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Marry Hokey!(contest)

  1. Hokey profile image59
    Hokeyposted 6 years ago

    Ok ladies. Give me your best reasons why I should marry you. I will anounce the winner soon. Sorry guys. I have no problem with gay people. I love women. That simple.

    1. Fluffymetal profile image77
      Fluffymetalposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      You're a great writer, have such a cute avatar, and great sense of humor

    2. TheGlassSpider profile image79
      TheGlassSpiderposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Hmmm...In all honesty, you probably shouldn't...marry me, that is. wink

      (I am only messing with you, Hokey...I just couldn't resist) Good luck on your search smile

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        china manposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        Don't do it Hokey = marriage is an institution and we all know what it is like to live in one of those !!   big_smile

        1. TheGlassSpider profile image79
          TheGlassSpiderposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          Ha!! I've never heard that before. I love it lol

      2. Pandoras Box profile image82
        Pandoras Boxposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        How do you feel about polygamists?

        1. Hokey profile image59
          Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          Might work!!!  big_smile

        2. donotfear profile image91
          donotfearposted 6 years ago in reply to this


          Holy smoke, Hokey, is that your body in your Avatar? Dude,,,,,,,you got it goin on! (I'm married, just an observation)

        3. prettydarkhorse profile image63
          prettydarkhorseposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          somebody won yet?

          if not then here it is:

          I am single, loves to cook and take care of my man and the household

          not only that I love to laugh as well and have fun,

          sincere and sassy is all me!

          Hehe --

          and my favorite love quote is:
          "If I could be any part of you, I’d be your tears. To be conceived in your heart, born in your eyes, live on your cheeks, and die on your lips"

          1. Hokey profile image59
            Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            You are now definitely int the running!  tongue

            1. prettydarkhorse profile image63
              prettydarkhorseposted 6 years ago in reply to this

              ok then, i should be in the top ten list of choices hehe,

      3. Hokey profile image59
        Hokeyposted 6 years ago

        Thanks Storm! Why delete? I did save the picture though.

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          StormRyderposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          I was being bad...You know why you should marry me!! lol

          1. Hokey profile image59
            Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            I thought it was very good!  tongue

      4. tantrum profile image62
        tantrumposted 6 years ago

        You should marry me, because I'm not real! An unreal marriage, no divorce lol

        1. Hokey profile image59
          Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          Good concept!!  big_smile  Probably would work!!  big_smile

          1. tantrum profile image62
            tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            At least we save lots of money ! lol

        2. Hokey profile image59
          Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          Holy Cow!!! tnatrum is that you in that pic!!????  tongue

          1. tantrum profile image62
            tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            You never saw this pic ?? It was my avatar a couple of months ago ! Yes, it's me. All my avatars are me ! lol

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              china manposted 6 years ago in reply to this

              Be careful Tantrum - he is already over on the divorce thread big_smile

              1. tantrum profile image62
                tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                lol
                My intention is not to marry Hokey. Only eat him !

                big_smile

                1. Hokey profile image59
                  Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                  I love that idea!!   lol

                  Wait!!!! yikes


                  Yeah! big_smile      Love It!!!   lol

                  1. tantrum profile image62
                    tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                    I'm buying the seasoning ! tongue

                    big_smile

            2. Hokey profile image59
              Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

              I am so in love!!!!!  tongue

              1. tantrum profile image62
                tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                TAKE CARE !!
                lol

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                StormRyderposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                Thats what you told me!! lol

                1. Hokey profile image59
                  Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                  You ladies are driving me crazy with these pictures!! tongue

                  Cant I just have you both??  wink

                  1. tantrum profile image62
                    tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                    you have to pic only one. No polygamy allowed.
                    I'm out of the contest, anyway.
                    You will have to chose among the other girls.
                    but only one! LOL
                    maybe they should come with their bikini avatars, and we can make a bikini contest as well lol

                    1. Hokey profile image59
                      Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                      Why out of the contest?  yikes

                      Don't Go!!!!   yikes

                      1. tantrum profile image62
                        tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                        I'm not going anywhere. I'm curious to see who are you picking LOL
                        I'm out of the contest, because I don't contend with anybody. I'm a spoiled winner big_smile
                        And I'm the one eating you. Wether you like it or not !

                        lol

                2. Hokey profile image59
                  Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                  I do!!  I do!!!  yikes

      5. thisisoli profile image64
        thisisoliposted 6 years ago

        Damnnit have I misssed another of Stormy's Pictures yikes

        Hokey, shouldn't you be thinking about higher things in life than a mere woman? tongue

        1. tantrum profile image62
          tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          Like a mere man ?? hmm

          lol

          1. thisisoli profile image64
            thisisoliposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            God of a man would be more accurate, but modesty prevents me from claiming that straight off the bat tongue

            1. tantrum profile image62
              tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

              OH??!!


              roll


              lol

      6. theirishobserver. profile image60
        theirishobserver.posted 6 years ago

        So Hokey - this is how it ends - you seek comfort in the arms of a woman - well many men here will be disappointed - many men here had hoped that some day your rubber doll image would seek comfort in their arms - I know what your thinking - Im not a rubber doll - well you do give that impression - and to most men thats a come on - I like women too Hokey - but I think you have offered false hope to many men - who simply wanted fun and no complications smile

      7. tantrum profile image62
        tantrumposted 6 years ago

        And where's the groom to be ? yikes
        hmm
        roll

        lol

      8. theirishobserver. profile image60
        theirishobserver.posted 6 years ago

        Plenty of canditates here I think smile

        1. tantrum profile image62
          tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          Mostly men ! lol

      9. thisisoli profile image64
        thisisoliposted 6 years ago

        I hear Ireland is nice this time of year tongue

      10. myownworld profile image79
        myownworldposted 6 years ago

        Do we have to marry? Can't we just try living together first? wink

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          Pani Midnyte Odinposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          lol

      11. mega1 profile image80
        mega1posted 6 years ago

        would this be cyber-marriage only?

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          StormRyderposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          Nope..It must be consummated!! lol

          1. mega1 profile image80
            mega1posted 6 years ago in reply to this

            ah, well, then I don't think that would work since we're too far apart and I don't want to move!

            1. Hokey profile image59
              Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

              I'll move!!!!!

              1. tantrum profile image62
                tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                So she's the winner ? yikes

                lol

                1. Hokey profile image59
                  Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                  No. I was waiting for you.  tongue

                  1. tantrum profile image62
                    tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                    lol
                    what a playboy !! lol

                    1. Hokey profile image59
                      Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                      You can be the playgirl!!  big_smile

                      1. tantrum profile image62
                        tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                        The 'Virtual Playgirl ' ! tongue

          2. Hokey profile image59
            Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            YES!!!!!  tongue

      12. Stevennix2001 profile image84
        Stevennix2001posted 6 years ago

        well good luck to you hokey.  although i would like to ask you, if your marrying one of these girls here, then are you going to be marrying them in real life too?  Or is this just a hubpages marriage, where your marriage is only binding on this site. I was merely asking since I'm curious as to what your trying to achieve here.  lol.  anyway, you seem like a nice guy, and good luck to you.  i hope you find the hubpages girl of your dreams.  wink  lol

      13. blondepoet profile image78
        blondepoetposted 6 years ago

        I got to live with a guy for at least two years for testing purposes as that is about as long as my relationships seem to last smile

        1. Stevennix2001 profile image84
          Stevennix2001posted 6 years ago in reply to this

          your lucky. the longest relationship i've had with a gal was about a month.  lol.  however, i'm still sorry to hear that though.

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            china manposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            NO - you are lucky, the longest for me was 31 bloody years !

            1. Stevennix2001 profile image84
              Stevennix2001posted 6 years ago in reply to this

              sorry to hear that.  i take it from reading your message, it must've been a rough relationship.

          2. blondepoet profile image78
            blondepoetposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            Aww tks Steve I have a problem of attracting the wrong ones some-how. sad

            1. Stevennix2001 profile image84
              Stevennix2001posted 6 years ago in reply to this

              i'm sorry to hear that.  maybe your not looking in the right places.  however, i'm sure you'll meet someone that'll be the right guy for ya. besides, you seem like a very nice person, so I doubt seriously you'll have any trouble attracting mr. right when you meet him.

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              china manposted 6 years ago in reply to this

              You attract every guy on here - including me with your lavish promises of treatment !  what you sayin'  about me ! sad 
              Hokey - if that excuse for a pec attracts BP we will have a whip round for you mate big_smile big_smile

              1. blondepoet profile image78
                blondepoetposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                I think I need to see more before I can make a full anylsis

                1. Stevennix2001 profile image84
                  Stevennix2001posted 6 years ago in reply to this

                  i  wouldn't worry about it bp.  im sure a great gal like you will have no trouble finding mr.  right someday.

                  1. blondepoet profile image78
                    blondepoetposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                    Awww your are a beautiful gem!!!!

                    1. Stevennix2001 profile image84
                      Stevennix2001posted 6 years ago in reply to this

                      thanks bp.  so are you.  smile

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                    china manposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                    NO  Mr right is way over here in China - how she ever gonna get to feel the quality ? :D

                    Actually BP - you should go for Hokey you tend toward short term stuff (you said) and he could do with a couple of months 'release' and 'nursing' right now :)

                    1. blondepoet profile image78
                      blondepoetposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                      Hahahaha China I just spat a strawberry out my mouth ROFL.

                2. Hokey profile image59
                  Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                  ok. Hold on.

              2. Hokey profile image59
                Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                lol lol lol

        2. Anath profile image73
          Anathposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          Who want's them for longer anyway, at the most extended garantees only go as far as 5 years smile

      14. Anath profile image73
        Anathposted 6 years ago

        You don't need to marry me, just belong to me!

      15. Stevennix2001 profile image84
        Stevennix2001posted 6 years ago

        i wonder who the lucky lady will be.  lol.

      16. Faybe Bay profile image83
        Faybe Bayposted 6 years ago

        I wanted to marry Hokey, but I'm too old. sad

        1. Stevennix2001 profile image84
          Stevennix2001posted 6 years ago in reply to this

          aawww i'm sure hokey wouldn't mind.  besides, age is irrelevant when it comes to love. wink

          1. Faybe Bay profile image83
            Faybe Bayposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            You are too sweet. smile

          2. tantrum profile image62
            tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            Or when it comes to 'Virtual'
            lol

      17. Hokey profile image59
        Hokeyposted 6 years ago

        Just thought I would show you what I am working with.   big_smile

        1. tantrum profile image62
          tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          Are you working with your chest ? roll

          lol

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        Lecieposted 6 years ago

        if you choose me we would have to be married in a garage. that way you couldn't back out.lmao
        good luck on finding the one. i'm sure you will with a mind like yours.

      19. TheGlassSpider profile image79
        TheGlassSpiderposted 6 years ago

        I found Mr. Right...then found out his first name was "Always." wink

      20. Hokey profile image59
        Hokeyposted 6 years ago

        Computer is being funny. This is the only one it would let me upload.

        1. blondepoet profile image78
          blondepoetposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          Oh wow Hokey is that you???
          Omg you are a total spunk. I never imagined you like this at all. I some-how thought you would have no hair and wear a coat like your avatar.

          1. Hokey profile image59
            Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            Yep! Thats me.

      21. Hokey profile image59
        Hokeyposted 6 years ago

        I am 36 years old and have never been married.

        1. Faybe Bay profile image83
          Faybe Bayposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          And be bald and paunchy with little squinty eyes. I thought the doll was a woman, but I need glasses. lol

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        Pani Midnyte Odinposted 6 years ago

        Pick me, Hokey! Pick me! lol

      23. donotfear profile image91
        donotfearposted 6 years ago

        There's quite a bit of Hokey talk over on the 'Are afraid to move on' thread. Lets keep em together.

      24. Hokey profile image59
        Hokeyposted 6 years ago

        ok wink

      25. Alota profile image61
        Alotaposted 6 years ago

        Hokey - whats with the change of image - I liked you just as you were - but I still love you - marry me and let these pretenders go.

      26. thisisoli profile image64
        thisisoliposted 6 years ago

        I wonder if the domain Hubpages dating is available, could make millions big_smiletongue

      27. theirishobserver. profile image60
        theirishobserver.posted 6 years ago

        Hokey good to see you back to your old self smile

      28. tantrum profile image62
        tantrumposted 6 years ago

        So how's the contest going on ? hmm
        Who has any chance of marrying that nice rubber doll ? roll

        lol

      29. theirishobserver. profile image60
        theirishobserver.posted 6 years ago

        I dont want committment - just a bit of messing about - smile

        1. TheGlassSpider profile image79
          TheGlassSpiderposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          Hey! My kind of answer right there. We're in the same boat Irish. smile

          1. Hokey profile image59
            Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            I love messing around!!!!!  tongue

            1. TheGlassSpider profile image79
              TheGlassSpiderposted 6 years ago in reply to this

              Hehehehe Me too! tongue

      30. Hokey profile image59
        Hokeyposted 6 years ago

        well now that your back the contest is going just fine.  big_smile

        1. tantrum profile image62
          tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          MEANING ????
          roll

          1. Hokey profile image59
            Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.

            1. tantrum profile image62
              tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

              yikes yikes yikes

              hmm
              roll

              tongue tongue tongue

              big_smile
              lol

        2. myownworld profile image79
          myownworldposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          ok. just wanted to clarify: so we're doing same sex marriages here too?!

          1. Hokey profile image59
            Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            Huh?  hmm

            1. myownworld profile image79
              myownworldposted 6 years ago in reply to this

              big_smile read Irish above and then your response! wink

              1. Hokey profile image59
                Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                OH BOY!!!!!   LMFAO!!! I thought I hit reply. That is ttooooo funny. I am leaving it!!  lol lol lol   It was supposed to be to tantrum!! lol lol

                1. tantrum profile image62
                  tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                  lol lol lol

                  1. Hokey profile image59
                    Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                    Damn, if being hot was a crime, you'd be guilty as charged!

                    1. tantrum profile image62
                      tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                      What a compliment !!!! tongue

                2. myownworld profile image79
                  myownworldposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                  yeah, I thought so....

                  *cough *cough

      31. theirishobserver. profile image60
        theirishobserver.posted 6 years ago

        Tantrum - what if you marry Hokey and someone pulls his little thing out and he deflates - smile

        1. Hokey profile image59
          Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          yikes   Scary!!!    yikes

        2. tantrum profile image62
          tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          I don't marry dolls. I marry real men. If I decide one day to marry, that is !
          lol

      32. ThoughtfulSpot profile image83
        ThoughtfulSpotposted 6 years ago

        Awww.. I missed all the good pics apparently! Hokey, I'd throw my hat in the ring, but I don't think my husband would like it! lol  Of course, if we're only talking virtual... roll ... or we could get back to that conversation on polygamy. lol

      33. theirishobserver. profile image60
        theirishobserver.posted 6 years ago

        Thoughtfulspot - we wont tell your husband - now go on give Hokey a cyber hug smile

        1. ThoughtfulSpot profile image83
          ThoughtfulSpotposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          lol
          {{{HUG}}}

          1. Hokey profile image59
            Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            Thanks!!

      34. theirishobserver. profile image60
        theirishobserver.posted 6 years ago

        Poem
        Hokey and Tantrum under a tree
        K I S S I N G
        First came marrage
        Then came a carrage
        Little Hokeys 1, 2, 3..............

      35. ThoughtfulSpot profile image83
        ThoughtfulSpotposted 6 years ago

        Having too much fun, but I must get back to work.

        Hokey - I wish you and your future special someone the best! Good luck ladies (and gentlemen)... (and all other avatars lol )

        1. Hokey profile image59
          Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          Bye Bye  smile

      36. theirishobserver. profile image60
        theirishobserver.posted 6 years ago

        Hokey is King
        God of Love
        Flutters his lashes
        Like wings of a dove
        He loves Tantrum
        Thoughtfulspot too
        What a dilema
        What to do smile

        1. tantrum profile image62
          tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          What a dilema !!! LOL!

          1. Hokey profile image59
            Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            I'm not drunk, I'm just intoxicated by you.

            1. tantrum profile image62
              tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

              Wellllll!!!!!
              what can I say ?? big_smile
              GOD !!!!
              tongue

            2. thisisoli profile image64
              thisisoliposted 6 years ago in reply to this

              For a Budhhist I cannot help but think that you have a pretty big love for power right there!tongue

      37. theirishobserver. profile image60
        theirishobserver.posted 6 years ago

        My Lord Bigwinkle - the accused is charged with being hot and in possession of a lethal weapon "pulling power" - her co-accused is Hokey the love master....... smile

      38. theirishobserver. profile image60
        theirishobserver.posted 6 years ago

        It was a cold night in Hubville - the lights were low and the streets silent - a shadow walked beneath the street light - the curtain twitched as she looked out wondering if he would ever return - a glimpse of a familiar face - thats all she wanted - the rain was falling heavy - the cops drove by in their white and blue - she was worried - worried that he may not get to her before the cops got to him - he was a good guy -  a good lover - and a man that knew what a woman really needed - it was not his fault that he had been caught in Bloomingdales stealing girls underwear - he simply wanted her to have the best of everything - but since his accident - things had not been the same - Oh yea - they patched him up ok - but every now and again - he would become depressed and deflated - but she loved him - even though now and again - she could kick up a Tantrum over his deflated state smile

        1. tantrum profile image62
          tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          lol lol lol lol lol

          keep on !!!

        2. Hokey profile image59
          Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          Thats why I need a good woman. To blow me up!   lol lol lol

        3. mega1 profile image80
          mega1posted 6 years ago in reply to this

          this is great!  I guess its really true that the best writing is when you write what you know!  about yourself and all!

      39. tantrum profile image62
        tantrumposted 6 years ago

        lol

      40. Hokey profile image59
        Hokeyposted 6 years ago

        and it wasn't bloomingdales! It was Dollar General!! lol  lol  lol

      41. theirishobserver. profile image60
        theirishobserver.posted 6 years ago

        Cheap and Cheerful smile

      42. Rafini profile image83
        Rafiniposted 6 years ago

        sorry hokey, me and relationships don't work well.  Good luck?!  smile

        1. Hokey profile image59
          Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          Don't count yourself out!!  yikes

      43. tantrum profile image62
        tantrumposted 6 years ago

        what a drama !!! yikes

        lol

        1. Hokey profile image59
          Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          At least it's fun drama!  big_smile

          1. tantrum profile image62
            tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            you're upsetting the ladies !!
            I'm sure you love it !! tongue

            lol

            1. Hokey profile image59
              Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

              I do!!  I do!!!!    lol

              1. tantrum profile image62
                tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                you got mail !
                Nothing about this though !

                1. Hokey profile image59
                  Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                  I replied!  smile

                  1. tantrum profile image62
                    tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                    I'll check

                    1. Hokey profile image59
                      Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                      ok

              2. tantrum profile image62
                tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                Is this what Buddha teaches you ??
                He must be a great guy !!
                big_smile

                1. Hokey profile image59
                  Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                  Buddha says happiness is a personal choice. (check mail)

                  1. tantrum profile image62
                    tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                    you check mail !

                    1. Hokey profile image59
                      Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                      Your up!

      44. Alota profile image61
        Alotaposted 6 years ago

        I will blow you up Hokey let me see your valve

        1. Hokey profile image59
          Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          OK!!!   lol

      45. theirishobserver. profile image60
        theirishobserver.posted 6 years ago

        Use a pump smile

      46. Hokey profile image59
        Hokeyposted 6 years ago

        Gotta go. Catch you later!!   tongue

      47. Ron Montgomery profile image59
        Ron Montgomeryposted 6 years ago

        Thank you.

        And a merry Hokey to you too.

      48. Disturbia profile image61
        Disturbiaposted 6 years ago

        Holy cow Hokey, marry me, I'm rich and I can be your sugar mamma!

        1. Hokey profile image59
          Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          I Love Sugar!!!   tongue

          1. Hokey profile image59
            Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            Me Too!!!!   big_smile

            1. ThoughtfulSpot profile image83
              ThoughtfulSpotposted 6 years ago in reply to this

              But which one of you wants to get engaged? lol

              1. Hokey profile image59
                Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                Take your pick!!  lol

      49. TheGlassSpider profile image79
        TheGlassSpiderposted 6 years ago

        Darn sleep...it looks like I missed all kinds of good stuff. Bit I did NOT miss Hokey's other pics. Whew!

        1. Hokey profile image59
          Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          Thanks!!!!  big_smile

          1. TheGlassSpider profile image79
            TheGlassSpiderposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            Oh no, dear. Thank YOU. wink

            1. Hokey profile image59
              Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

              I used to have a pet tarantula! A North American Rose. I named her Seacha(sasha). She grew to be very big. Leg span of 9 inches.

              1. TheGlassSpider profile image79
                TheGlassSpiderposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                Oh how pretty! You must have taken very good care of her. I love spiders! I'm sure you can tell.

                1. Hokey profile image59
                  Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                  I love all creatures. Even humans but sometimes they make it hard. lol

                  1. TheGlassSpider profile image79
                    TheGlassSpiderposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                    Indeed! I agree. It can be much easier to love the animals...but I suppose it's our destiny to learn to love--at least that's what I believe. smile

                    1. TheGlassSpider profile image79
                      TheGlassSpiderposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                      So uh...What's a cute, talented guy like yourself doing in these parts lookin' for a wife?

                      1. Hokey profile image59
                        Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                        I don't know. Trying to get my mind off other things. Would like to meet someone nice but it's weird around here.

                    2. Hokey profile image59
                      Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                      I always love. Taken advantage of because of it sometimes. Put my whole self in it. Maybe blind sometimes.

                      1. ThoughtfulSpot profile image83
                        ThoughtfulSpotposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                        Ahhh.  Nice guys finish last syndrome.  Its a shame.  There's so many women (and men) that just need a nice man in their lives, and they tend to get over-looked, or taken advantage of.

                  2. ThoughtfulSpot profile image83
                    ThoughtfulSpotposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                    lol They (we) certainly do!

                    1. Hokey profile image59
                      Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                      Your funny!!   big_smile

                      1. ThoughtfulSpot profile image83
                        ThoughtfulSpotposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                        I was just thinking the same thing about you... I like your sense of humor!

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                  ThoughtfulSpotposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                  Maybe I should get a pet spider... face my fear head on.  I'm terribly afraid of insects.  I've tried to talk myself out of it.  I love nature, and, logically, I completely understand that there's really  nothing to fear.  I've gotten better over the years, but still can't seem to shake the completely illogical paranoia about bugs.

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                    TheGlassSpiderposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                    Pet spiders can be wonderful! And you don't HAVE to do a bunch of petting and coddling and such... you can have them just to look at and love. I think they're fascinating. And I'm just fearless anyway! LOL lol

                    But it's proven that immersion in the fear/phobia can help...especially if you do some deep breathing and forced relaxation while looking at the spider/insect...It will get better over time.

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                      Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                      I could put down my hand and Seacha wouls walk on it. If I touched the back of her abdomen she would crawl up my arm and lay on my shoulder.

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                        TheGlassSpiderposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                        How sweet. smile You must have a strong connection with animals.

      50. Hokey profile image59
        Hokeyposted 6 years ago

        Kind of have my guard up a little also. Was hurt bad last time. Plus going through death in family. Brother died. Heroin. Sucks. Lots going on.  neutral

        1. TheGlassSpider profile image79
          TheGlassSpiderposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          Oh no sad Hokey. I am very sorry to hear about your loss. {{HUGS}}

          It can be so hard to open up your heart again after so much tragedy. I'm in a similar boat.

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            Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            Well we can be friends. Writing helps me alot. Been publishing poems to him.

            1. TheGlassSpider profile image79
              TheGlassSpiderposted 6 years ago in reply to this

              Yes, I'd like that a lot. *friends* Yay!

              I haven't been able to write about my loss, and it's been over a year...it's like what ever I think about or want to say gets stuck in my throat.


              LOL @ personal jungle gym...We have some things in common--when I was working with kids (before I went back to school) they thought the same of me. And i've ALWAYS got a cat hanging around (ON) me these days.

              1. Hokey profile image59
                Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                Cat woman?  I love super heroes!!!  big_smile

                1. TheGlassSpider profile image79
                  TheGlassSpiderposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                  LOL Hey! That's nice...most people think about it as the "crazy cat lady." I like your idea MUCH better.

        2. ThoughtfulSpot profile image83
          ThoughtfulSpotposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          I'm so very sorry for your loss.  I actually just read your hub this morning.  I was reluctant to comment here, or in the hub (because you would get a notification.)  Loss is so hard, and it seemed like you were in a good place today.  I didn't want to do anything to take you back there if you weren't ready to revisit the situation.

          I'm glad you've found a place to express your feelings.  And, I'm so glad to see a smile in your writing again today.

          My thoughts are with you and may the smiles find you more and more often in the coming days.

          1. Hokey profile image59
            Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            Very kind of you. Thank you.  smile

      51. ThoughtfulSpot profile image83
        ThoughtfulSpotposted 6 years ago

        Nice chatting Hokey and Spider!  Unfortunately, I have to get back to work... lunch break is over.

        I wish you luck in your respective weeding through weirdness in search of love journeys.  I'm a firm believer that if you are open to it (and perhaps w/ just a little serendipity added in) love will find you.  Sometimes when you least expect it.

        'Bye Spider

        Namaste Hokey (if you don't mind me using the word... I'm not buddhist, but I think its a beautiful means of expression.  It just feels full of goodness to me.)

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          TheGlassSpiderposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          Have a great day, Thoughtful! It's always good to see you *bows* Namaste.

        2. Hokey profile image59
          Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          Namaste. See you later.  smile

       
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