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An unquenchable feeling.

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    Pacal Votanposted 7 years ago

    Have you ever felt that you have to/want to look after someone even if she doesn't require/need it, or even if you were unable to do it. I feel this to the point that I actually annoy her. Is this a common feeling, and how could I get rid of it?

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    ralwusposted 7 years ago

    take a cold shower son!

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      Pacal Votanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      lol, I have a feeling that I'll take many cold showers.

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    ralwusposted 7 years ago

    Ignore her and find another, but keep yer eye on her just in case. Without her knowing of course, play it cool man!

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    Josh Ketolaposted 7 years ago

    Unfortunately, finding someone else won't fix the problem. You seem to have a need for expectance by being overbearing. She will probably find it a huge turn off, dude. You've got to realize that she wants an equal, not a guardian. She will respect you as a person if you do the same for her.

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      Pacal Votanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Although, it may sound so, I never tried to control her and never wanted.

 
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