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she hates me for this, can you?

  1. chinweike profile image48
    chinweikeposted 6 years ago

    my GF recently broke up with me after the valentine's day celebration. I bought her some nice gift and decided to top it all up with this <shameless self-promotion snipped>. will you end the relationship if you are in her shoes?

    1. IzzyM profile image85
      IzzyMposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      I saw your link before it got snipped and I honestly doubt very much if that message on that site caused her to dump you.
      I think maybe she got cold feet. The message was pretty heavy; you were coming on strong - maybe too strong for her.
      If she was as much in love with you as you obviously are with her, she'd have been over the moon!
      You look young, I assume she is too, and well...maybe she is not ready for a serious relationship yet.

      1. chinweike profile image48
        chinweikeposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        i equally tot as much but, was blinded by the love i have for her.

  2. Ohma profile image79
    Ohmaposted 6 years ago

    Looks to me like you made her valentine about making money for yourself. Not very cool.

    1. chinweike profile image48
      chinweikeposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      i didn't monetize the blog

  3. Cagsil profile image60
    Cagsilposted 6 years ago

    Your FIRST mistake?


    It is unfortunate that scientists of our time and those of the past have not been able to invent a device that will help people measure the amount of love that is channeled towards them, or to measure how much someone loves them.


    What the hell were you thinking? roll


    And this is suppose to be a Valentine's Day GIFT?

    You are kidding right? Please do tell me you are kidding? hmm

    1. chinweike profile image48
      chinweikeposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      that was just an additional gift. i already bought her some expensive gifts

      1. Cagsil profile image60
        Cagsilposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        What things you buy is irrelevant? The value isn't the point. And the fact that you think it matters is one of your many problems. hmm

        1. chinweike profile image48
          chinweikeposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          that could be. And that is why i wanted to hear people's view

  4. Ohma profile image79
    Ohmaposted 6 years ago

    I do not think he was kidding Cags.

    1. chinweike profile image48
      chinweikeposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      you are right

  5. Cagsil profile image60
    Cagsilposted 6 years ago

    Why in the world would you begin a Valentine's Day GIFT for your gf....without mention HER?

    Your opening was exactly what killed your relationship. It shows coldly that you don't value her and you have NO appreciation for her.

    That's what I get from it. yikes

    1. chinweike profile image48
      chinweikeposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      but i have her name in the url and the tag line. i even mentioned her name in the write up

      1. Cagsil profile image60
        Cagsilposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        And, you really think THAT mattered?

        You have to be out of your mind. roll

        It doesn't matter that it was an additional gift. It's a gift.

        And you FAILED to show her she was the main attraction.

        The opening statement says it all. hmm

  6. Ohma profile image79
    Ohmaposted 6 years ago

    Dude you are so missing the point.
    You wrote a blog boasting your skills as an advertiser to show you love her ??

    1. skyfire profile image72
      skyfireposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Agree.

  7. skyfire profile image72
    skyfireposted 6 years ago

    I don't know what to say about girls who can't even look at things with broad mind. Thinking about where things went wrong and how can you make it right will only suck time and i'm not sure how to proceed in such times. Let's hope you find someone from forum to help you with that.

    Anyway,if it's over then get over it,there is still life beyond adsense and girlfriend.

    1. chinweike profile image48
      chinweikeposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      there is no adsense in the blog i created a directory for that

      1. skyfire profile image72
        skyfireposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        well i said in general, not about your blog.

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    Nelle Hoxieposted 6 years ago

    I don't know. I think the relationship was in trouble before - if that ended it. It's not that horrible!

    Whenever my husband is at a loss for a gift for me, I get socks. And I think it's cute - because that's who he is. And warm feet are important.

    If a gift matters alot...

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      Kathryn LJposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Your brilliant Nelle and your husband is a lucky man.  Warm feet are important. As you say, if its all about what kind of gift then .........

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      Kathryn LJposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Your brilliant Nelle and your husband is a lucky man.  Warm feet are important. As you say, if its all about what kind of gift then .........

    3. chinweike profile image48
      chinweikeposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      you are right Nelle. A friend of her's confinded in me that she broke up with me because her other BFs saw the blog post. Though i have not confirmed this.

      1. Shadesbreath profile image89
        Shadesbreathposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        Birds of a feather, while flocking together, will not always fly wingtip to wingtip.

  9. WriteAngled profile image92
    WriteAngledposted 6 years ago

    If my love had web skills and wanted to create a page for me, I would want that page to feature things that were important to us and to me: photos of good times together, favourite songs, my preferred colours. I couldn't care less if the world saw it, but I would want to see a very personal touch.

    1. chinweike profile image48
      chinweikeposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      ok noted may be i will go and add some photos

  10. WriteAngled profile image92
    WriteAngledposted 6 years ago

    Fluffy, warm socks are wonderful. For me, fluffy warm socks with Tigger, Eeyore, cats or owls on them, especially if purple, are even more wonderful...  smile

    1. chinweike profile image48
      chinweikeposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      ummmmm

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    lyricsingrayposted 6 years ago

    um... roll

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      Denno66posted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Well-said. big_smile

      1. chinweike profile image48
        chinweikeposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        smile

  12. chinweike profile image48
    chinweikeposted 6 years ago

    it is unfortunate that the admin. of hubpages think i am self promoting my self by posting the link to the blog post i was refering to.

 
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