I am in no way a perfect mother or person, however I do know the difference between right and wrong, a concept that seems to have clearly escaped you as a result of your serious drug abuse and obvious lack of common sense or moral responsibility.
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Lyrics, funny but the video didn't strike me the way it obviously has her. Looked like the record of a lost life recorded as a reminder. I've been through more crap in my life than any 10 other people. The prime lesson I've learned, you don't judge others dammit. Blow her off, you don't have time for her kind of hate.
I left her a comment. not as short and sweet or to the point as Texan but I did leave her message especially saying tht she isn't wanted around here. Lyrics I say screw her. She ain't worth it and if she shows her ugly face here in the forums she'll get attacked not love.
Lyrics did THAT Very very well. And I told her to come back and talk to us when the butterflies are no longer flying out of her ass as she walks through the garden in her white picket fence world. Her, in reference to DB1980.
People are always looking for a way to bring others down in order to build themselves up. Doesn't matter if it is family, friend, or just a person walking down the street who feels the need to judge they will all get theirs one day.
I just posted a message on your hub Lyrics,while I do not get or understand all of your pain and would never claim to since I have not been there, I do understand some of it. Know this...anyone who thinks they have a right to judge or know the reasons things happen will eventually find out otherwise. She will get hers a hundred times over throughout her years
Hey DB1980, Did you receive my question about your definition of morality? It is obvious you haven't a clue about any form of moral standard, because had you, you would have keep your pathetic comments to yourself and left the hub, when you were done reading. As for the moral standard of Kimberly, she happens to out do you in a moments notice, because she is compassionate and a very loving woman. You sad attempt to play the righteous individual, was under a false pretense about life, which has become more than obvious, that you yourself are not worthy of having a daughter to begin with. It's a real shame that you actually have a daughter. She must be one of the most twisted children in existence. Not to mention, your parents did a lousy job of raising you. Either way, get a life, get a grip on whatever it is between your legs and go get laid. But, I beg of you...please don't reproduce anymore....we already have enough ignorant people in the world and don't need anymore.
Lyrics, BCurrency here, dropped in tonight to look around and noticed this and your other thread on the forum. The woman has issues. Issues that she is unwilling to deal with.
We all know the type, they are everywhere. You are big enough to write the hub, remember that and remember you are not writing for this sort of reader.
It seems easy for some people to live in the clouds. As they say, its the quiet ones you need to watch. Suffering the consequences of drug abuse does not make you an outsider. Suffering from mental illness does not make you an outsider. What makes you different, unique, brave... it is your courage to share your story. A story that almost anyone can relate to. For those whom have never experienced addiction or severe mental illness personally, it is never far, a mum, dad, sister, brother, friend. Again, I will repeat, addiction and mental illness does not need to be isolating. You have taken it upon yourself to share these stories time and again, there is a purpose, you are gaining and others too.
There is nothing at all wrong with what you wrote in the hub. Be proud of who you are. You are a good person. Keep it up.
Lyrics, I have read both comments, your hub (several times, on different occasions) and watched the video. Your life is your own.
I do not believe that hiding one's past from our children helps them at all. Rather, being upfront and honest will win their trust. Children will detect hypocrisy, and always detest it.
You have not hidden your past. Your daughter should have every reason to trust you, and to look to you for advice, especially should she come across these things and realize that you have overcome. I personally believe that parents who have overcome have just as much to offer as those who have never been there.
"DB1980, your definition of right and wrong are not shared by everyone, and should not be imposed as an absolute truth. In fact, many people find great flaw in what you consider to be moral. Please refrain from harassing the author of this hub."
I just viewed and commented on the video. This is reality. Stark, true, life. This is what the video is, as written by Kim,professionally done I might add: "A private snapshot into the behaviors and consequences of a drug addicts life. So much pain, never a smile and always all alone, always. The disease of addiction, alcoholism and mental illness are all one and if not treated can be fatal Recovery is possible, but not alone, not alone. Reach out to anybody just to feel safe, You no longer have to be alone" This was Kimberly's reality and now she's turning it into a positive to show the contrast of what WAS to what IS NOW. So if Miss Self-Righteous wants to shame & blame Kim, she needs to do the same for all those celebs out in Lala land who bare their boob, butts and bodies while humping each other on the screen on these so called R rated movies portraying all kinda immorality. Go after Britney then! Shame her.....shame the countless others who have put their life out there to be portrayed by the media...the same people who have kids that also could be influenced.
Keep your opinion, lady. It's yours, but don't relentlessly bash & bruise for righteousness sake.
I guess I am the only one seeing that Dianne has a point.
I am an adopted child. My biological grandparents found me when I was 17 and I was introduced to the family. Most of them had one or other form of mental disease. I knew mental diseases are often hereditary and at the age of 17, it scared me to death. I have a better understanding now, but I don't think a child of 12 should read this about or from her mother without being supported and guided.
What's the problem ? the problem is in you ,not in the situation. nothing to feel ashamed of. And if you teach your child to cover things up because you think are shameful, you're making a big mistake.
I am an adopted person too. the only reason I would want to find my egg and sperm donor is to find out health wise what is up with them so I know for myself as well as my future children. And if I stumbled on a hub by my egg donor about something like this I would be happy to know.
it was kind of you to fan her also. just a thought could you have been scared to death because you didn't know or were not explained the full honest truth?
if you understood my point of naming her was to make sure that family's name is known. my point was to be sarcastic and did you enjoy repeating her name again here too? i hope i can be like you one day when i grow up.
Izzy, it's not as if Kim's daughter is going to find this tomorrow. And if she did, it means she is desperately seeking on the Internet to find news about her mother, in which case she has the right to know about the circumstances which led to her being separated from her mother.
What doesn't kill you makes you stronger...SO you're one hell of a strong woman. Which is what you're daughter would see when she finds you. It might be alot to take in, but you're being honest and there's nothing wrong with that
I second all the kill 'em with kindness comments and Karma is a bigger bitch than you ever have to be
Boy, some of you guys really do need to take a long hard look in the mirror... but not because the reasons Lyricsingray suggests.
Lyrics is rapidly approaching the status of an online emotional drama queen. Unable to contain her private misery, she is now sucking others into her drama and playing it out online as a sort of spectacle. By playing her game you become as guilty as she.
If it means she is helping someone then I am guilty of 'following her game' as you so rudely put it. if you don't like something here is a thought don't read someones hubs or threads. Wow what a freakin' concept!
Why should I leave just because I say something that does not fit into your little online drama? If anything, my contribution here is very valid. I represent the reality check that you and your collection of minions need to hear.
I don't feel bad about my choices and you don't even know what the fuck they were einstein so back the fuck off now or i will report you for insulting someone's character-mine. back off now im telling you and i owe you no explanation for anything. ps sorry your not better looking but at least your smart, wow
have you gotten some sleep yet, lyrics? Listen, I know from experience if you don't take a pill or something and get some sleep you're gonna be in ER soon - really! we care, so get some sleep and see you in the morning, ok?
Lyrics should be an inspiration to anyone trying to overcome life's battles. I have battled many things in my life and none as hard as what she has dealt with but they were my battles none the less and any one who succeeds at being a better person through lessons in life should be respected and admired not beaten down and ridiculed. Lyrics you are an inspiration!!
I've read all the comments here, so I don't need to go her "side". I'll schedule a time to be there next time. We all are fair in love and war, aren't we? Her mistake would be enough. She'll be more careful next time. I admire you, so cheers to a bright Lady!
You ever post my daughters name again in a forum to make a sarcastic remark that you don't even know what your talking about I will not rest until the same shame is forced upon you as a reminder of your unbearable pain like you have slapped me in the face. You can't imagine how furious I m and it will not fade. You my friend will always be top of mind.
I am sorry if you feel hurt. It was not my intention.
I obviously don't understand what is going on here, whether the names are fictional or what. I am sure your daughter will be happy to know you love her. I am just saying that when I was young, I could not deal with such things and I hope that she will have someone to help her deal with so much information, something I did not have.
I just watched the video in all its power and tragedy, I congratulate your courage and triumph. Yet even through the video and your writing I could not begin to fathom or understand the pain, so even such encouragement has little depth.
It has been said that “into each life some rain must fall” in that we must all understand disappointment and sorrow before we can fully comprehend real joy and love. Some lives have but a light sun shower, while others have raging storms. Who are any of us to judge the path of devastation or the value of restoration unless we have sheltered in the same place during the same tempest?
The lesson you have offered to others is the beyond the worth, for those who do not see and criticize, have not yet seen their storm.
I'm barely hanging on here I am of no value to this discussion Everyone is entitled to their own opinions I have a funeral to deal with and the swine flu to pamper of course also a mmiagraine and still no sleep
all i ask if you could just think of the other side of the coin before judging me, not for your approval but for your understanding.
Im sorry I emotionally can't take anymore but love all your support
You hubbers blow my mind and got me through a rough week
am I wrong or didn't I read that the daughter in question is not that young? not that it matters that much but if she is in her teens and learning the facts of life shouldn't she be learning ALL OF THE FACTS.
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