years ago

    I read a statistic the other day -

    Only 20% of women admit to mastubate,

    However, 80% of women admit they occasionally tell white lies...

    Just something to think about...

    1. tantrum profile image60
      tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Yes! Orgasmic white lies. lol

    2. fishtiger58 profile image82
      fishtiger58posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      LOL

  10. Ivorwen profile image84
    Ivorwenposted 7 years ago

    ...saying 'thank you' was a white lie...  hmm

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    L. Andrew Marrposted 7 years ago

    Of course, you could always read into the fact that you are willing to buy her a vibrator as an insecurity about yourself?

    Can you really be replaced by a machine?

    I AM ROBOT!!!

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      lyricsingrayposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      lol

  12. H.C Porter profile image84
    H.C Porterposted 7 years ago

    Go to the Adult Novelty Store together and see if she finds one she believes she will enjoy. This way you can see what kind of stimulation arouses her (perhaps use it together when you are not away). If she has no interest in the items or the store-take her to go get a book and a warm sweater to keep her warm and occupied while you are away.

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      L. Andrew Marrposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Or, best of both worlds, erotic novel.

      1. H.C Porter profile image84
        H.C Porterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Erotic Novel???? - id rather have the vibrator...and perhaps the book for after  smile

    2. tantrum profile image60
      tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      and ther are a lot of good neighbours too !

    3. pylos26 profile image78
      pylos26posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      The second half of your response is so appealing i might just do that...think it will let me escape from the shark lady?

  13. caravalhophoto profile image61
    caravalhophotoposted 7 years ago

    Yes...but you might want to let her pick it out when you are not around.  She might want a different shape or size and feel a little shy about purchasing in you presence.

    Plus, there are so many other toys beyond the vibrators that she may suprise you with...fun!

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      L. Andrew Marrposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Why did I wince at this?
      It's times like this I'm glad I'm single.

  14. pylos26 profile image78
    pylos26posted 7 years ago

    It may be that i've opened pandora's box...uhh...I may panic and run away.

  15. Michael Willis profile image77
    Michael Willisposted 7 years ago

    Uh,no! What if she likes it better?

    1. H.C Porter profile image84
      H.C Porterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      if the job is being done right- men shouldnt worry about their women 'playing'-having a warm body is preferred to having batteries...
      BESIDES-
      'playing' keeps from 'straying' when your not around  big_smile

    2. pylos26 profile image78
      pylos26posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Now that's just hypothetical.

      1. Michael Willis profile image77
        Michael Willisposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        No it is not! If a guy buys a sex toy, the woman gets all irate at a man! I call that hypocritical from a woman. Altho....it does depend on the man I guess.

        1. H.C Porter profile image84
          H.C Porterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Why when a woman has a sex toy, the man has to question the usage of the toy? Are men afraid of a toy replacing them?

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            logic,commonsenseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            I prefer to be their toy!  It would hard to replace me! smile

          2. Stimp profile image79
            Stimpposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            I mean AFTER ALL....most women I know are not threatened by the fact that men have their "toys" (in fact 2 in most cases) with them at ALL times...and in some cases use them while we are in the next room.  So, any man should be threatened by a woman having a toy beeeccaaaauuuuusssseee??????

            1. Michael Willis profile image77
              Michael Willisposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              lolol, it is called "MALE EGO!"

              1. Stimp profile image79
                Stimpposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                GOT IT!!! lol  At least you are honest.

                1. Michael Willis profile image77
                  Michael Willisposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                  lol, well yeah! We men are really not that hard to understand!

                2. mega1 profile image79
                  mega1posted 7 years ago in reply to this

                  Hey Stimp - I'm a day late - but I brought your latte - decaf, extra eggnog whipped cream with a sprinkle of nutmeg.  Right?

            2. H.C Porter profile image84
              H.C Porterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              i dont think that they should be threatened... but for some men-its a problem when they come to realize a woman actually uses it when they are alone...

              1. Stimp profile image79
                Stimpposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                That's my point....why should it bother them when we as women, KNOW, men are "doing it" alone.  What's the double standard.  I don't get it.

              2. Laura Thykeson profile image80
                Laura Thykesonposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                My ex bought me one once and then got jealous of the damn thing! He thought I was using it all the time without him, LOLOL!!!  (little did he know....)

                1. Stimp profile image79
                  Stimpposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                  Wink wink Wink wink, Nudge Nudge

                  1. Laura Thykeson profile image80
                    Laura Thykesonposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                    Just because I named it and everything...AAAhhh Mr. Pinky and I had such good times....

          3. Michael Willis profile image77
            Michael Willisposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            In some cases a fair question, but why do women get so upset if a man gets a "toy" and even sometimes a movie? I know we men are different than women, but women should know this about men.This is not New news! The "gate/door" gets closed for punishment or to try to control us and men will do what men will do. We are at a disadvantage!!!
            lol, what man ever "closes" his options up? Not being ugly...but men that I know and myself somewhat included do  seem to have stronger "sex drive" than women do it seems. We want it when we want it and (there is scientific reports out there that says so also)and we have less self-control than women do.

            1. H.C Porter profile image84
              H.C Porterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              Once again SOME men have a stronger sex drive- I myself, can EASILY stand up in comparison when it comes to drive.
              But what men don’t realize-it isn’t that our sex drive is lacking at all-when yawl want it and we say, we don’t, we are just pissed off at yawl and rather take care of driving our cars our selves.
              Or we are tired---and unless your a 1 or 2 minute man, at times the want for sleep takes over the want for sex- doesn’t mean I’m not in need.
              Movies??? Movies are cool... I don’t care if my guy has them- Ill watch them with him. Ive gone as far as putting one on for him when I am too tired to go there. I wish him good luck before I go off to sleep   big_smile

              1. Michael Willis profile image77
                Michael Willisposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                Sounds like you have some understanding of the MALE persona! I always loved the TV show According to Jim. He was crude alot, but...there is alot of truths in that show about the male-female situations.
                edit:  Especially from the Male side of things!

                1. Stimp profile image79
                  Stimpposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                  And Everybody Loves Raymond....another great one....

                  1. Michael Willis profile image77
                    Michael Willisposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                    Welllllllll.....don't actually judge us men by Raymond. lolol We are more like Jim Belushi from his show.
                    According to Jim should be an every woman's watch to learn about men!!! It may be comedy, but females could learn alot about men from this show.

                2. H.C Porter profile image84
                  H.C Porterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                  i dont know if i understand the male persona or i have convinced myself that, as long as i see things with little hidden meaning, it comes close to a males perspective on things. Ive figured out with my husband at least- things are never really complicated-yawl are pretty much cut and paste. You dont read between the lines-if I want it, dont whisper clues-shout orders... I could be wrong, but its worked for me so far  smile

                  1. Stimp profile image79
                    Stimpposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                    Or just looking at them and whatever they are doing and go "WTF?"  And that can take many meanings based on which of the the three words you emphasize.  Or, when he hears the term "Soooo, let me ask you this....."  He knows what's comin' next is not necessarily a question about hunting or football lol

                  2. Michael Willis profile image77
                    Michael Willisposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                    There you go. Men are really not complicated. We are "built" differently. I guess you could call men more "physical" and women more "emotional/mental" in a lot of ways. lolol

  16. Stimp profile image79
    Stimpposted 7 years ago

    ya knooooowwww.....guys like vibrators too and I'm not talkin' through the back door.  Could be fun for both of you when you are together.  Just sayin'.....

    1. H.C Porter profile image84
      H.C Porterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Depends on the guy... My husband was so worried about me using one when he wasnt around-he began to hide all batteries, and when I asked him if I could have a battery or two-I had to answer 20 questions...

  17. Shadesbreath profile image89
    Shadesbreathposted 7 years ago

    Buy her an assortment of cucumbers first, get an idea of what she's looking for.  You can make salad out of the rejects. Win, win.

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    sneakorocksolidposted 7 years ago

    If your girlfriend really does that it's time for another girlfriend. You wouldn't want that type of person responsible for your children.

    1. H.C Porter profile image84
      H.C Porterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      your not making a movie while the kids watch... it is a private event... and if self pleasure makes a bad parent...Im not sure there is more than a dozen or so fit people to be parents...

      1. Stimp profile image79
        Stimpposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Thank you....roll

  19. Stimp profile image79
    Stimpposted 7 years ago

    okey dokey....I'm out of this one.....

  20. Stimp profile image79
    Stimpposted 7 years ago

    OK...sorry, no I'm back in......

    Soooo, let me ask you this....you actually believe that if someone would be a bad parent if they "pleasure themselves".  And, then so should I ASSUME that ALL men are going to be horrible with MY children. 

    I'm just wondering.

    1. Stimp profile image79
      Stimpposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      This is in direct response to a comment about finding a new girlfriend cuz she'd be a piece of crap for doing such a horrid thing and would be horrible around the children.....

  21. wyanjen profile image87
    wyanjenposted 7 years ago

    NO!

    Don't buy her a toy.

    A better idea is to take her shopping. Check out a few different stores. Make an afternoon out of it smile

    If you try to guess what she might like, and you guess wrong, she will think you do not understand her at all. Very bad.

    If you don't want to go with her, get a gift certificate. But let her pick out what she wants. You might wind up looking like a complete doofus. (Ask my ex smile)

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    sneakorocksolidposted 7 years ago

    If you're referencing my comment, then yes. They have obviously made some real poor choices in their lives and have little, if any, control over their own behavior. That is not someone that should be considered a good canidate for parenthood.

    1. Stimp profile image79
      Stimpposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      But it's okay for men to do it...but their choices are fine?  What poor choices, pray tell, would be a good example?  I'm just wondering.

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    sneakorocksolidposted 7 years ago

    It's not appropriate for either sex. No poor choice is a good example, If we make one we learn from it and don't do it again.

    1. Stimp profile image79
      Stimpposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Interesting way of looking at it.  It is your opinion and I'll agree to disagree big_smile

      1. H.C Porter profile image84
        H.C Porterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        As will I- I thought that the idea of self pleasure being a moral sin was left back in the 1950's, but with respect to your opinion, I will not argue my disagreement...

        1. Stimp profile image79
          Stimpposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Ohhhhh.....I thought we were talking about people going BLIND and that's the reason for the inability to appropriately care for the children.  Noooowwww I get it lol

          1. H.C Porter profile image84
            H.C Porterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            LMAO big_smile  big_smile

  24. cindyvine profile image87
    cindyvineposted 7 years ago

    You mean you haven't bought her one yet?  What planet are you from?

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    sneakorocksolidposted 7 years ago

    No you don't get it.

    1. H.C Porter profile image84
      H.C Porterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I understand that being a chronic masturbator who has no control over their desires, wants and needs- would make them a poor candidate for Parent of the Year.
      I can see how someone making an adult film of themselves partaking in this activity while their children played aimlessly around them...would make them a less than responsible parent.
      I do not see, how masturbating alone-leaving no evidence of your activity for your children to discover, can lead to the conclusion that you are an irresponsible parent.
      If you have never placed your hands on yourself before or during sex-with the intention of stimulating yourself in preparation for sex or to continue sex, then...??? Okay????

      Like I said-I respect your opinion-but dont agree with it, or with you judging people that do enjoy self pleasure

    2. H.C Porter profile image84
      H.C Porterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I understand that being a chronic masturbator who has no control over their desires, wants and needs- would make them a poor candidate for Parent of the Year.
      I can see how someone making an adult film of themselves partaking in this activity while their children played aimlessly around them...would make them a less than responsible parent.
      I do not see, how masturbating alone-leaving no evidence of your activity for your children to discover, can lead to the conclusion that you are an irresponsible parent.
      If you have never placed your hands on yourself before or during sex-with the intention of stimulating yourself in preparation for sex or to continue sex, then...??? Okay????

      Like I said-I respect your opinion-but dont agree with it, or with you judging people that do enjoy self pleasure

  26. Stimp profile image79
    Stimpposted 7 years ago

    That's what she said....

  27. pylos26 profile image78
    pylos26posted 7 years ago

    Sounds like mr pinky was a gentleman and a scholar.

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    sneakorocksolidposted 7 years ago

    I'm not judging you or anyone else. But if for example you are a good man have taken care of yourself, worked hard on your education and Job. Then you decide that you would like to start a family and you know the mother of your children will be their most important teacher and gaurdian while you're at work. Would you feel more comfortable with:

    A. A party girl that loves the one she's with and has done so since puberty.

    B. A woman who's not sure if she's gay or Bi but she knows for sure she likes sex toys.

    C. A woman with experience who has done pretty much everything prior to marraige.

    D. A woman who may have out of curiosity had a sexual relationship but understood the sanctity issue and decided to not go the direction of multiple sex partners.

    E. A good Christian woman who was raised by loving parents that helped her learn the importance of her position in sociaty and wants to marry a man who shares her values.

    1. H.C Porter profile image84
      H.C Porterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I want my kids to know right from wrong and to make wise decisions based on what I have taught and shared with them about the world- I do not wish to ever make them feel as if I am to ridged of a woman to ever ask for advise, or for them to ever be afraid to turn to me when they are in trouble. I know that I am a good parent... I know that I have their best interest in mind every moment of every day. I am pretty sure that I am a more prepared parent, that values my children for being individuals and encourages them and helps their development more so than 90% of the population, and I own vibrators. I did not lose my virginity until I was 18. I’ve only had 3 partners in my life and only 2 of which could say I was a willing participant (my first and my husband)you can read about that on my hub- A Will to Survive...

      I would not want a Shrewd Christian Valued Woman with no informed perspective to guide my children. So all she can say to them is, "Do what I say-because I say it"... Id rather have the retired whore that can say, "You are better than what I did-make better choices"

      Someone to teach my children value (I was raised by my mother- a doctor/my father a business owner/two loving parents- who had 5 children-all of which are caring collected people-not one couple in my family has ever been divorced)- me.
      Someone to teach my children about the world (seen bad-seen sad-seen wonderful and kindness, and felt all as well)-me.
      Someone to teach my children of dangers which is part of our existence (don’t trust all-don’t doubt them either)-me.
      The value of education (I attended College, after graduating high school a year early, and have 2 Bachelors Degrees) -me
      The importance of waiting to have sex until you are ready to engage in sex-me
      (or ask about masturbating)-ME

      1. Laura Thykeson profile image80
        Laura Thykesonposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        This reminds me of when I was little and I had heard "The F word" at school. I asked my dad what it mean't and his response was "Christians don't do that"  lol  (do what the word means, that is...)

    2. caravalhophoto profile image61
      caravalhophotoposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Hey Sneako...

      turning your question around a little, this is what I want:

      A man who is clean, knows were the buttons are and how to finagle them to pleasure me and knows how to use the vibrator to pleasure us both...my ex husband was fumbler...glad I have a box of toys...may have cheated on him if I didn't.
      Don't need multiple sex partners, enjoy men (but I do love looking at women, I truely believe bodies are art)and prefer one with values and morals...

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        sneakorocksolidposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Hey Cara, I'm not too much for to crazy but when I was younger I was alittle wilder. I can appreciate your position and respect your opinion.

        1. caravalhophoto profile image61
          caravalhophotoposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          I figured you were a wild young man Sneako...coffee???

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            sneakorocksolidposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Among other things.smile

  29. pylos26 profile image78
    pylos26posted 7 years ago

    Sneako...Only a fool would get up off the floor again.

  30. tksensei profile image61
    tksenseiposted 7 years ago

    Say wha?

  31. pylos26 profile image78
    pylos26posted 7 years ago

    Just an ole silly saying.

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    sneakorocksolidposted 7 years ago

    A Shrewd Christian valued woman or do you mean A Christian woman that has values?

    1. H.C Porter profile image84
      H.C Porterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Christian has nothing to do with values. I have known Christians that are horrible people. People have values because they were taught values in their life-religion has absolutely nothing to do with measuring whether or not someone has values or how well they will raise their children. Masturbating does not mean that a person lacks value.
      Question though---when you stated-a woman that knows her place in society...What did you mean by that? What place is she suppose to take?
      May I also ask if you have children?

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        sneakorocksolidposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Yes a son. Mother and teacher first, if children are involved, then a career if she has the choice. She can choose to be president or welfare mother and anything in between.

        1. H.C Porter profile image84
          H.C Porterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          and you seriously believe that using a vibrator lessens a woman's ability to be a role model, mother and teacher for her children?

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            sneakorocksolidposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            That would depend on the individual completely. If all things were equal and you had the knowledge about this then the one that didn't might be the better choice.

  33. cheaptrick profile image74
    cheaptrickposted 7 years ago

    DR Ruth(a sex therapist)made this statement"If a women is not satisfied by her partner it is perfectly acceptable for her to Pleasure herself by Other means",thanks to her my girlfriend is now dating the Lawnmower...

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    ralwusposted 7 years ago

    Sex is an occasional pleasure but a cigar is always a smoke.  Get her a cigar instead.

  35. nataliepress profile image60
    nataliepressposted 7 years ago

    You know you just want to watch...

    1. Laura Thykeson profile image80
      Laura Thykesonposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Ah yes, someone finally said it! So true dear, that is so true...They love THAT!

  36. Laura Thykeson profile image80
    Laura Thykesonposted 7 years ago

    I have an idea! Just get her one of those catalogs, leave it lying around, and if she wants one, she will order one. Also, on Directv, there is a very latenight shopping show called "Shop Erotic" and they sell things that look like miniature carnival rides with all of the lights and things they do...lol lol

    1. maudine_05 profile image61
      maudine_05posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      cool

  37. prettydarkhorse profile image64
    prettydarkhorseposted 7 years ago

    you ask her first if she will use it,

  38. mega1 profile image79
    mega1posted 7 years ago

    Seriously though, if you buy her a vibrator, what's in it for you? I know you're gonna say the joy of giving pleasure, but there could be more to it.  Has she indicated any interest in one at all?

  39. Bovine Currency profile image61
    Bovine Currencyposted 7 years ago

    Got to ask... Does your girlfriend need a vibrator?

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      sneakorocksolidposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Are you asking me?

  40. Colebabie profile image60
    Colebabieposted 7 years ago

    Sorry I missed most of this forum. Just got back from Thanksgiving vacation smile

    I say go for it. If its something you've discussed and she wants one.

    My boyfriend bought me mine smile

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      sneakorocksolidposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      TMI!

      1. Colebabie profile image60
        Colebabieposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I don't think so. Just showing that at least one woman here has received that gift from her boyfriend and didn't find anything wrong with it.

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          sneakorocksolidposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          My ears are bleeding! Is it all about you?

          1. Colebabie profile image60
            Colebabieposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Is what all about me?

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              sneakorocksolidposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              I don't know if you don't! Goin to bed, goodnight.

              1. Colebabie profile image60
                Colebabieposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                Umm ok. Goodnight!

  41. Bovine Currency profile image61
    Bovine Currencyposted 7 years ago

    Nothing wrong with sex toys.  Cat-o-nine tails is my fav tongue

  42. profile image0
    shinujohn2008posted 7 years ago

    If you buy a vibrator for your girl, it means you do not trust her. You think she will get attracted to someone else when you are not there. If you want to please her , when u are away, try phone sex.

    1. Colebabie profile image60
      Colebabieposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Umm not true.

  43. Bovine Currency profile image61
    Bovine Currencyposted 7 years ago

    This is getting a little serious for me.  Its just a vibrator.  If you need to think about it too much, don't buy it.  I'll admit I thought this was a joke to begin with.

    1. Colebabie profile image60
      Colebabieposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I agree. Its not that serious. I didn't think it was a joke... its a legit question I guess. But I bet he knows his girl and whether or not its cool to buy her one. A group of strangers with a way different relationship isn't going to help him make a decision.

  44. AEvans profile image70
    AEvansposted 7 years ago

    I believe everyone seems to have answered the question and the censor is in, lollo:D

 
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