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Motivation Needed

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    Anyone have any motivation that they can throw my way? All day I didn't feel like doing anything and of course became down, depressed, and did nothing. sad
    I can only hope tomorrow is a better day. Hope no one else as having this issue nor has to deal with it anytime soon.

    1. Haunty profile image86
      Hauntyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Isn't there snow outside Crazd?

    2. Lita C. Malicdem profile image60
      Lita C. Malicdemposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      As human beings, we all have a share of depressions each day for a million reasons. We only differ from each other by the way we handle them.

      Your hope for a better tomorrow is your greatest motivation, guy! Go for it!

    3. Stevennix2001 profile image82
      Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      im sorry to hear that. are you feeling okay?  why don't you go outside and go for a walk.  that's what i do when im sad.  sometimes just a little exercise is a great way to relieve stress.

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I'm definietly going to force myself to get out tomorrow but today just felt like eh...lol

        1. Stevennix2001 profile image82
          Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          lol.  well i hope tommorrow is a better day for you though.

        2. coverley1 profile image78
          coverley1posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Don't put off 'til tomorrow what you can do today...you can you know.  Just walk to the front gate.

          1. Stevennix2001 profile image82
            Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

            thats true too.

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            Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            but but...I don't wanna I'm already in my pjs. lol

            1. Stevennix2001 profile image82
              Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

              lol

            2. coverley1 profile image78
              coverley1posted 7 years ago in reply to this

              oh night time over there already...well if it helps you are in tomorrow over here and you are going great guns!

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                Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                lol okay fine I'll head over to Australia now hehehehe I've always wanted to visit there big_smile

    4. h.a.borcich profile image60
      h.a.borcichposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Crazed,
        My best advice to a dear friend like you....Wake up to Starbucks, have chocolate for lunch and a drink before bed smile If that don't do the trick I'll just have to share with you my cure all smile Thinking of you, Holly

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        ooo not much a drinker but hey I love Starbucks and chocolate big_smile thanks Holly!

    5. starme77 profile image86
      starme77posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Aw come on crazy d  cheer up - hey go read the thread about handling newbies questions it'll make ya laugh

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        oooo sweet hehe I'll have to go check it out starme lol

    6. wsp2469 profile image60
      wsp2469posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Honestly, if you can AFFORD the downtime--ANY downtime--things aren't as bad for you as they are for me . . . so there's a silver lining for your cloud . . . however so slight

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I've had too much downtime I need to be working...that is just how I am

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    where I live we don't get snow

    1. Haunty profile image86
      Hauntyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Do you live under the sea?

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        lol no Anaheim, CA over by Disneyland. no snow here in cali unless we go go the mountains

  3. itech profile image58
    itechposted 7 years ago

    Hello sir,
    I am not the half of yours age but faced such conditions lot,
    Only can give you what I do in such time,

    When such conditions came Me go to such places with greenery all around with natural & pollution free climate
    or
    Start doing some natural works like growing plants in home garden, creating different type of borders  in That etc.
    or
    Took the rough papers with paper board & start writing what my mind thinks, Never think that what to write.
    If my mind image the question ?
    what to write I also write that also becoz This activity makes us to think deeper.
    or
    Comes on any community site & enjoy forums while chatting indirectly & much more.

    The one word answer is " Keep doing any work & remain away from such harmful thoughts ".

    Hoping I had not written some extra.

    1. Haunty profile image86
      Hauntyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      lololololol... Crazd, I hope you are happy now. big_smile

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Yea I couldn't help but laugh at that. SIR? and then Lita saying guy? wow they definietly don't hang out in the forums do they? or they would know I'm a WOMAN lol oi!

    2. rmcrayne profile image94
      rmcrayneposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      itech I thought this was an absolutely beautiful post.  Just so you know though, Crazdwriter is a "twenty something" year old female.  She recently lost her grandfather and has honored him these last few weeks with his picture as her avatar.

      1. itech profile image58
        itechposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        OOPS hmm

    3. Friendlyword profile image61
      Friendlywordposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      You said it just right. Great advice! I'm having writers' block. No recent topic has inspired me to write a hub. But I love the back and forth of the forums. There's so many subjects you can get involved in. Politics and Religious topics keep me interested. Try them Crazd.

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        lol no way friendly I'm staying out of those ones. All they do is bicker about the same stuff over and over again it's lame! lol

  4. Paradise7 profile image85
    Paradise7posted 7 years ago

    If anyone has a LOT of motivation, they can throw some my way, too.  I wanted to sleep so much today:  do nothing but sleep.  I'm looking out my window right now at the snow and wondering if it really is summertime in Australia.  Hard to imagine from here.

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      Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I think your summer and my winter switched places, Paradise...it was cold a few days ago and no it's back to being warm again. lol *hugs* hope you feel motivated tomorrow as well.

      1. coverley1 profile image78
        coverley1posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        From where I'm sitting here in Australia it is currently 36 degrees Celsius and climbing....we have our survival kits and plans ready for the oncoming fire season.

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          Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          ugh I HATE the fire season! we're in that right now in cali too. it sucks! sad Hope fire season passes you guys wihtout a single fire!

    2. mistyhorizon2003 profile image91
      mistyhorizon2003posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I pretty much did exactly that, and didn't surface until after 5.00pm (although in my defence I didn't go to bed until nearly 07.00am the previous morning). I reckon these horrible Wintery dark days have a lot to do with it.

  5. The Rope profile image60
    The Ropeposted 7 years ago

    Craz'd - go to the local vitamin counter and get B-Complex with the very most Biotin in it that you can - or grab a "woman's day/active".  Take one, sit down in your favorite chair for 15 minutes and I promise you'll be up and producing in no time.  My staff used to call these my "go pills"  smile big_smile  .  I kept them in my drawer and everyone grabbed one at some point, teasing me about my "legal drugs".  I don't get much done without them.

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      Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I'll have to try that..even though most likely I'll FORGET to take the pills lol

      1. The Rope profile image60
        The Ropeposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        big_smile  big_smile  big_smile  I always Forget the too - that's why I kept a bottle at the office!  Of course, my honey would see me flapping around at home getting nothing done and remind me to "get some drugs".  I'm with Beth - Hugs to you both!

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          Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          hehe I'll get some definitely if it means giving me the energy I nee ESPECIALLY since I only have 6 moer days until MIL comes and I have to clean, the task I HATE the most!

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            Beth100posted 7 years ago in reply to this

            I smell cleaning team for an early Christmas gift!!! (hint to hubby, hint)

            @ The Rope -- thanks for the hug!  Oh, I so much needed that tonight!  smile

  6. Beth100 profile image83
    Beth100posted 7 years ago

    Hey Crazd! 

    Take some time, relax, find yourself, enjoy yourself, pamper yourself.  Run a hot, bubbly, fragranced bath for yourself.  Love yourself and be kind to yourself.  You are just right where you are.  That's where you're suppose to be.

    Set no expectations, and you'll be coming back full of energy and zest.  Trust me...you know I know.

    In the meantime, our boxes are panting and waiting to keep you warm and comforted.  smile 

    HUGS, and more hugs (and some Krispies and a great big mug of peppermint hot chocolate).  One more *hug* for the night!! xx

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      Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Aaa thanks for the hugs Beth and yea I seroisly think you know me better than I know myself sometimes lol you reading my journals again?

      1. mistyhorizon2003 profile image91
        mistyhorizon2003posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Beth, much though I hate to ask, I can't resist, what kind of warm panting boxes are you actually offering to Crazdwriter??

        1. Beth100 profile image83
          Beth100posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Only the warm, passionate, loyal and obedient ones!  wink

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            Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            oh what you got them to finally listen to you? lmao lol

          2. mistyhorizon2003 profile image91
            mistyhorizon2003posted 7 years ago in reply to this

            The best kind then ;D

      2. Beth100 profile image83
        Beth100posted 7 years ago in reply to this



        Didn't you hear, you're me and I'm you?  Did you forget?!?  lol

        BTW, Mistyhorizon would like us to send her a few panting boxes.  What d'ya think? lol

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          Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          OOOOHHHHH wow I must have spaced on that one lol okay now I get it you are me and I am you. got it...ooo how are those morbid story ideas working out for ya lol

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    HAHAHA oh mistyhorizon long story...it's a joke between the two of us. when she was moving she go cut by the moving boxes so I said to be careful they might be hungry and it went from there. we gave life to the boxes lol

    1. mistyhorizon2003 profile image91
      mistyhorizon2003posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Ahh, now things are becoming much clearer (thank goodness)big_smile big_smile big_smile

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        hehe you should have read the whole saga in the other forum...the endless one lol we had fun and still have fun don't we Beth? lol

        1. Beth100 profile image83
          Beth100posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          For sure Crazd!  Night life wouldn't be the same without you!!!  Oh yeah, nothing like a bottom rub to tame those boxes!  hee hee hee

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            Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Good for you! you figured it out.

        2. mistyhorizon2003 profile image91
          mistyhorizon2003posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          wish I had now sad

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            Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            aaaa sorry mistyhorizon....well hey we always bring them up from time to time so if you see us chatitng about them now you know and can hop int lmao

            1. Beth100 profile image83
              Beth100posted 7 years ago in reply to this

              Oh MistyH, the fun we have had without you!!!  I think we'll send you some of our most passionate ones to you for Christmas and let you catch up to us! wink

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                mistyhorizon2003posted 7 years ago in reply to this

                I eagerly await their arrival Beth wink

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                  Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                  hmmm I think Beth we should start mistyH off with a couple baby boxes. Mine just had another litter of 24 lol

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                    mistyhorizon2003posted 7 years ago in reply to this

                    Yes please, I have time to hand rear them then smile

  8. manlypoetryman profile image77
    manlypoetrymanposted 7 years ago

    http://www.talkingproud.us/ImagesEditorChoice/GunnyEmery.jpg
    Tomorrow...you will get moving double time with your writing (or whatever big_smile)...Do you hear me Hubber Crazdwriter!

    How's that for some Motivation?

  9. emievil profile image84
    emievilposted 7 years ago

    Group Hugz! smile Hey Crazd, want another kick in the b@tt? This time, you can kick me back as I seem to be in the same boat as you sad. Have been like this since my niece went away hmm.

  10. mistywild profile image61
    mistywildposted 7 years ago

    Bigggggggggg HUGS. I don't like it when you are down, it makes me sad too. So here ya go.... *throws a ton of motivation CW's way* big_smile

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      Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      aaa thanks misty sorry that me being down brins you down too. don't like that idea

      1. mistywild profile image61
        mistywildposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        then give me a smile, even if you don't mean it and I will feel better. big_smile

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          Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          I am smiling...see in the pic the baby...no wait thats my 'huh?' look LMAO
          big_smile there ya go

          1. mistywild profile image61
            mistywildposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            thanks, sending more positivity your way big_smile

  11. Stevennix2001 profile image82
    Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago

    oh by the way, you can also listen to music if you want.  i know after listening to music, it often calms me down.  you should try it.

  12. Stevennix2001 profile image82
    Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago

    hi beth, hows it going?  long time no see.

    1. Beth100 profile image83
      Beth100posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Hey, ya see me all the time (psssst, I'm Crazd!) lol

      1. Stevennix2001 profile image82
        Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        lol  thats very funny.

        1. Beth100 profile image83
          Beth100posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          But you already know that since you're me  which means that you have my mind and all my memories being me and being every other hubber out there!  lol

          1. Stevennix2001 profile image82
            Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

            yep, damn straight woman. or should i say im agreeing with myself lol

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            Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            uh oh that means Steven is me too? Steven how are the morbid scary story thoughts going for ya? lol

            1. Stevennix2001 profile image82
              Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

              you should know.  your me, remember?  lol

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                Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                I just wanted to make sure you can handle the nightmares ME lol

      2. mistywild profile image61
        mistywildposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I'm confused hmm

        1. Stevennix2001 profile image82
          Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          the other day, mega made a joke saying that she thinks me and beth were secretly the same person, so it caused everyone else on here to joke around that many users on this site were in fact the same person, using multiple accounts.

          1. mistywild profile image61
            mistywildposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            well, that clarify's it for me then lol

  13. Stevennix2001 profile image82
    Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago

    so what have you been up to beth?

  14. donotfear profile image90
    donotfearposted 7 years ago

    Remember, when it feels the worst, you can promise yourself that "It won't always feel this bad". I can relate to the 'down feeling' one seems to get for no apparent reason. Been experiencing a huge low myself. It's just the way we're wired. Physical excercise seems to help a great deal to fight that 'down' feeling. Stirs up endorphins in your brain. I try to surround myself with positive people or do something fun with a friend. Go around somebody who is absolutely hilarious....I even go to a movie alone if I feel like it. I understand your feeling. Like I said, I'm fighting it tooth & nail right now, but I refuse to give in to 'stinkin thinkin'. So tomorrow, I'm going with my spouse to counsel a dear friend of mine who is in desperate need of spiritual, financial & emotional healing. Gets the focus off my own 'pity party'. Relax, sit back and pamper yourself! You deserve it.....and don't give up! It's going to feel better again!

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      Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      thanks donotfear...I am sorry you are feeling down too hope you feel better tomorrow.

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    oh Beth in another forum Steven said it gorsses him out when girls give him nicknames so I gave him the nickname Stevie-boo lol

    1. Stevennix2001 profile image82
      Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      lol  why did you have to tell her that?  now she's going to call me that too probably.  lol

    2. Beth100 profile image83
      Beth100posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Okay, ME's killing herself laughing!!!!!  lol  OMG, Cris, I've been struck with inspiration!   

      *waking up the kids killing herself laughing*

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        hehehe ME don't die of laughter..though that would be a good way of going lol

      2. Stevennix2001 profile image82
        Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        what inspiration is that?

  16. Beth100 profile image83
    Beth100posted 7 years ago

    hmmm..maybe it's ME's nightmares your having!  lol

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      Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      nope those are ME nightamres lol

  17. Stevennix2001 profile image82
    Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago

    or mine!

  18. Beth100 profile image83
    Beth100posted 7 years ago

    *still dying of laughter*

    OS, just woke up everyone laughing!  Ahhh haaaa haaaa....

    @ MistyH -- We'll be sending some flattened to your email box.  Just resurrect with some great mouth to mouth in the corners, stroke the tape on the bottom gently and fold flaps.  VOILA!  Some wonderful, loyal, passionate boxes!  Enjoy your new warm companions!

    @ Crazd -- ME'S still laughing to tearing point (pass me a kleenex and wipe our eyes, pleeeze!)

    @ Steven -- Oh, wouldn't you like to know!  But I'm laughing too hard to tell you!  lol

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      Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Oh cr@p I'm all out of tissues sorry I'll have to use my sleeve to wipe our eyes lol

    2. mistyhorizon2003 profile image91
      mistyhorizon2003posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I await their arrival and shall give them the closest of attention. I am sure they shall be very happy here and I shall take the greatest care with their flaps ensuring they are kept warm and regularly stroked wink

    3. Stevennix2001 profile image82
      Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      lol  you love keeping me in suspense, don't you?  lol

  19. apace profile image61
    apaceposted 7 years ago

    Hope you have some solace from the heartfelt comments of other readers.

    Motivation is a complex thing.

    For me motivation was never really a difficult thing. It was always just a matter of trying harder, pushing myself, being prepared to win or lose, and treat victory and defeat as imposters (Rudyard Kipling). Sometimes there are things that we can't control that can cause major problems with our will to go on. This has happened to me.

    However, I always find exercise makse a big difference, and as other people have mentioned, keeping occupied in any way possible to stop those negative ruminations. Punishing yourself doesn't help you. Be kind to yourself.

    Hope you are feeling better soon.

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      Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      thanks apace and yes I will push myself more

  20. Beth100 profile image83
    Beth100posted 7 years ago

    *still laughing*

    @ MistyH -- The more attention you give, the more they love you.  With 2 girls and 2 boys, you'll have at least 36 by the New Year if you stroke them tenderly.  wink  Enjoy (and share all the us!)

    @ Crazd -- No, no sleeve!  ME needs kleenexes...it's all running everywhere!  ha ha ha ha ha

    @ Stevie-poo -- Thought you just loooovvvved suspense!  wink

    *oh, can't stop laughing*

    1. Stevennix2001 profile image82
      Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      lol  yeah, your just lucky i like you, otherwise, i'd be upset.  lol

    2. mistyhorizon2003 profile image91
      mistyhorizon2003posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      How do you tell what sex each box is Beth? (smiles innocenty) wink

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    HAHAHA stevie-poo haha that is another good one haha I call him stevie-boo and you beth call him stevie-poo lol lol okay okay I'll use some toilet paper then

    1. Stevennix2001 profile image82
      Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      lol  you see what you started?  lol

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I didn't start anything YOUR the one who started it by posting that you hate it when posted you don't like nicknames! lol

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          Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          lol  that's true.  oh well, your just lucky i like you guys, or else i'd be upset.  lol

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            Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            aaaaaa stevie-boo likes me big_smile lol

            1. Stevennix2001 profile image82
              Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

              lol

            2. mistyhorizon2003 profile image91
              mistyhorizon2003posted 7 years ago in reply to this

              Does Stevie Woo Whops have a personal box too? big_smile

              1. Stevennix2001 profile image82
                Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

                not you too mistyhorizon?  i expected that from them, but from you also?  lol

                1. mistyhorizon2003 profile image91
                  mistyhorizon2003posted 7 years ago in reply to this

                  No offence Stevie wibble wobbly bops big_smile

                  1. Stevennix2001 profile image82
                    Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

                    gee i never heard that one before.  lol  oh well, your lucky i like you girls, to put up with the nicknames.  lol

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                Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                oh no I need to send a few to him too lmao

                1. Beth100 profile image83
                  Beth100posted 7 years ago in reply to this

                  No, no Crazd!  He's much too delicate for them!  Why, they'd bite him for sure (then again, maybe he'd like that our little Stevie-boo-poo-woo-whops!) lol

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                    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                    lol lol lol oh man now i'm laughing even harder...ow there goes my ribs cracking lol

              3. Beth100 profile image83
                Beth100posted 7 years ago in reply to this

                *laughing has started again!*

                Oh MistyH, poor Stevie-boo-poo-woo-whops doesn't have his own personal passionate boxes...he's much too delicate for them!  lol

                As for girl or boy...well, a little experimentation can go a looonggg way! wink

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                  Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

                  whats a personal box? and does this mean you girls are going to experiment on me or something?  lol

                  1. Beth100 profile image83
                    Beth100posted 7 years ago in reply to this

                    Oh, you sooo wish, Stevie-babes!  lol

                  2. mistyhorizon2003 profile image91
                    mistyhorizon2003posted 7 years ago in reply to this

                    I heard you were partial to fluffy boxes Stevie Bobble Bibble!! smile

  22. Beth100 profile image83
    Beth100posted 7 years ago

    Girls, is Stevie-boo-poo-woo-whops-bobble-bibble-dribble serious about instructions?!?  Guess he's just too innocent for our boxes!  lol

  23. Beth100 profile image83
    Beth100posted 7 years ago

    Get my pic Crazd?

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    yep i did thanks Beth big_smile
    and yea I think you're right Stevie-boo-poo-woo couldn't handle our boxes lol

  25. Beth100 profile image83
    Beth100posted 7 years ago

    *can't breathe from laughing so hard*

    gasp! gasp!  kleenex, puleezzeee!!! gasp! gasp!

    *oh, my ribs hurt!*

  26. Stevennix2001 profile image82
    Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago

    nah, i think i understand what you girls are talking about now. i would love to handle all your boxes.  wink

    1. Beth100 profile image83
      Beth100posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Me thinks you've been mistaken!  It's not us that are boxes... lol


      *laughing uncontrollably*

      Oh, so sorry for laughing, Stevie-weebie-oh!

      1. Stevennix2001 profile image82
        Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        then what do you girls mean by boxes then?  i thought it was a metaphor for something else.  wink

  27. Beth100 profile image83
    Beth100posted 7 years ago

    Gonna leave you in suspense for at least 24 hours...it's already the next day here...nite nite!  Sweet dreams y'all!

    1. Stevennix2001 profile image82
      Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      sweet dreams beth.  have a good night okay.

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      Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Night Beth and yea Stevie-doo-poo-boo doesn't get what we are talking about lol

      1. Beth100 profile image83
        Beth100posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Leave 'im in the dark!  Like all men should be!  Oh, poor Stevie-evie-poo!  xxx (hope that makes up for it all!) 

        Wanna see ur new avatar Crazd!

        1. Stevennix2001 profile image82
          Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          yeah, it's always worth a kiss from a pretty girl.  wink

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        Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        why don't you enlighten me then?

        1. Beth100 profile image83
          Beth100posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          You handle suspense better than anyone! wink

          1. Stevennix2001 profile image82
            Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

            is that a good thing?

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    lol beth no not gonna use it because I feel like I am stealing it from you so no I will find my own pic smile

    and no worries I'll leave him in the dark. I'm surprised he didn't see when I told mistyh about it and explained it then lol

    1. Stevennix2001 profile image82
      Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      really?  on this thread?

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        yep on this thread

        1. Stevennix2001 profile image82
          Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          which page?

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            Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Not telling! lol

            1. Stevennix2001 profile image82
              Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

              you girls love teasing me, huh?  lol

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                Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                maybe we do...maybe we don't hehehe

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                  Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

                  very funny.  lol

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      Beth100posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      You're not stealing it!  I would love it if you used it!  I don't ever change mine (maybe for Christmas)!!!  Please, if you like it, you can use it!  It's even a kitty!!! And I thought of it when you brought up the new avatar!

      *laughing stopped.  Frowning now*

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        aaa Beth don't frown smile. I'll decide what pic to use don't worry

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          Beth100posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          I know, just don't use the excuse of "stealing" to not use it, that's all.  smile

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            Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            okay okay

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    AdviceDoctorposted 7 years ago

    What you can do is completely clearing your head, do not think about anything. Go out for a nice drive or something, something where your mind really just.. wanders off. Have some you time. Or if you're like the super social person, dump all your emotions on someone.

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      Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      sadly when I'm not motivated I'm not thinking at all. and definitly not a social person lol but a drive sounds nice I'll do that tomorrow definitely. smile

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        mistywildposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        don't forget a nice long quiet bubble bath big_smile

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          Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          yea I can't sit in a bubble bath too long lol it's something weird I know but I can't just sit in a bath for a long time

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            mistywildposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            then a nice long steamy shower. big_smile

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              Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              I can do that big_smile

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            AdviceDoctorposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Taking a BATH? You're just like.. sitting there stewing in your own filth.

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              mistywildposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              not if you shower afterwards lol lol

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                Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                took the words right out of my mouth lol

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        AdviceDoctorposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Alright, if you're the clear head type, what you can try is keeping yourself busy. Do chores, go shopping or just something! What is REALLY good for when you need motivation is having sex. I'm not kidding. It bumps up your entire nerve system.

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          Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Yea I can't do stuff like that when not motivated lol I hate cleaning and doing chores and shopping eh

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            AdviceDoctorposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            You're tough. See, I knew you weren't as mentally stable as I first thought you were! You Californians.

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              Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              Mwhahahaha Told ya I wasn't mentally stable lol and you can blame my tomboy side for the not liking to shop part lol

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                AdviceDoctorposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                I knew you were a tomboy! That sense of humor had to come from somewhere!

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                  Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                  wow you had me pegged as a tomboy sweet no one gets that right off the bat

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                    AdviceDoctorposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                    What can I say.. I have a useless degree in reading people. Lol

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    mistyhorizon2003posted 7 years ago

    Night all off to bed shortly, and a special goodnight to our very own Stevie Wevie, bobblsy wobblsy, boo boo bops, wobble bot, squishy bits XXX

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      Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      LMAO night mistyh

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        mistyhorizon2003posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Night Crazd wink

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      mistywildposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      lol lol lol

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        mistyhorizon2003posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Night Mistywild smile

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          mistywildposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          night mistyhorizion.

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      Beth100posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Nite Nite MistyH...sweet dreams and lots of squeezing with your new buddies! wink

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        mistyhorizon2003posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Night night Beth, off to do a bit of squeezing now smile

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      Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      you have a good night mistyhorizon.

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    Beth100posted 7 years ago

    Okay, I'm off to see the wizard, the wonderful wizard of b'oz!

    smile 

    Seriously, one last post over there and I'm gone!

    xxx

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      Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      uh huh surrree lol

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        Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        you speak like your skeptical  lol

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          Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          well...I do now ME and yea... lol

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    aaaa that is not a useless degree, Advice. that is a cool degree. I can sometimes read ppl big_smile

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      AdviceDoctorposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Yeah? Diagnose me. I'll tell you afterwards if you got me right.

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        ummm....dang it I hate tests lol
        okay you are a strong smart guy who loves his family and has a good sense of humor. you also sometimes question your choice in becoming a shrink.

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          AdviceDoctorposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          I'm not very smart. I just realized like 6 months ago Georgia is next to Alabama..

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            Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            stop denying it you are smart. by learning new things you just add to your knowledge which makes you smart!

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    wyanjenposted 7 years ago

    Hit and Run Post

    I'm taking off for the night but stopped in here on my way out, to say

    hi guys smile

    and

    keep smilin' crazd.
    **hugs**
    If you need us to convene a Depp meeting, I can gather the committee smile

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      Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      lol dang it I'm not the President of the Depp club I swear! lol thanks jen I'll do my best

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        wyanjenposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        sure. ok. if you say so.

        well then here is some inspiration for the rest of us:

        http://i665.photobucket.com/albums/vv19/wyanjen/depp.jpg

        good night and happy depp.

        take care crazd

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          mistywildposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          yummyyyyyy. big_smile

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    okay need to try and get sleep ttyl peeps and thanks for making me laugh and feel better. hopefully tomorrow I get up and can push myself to do stuff.

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    AdviceDoctorposted 7 years ago

    Good night, sleep tight, don't let the bed bugs bite!

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      Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      lol if they try and bite me I'll send them over to my hubby to bute lol night and chat with you later

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    Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago

    where is everyone?

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    Lisa HWposted 7 years ago

    You know how they say, "Never put off until tomorrow what you could do today?"  Well, sometimes it's ok to put off until tomorrow what you could have done today.  In fact, sometimes if you keep putting off until tomorrow the whole problem somehow does just go away.   lol

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      Mark Knowlesposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      That is going to be my new motto.

      "You never know. Put it off for a day or so and it may go away all on it's own."

      big_smile

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        coverley1posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Wishful thinking or positive thinking?

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          Lisa HWposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          It's something I have to remind myself all the time, because I tend to get all wrapped up in the not-procrastinating thing.  lol   However, as any school kid who hasn't done his math homework will tell you, June inevitably rolls around and makes all the worries go away.   lol  (Of course, I wouldn't recommend this philosophy when it comes to washing dishes, doing laundry, or feeding your plants (or your children).

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            Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            HAHA you guys are funny

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    mistywildposted 7 years ago

    how's you motivation today Crazd? hmm

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    lol I got 3 hubs out today and 2 yesterday misty. YAY lol I got my motivation back finally

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      mistywildposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      told you I was sending some your way big_smile glad you back to being happy.

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        apaceposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Hi again Crazd. I think you could write about anything you want actually. Glad to see your motivation is back!

        You know how to motivate others. I read every post in this thread. Something compelled me to return. You have a really engaging style and presence. Being a bit slow on the uptake I became a little confused at times, reading through the posts, but it was worth it. smile

 
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