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Does your significant other satisfy your every need?

  1. princess-sisi profile image60
    princess-sisiposted 7 years ago

    Does your significant other satisfy you emotionally, physically, mentally and financialy to the best of their ability?

  2. Misha profile image76
    Mishaposted 7 years ago

    Why should she? smile

  3. princess-sisi profile image60
    princess-sisiposted 7 years ago

    So you dont think she should.

  4. donotfear profile image90
    donotfearposted 7 years ago

    No one can be totally satisfied. As humans we aren't capable of it nor are we capable of doing enough to earn total satisfaction.

  5. princess-sisi profile image60
    princess-sisiposted 7 years ago

    okay well do they lack anything or is their thing you wish they would change

  6. Misha profile image76
    Mishaposted 7 years ago

    Nah, you are heading a dangerous path, directly to breakup/divorce. smile

    Trust the old man, the only way to stay in relationship is to accept your partner with all his/her shortcomings. You can't change him, and attempting this will just ruin your relations. smile

    1. princess-sisi profile image60
      princess-sisiposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Hi! Misha man theirs just certain things that i know my friends would want their significant other to change so i figuered how many more people are out their with the same problem. Thats being unsatisfied.

      1. kerryg profile image87
        kerrygposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        If they hate some aspect of their significant other so much that it's ruining their relationship, they should just leave. I'm quite a bit younger than Misha, but plenty old enough to know that people rarely change, and trying to make them change is just a recipe for trouble.

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    lyricsingrayposted 7 years ago

    my every need.  for real.

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      blatvaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Same here.

      1. princess-sisi profile image60
        princess-sisiposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Every need, were did you guys find them at?

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          blatvaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Hahaha Myspace, Like, 5 years ago XD  No lie.

          1. princess-sisi profile image60
            princess-sisiposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            No way! Im going to have to get me a my space.

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              blatvaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              It was just a fate encounter smile  I never would have imagined moving in with him 5 years ago.
              But now, I'm happy. Since I can't find a job in this town, He's bee taking care of the bills. He makes me happy everyday, and always makes me smile.  And I guess (He tells me) I satisfy all his needs too >.> *cough*
              I'm afraid there is no sight.. I just caught a good man ^^''  It was total fool's luck.

              1. princess-sisi profile image60
                princess-sisiposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                I need some of that luck!

        2. Ron Montgomery profile image59
          Ron Montgomeryposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Apparently, somewhere other than Russia smile

    2. princess-sisi profile image60
      princess-sisiposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Lol I'm glad you feel that way.

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    sneakorocksolidposted 7 years ago

    Look once she straps on those leathers and pulls on those boots the only thing I have to wait for is the crack of her whip and I'm there!

  9. PrettyPanther profile image84
    PrettyPantherposted 7 years ago

    No, and I would not expect him to.  He does, however, satisfy those needs that are important to me in a relationship.

    1. princess-sisi profile image60
      princess-sisiposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Thats nice.

      1. PrettyPanther profile image84
        PrettyPantherposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Yes, that can be hard to find.

  10. habee profile image90
    habeeposted 7 years ago

    Nahhh...that's why you ned a couple of friends on the side - the kind that come with benefits. lol

    1. Cagsil profile image61
      Cagsilposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      roll

      1. princess-sisi profile image60
        princess-sisiposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Must be nice! Friend with benifits

    2. Unchained Grace profile image59
      Unchained Graceposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Hey, Habee! Been trying out some of your recipes. As to the topic, I would have to agree with Misha. We've both been down the road a ways and we do see some things differently and react to them differently. We're also getting on in years, so we do our best for each other. May not always be right, but it's the best we can do.

      1. princess-sisi profile image60
        princess-sisiposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Your crazy

      2. princess-sisi profile image60
        princess-sisiposted 7 years ago in reply to this
    3. KCC Big Country profile image84
      KCC Big Countryposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      LOL....Where do I find one of them?!

      Just kidding......those are actually a dime a dozen.  My hubby doesn't satisfy all my needs, but I'd be bored with him if he did.

    4. Shil1978 profile image87
      Shil1978posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Lol - like your humor!!

  11. Cagsil profile image61
    Cagsilposted 7 years ago

    As for me answering this question. I guess, it really doesn't matter, I don't have a significant other. yikes lol lol

  12. TheGlassSpider profile image80
    TheGlassSpiderposted 7 years ago

    I can't even get my S.O. to fulfill the needs that a partner ought to fulfill...much less my every need. lol

  13. princess-sisi profile image60
    princess-sisiposted 7 years ago

    Confused

  14. habee profile image90
    habeeposted 7 years ago

    Hi, UG! I was joking in my previous post! I have a wonderful husband, but he's a bit older, so we do have a few problems in this area. Otherwise, he's dang near perfect!

    1. Unchained Grace profile image59
      Unchained Graceposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      My wife is a southerner, too. South Florida. She puts up with a lot from me as we've had to sacrifice much in order to maintain our responsibilities (Unchained Grace Ministries) with regards to the homeless. Most of the time, we have very little or no money at all as it goes to the ministry. Since we have both experienced homelessness in our lives, we know the feelings.

      She has said,"Who else would put up with either one of us." She's probably right.

  15. habee profile image90
    habeeposted 7 years ago

    It's great that you have each other!

    1. Unchained Grace profile image59
      Unchained Graceposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      If I may, and this is directed to all, what is the most important need you'd wish your significant other to fill but can't? I'm not saying "Won't."

      1. PrettyPanther profile image84
        PrettyPantherposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        With my ex-husband, he was unable to fulfill my need for emotional intimacy.  It was important enough for me to divorce him over it.

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        Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        nice distinction there. I wish there was a can't, it's the won't that gets to me...

  16. Unchained Grace profile image59
    Unchained Graceposted 7 years ago

    Perhaps that might be too much a personal thing or at least one
    some may be uncomfortable answering.

  17. IslandVoice profile image82
    IslandVoiceposted 7 years ago

    It's a 2 way street. It works best that way for us, and we're pretty satisfied.

  18. brimancandy profile image80
    brimancandyposted 7 years ago

    Ask me this question 15 years ago I would have said yes. But, no. Not at all. Just there breathing, eating, and sleeping.

  19. CMHypno profile image89
    CMHypnoposted 7 years ago

    Other people in your life are not there to meet your needs. Why should another person, however close a relationship you have, be there only to think about your needs and service them.

    They are a person in their own right, and have their own needs and wants, so it should be a two-way thing with each person also acknowledging that they cannot possibly meet all the needs of the other.

  20. thekidandblue profile image60
    thekidandblueposted 7 years ago

    Mine says I do and she does for me so I guess we're quite lucky smile

  21. Rochelle Frank profile image89
    Rochelle Frankposted 7 years ago

    I need to have a clothesline put up in the backyard-- been waiting for years.

    1. princess-sisi profile image60
      princess-sisiposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Lol!

  22. theirishobserver. profile image61
    theirishobserver.posted 7 years ago

    Yes indeed, lots of love and then some lovin

    1. princess-sisi profile image60
      princess-sisiposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Must be nice.

 
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