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Letting the Ugly, Psycho, Threads Sink to Their Death

  1. Lisa HW profile image82
    Lisa HWposted 7 years ago

    It's not my place to "hope" what I wish would happen is anything anyone pays attention to; but every once in awhile there will be some really, really, ugly thread that it's posted by some nut-case or else posted to stir things up.

    I'm not talking about some of the silliness and wackiness that often show up, and I'm not even talking about threads that express normal controversial things.  It's hard to explain the kind of ugliness I'm talking about, but when you click on them the ugliness will hit you in the face.  You just know them when they show up.  You know them.... they're just sick (and sometimes demeaning to one group of human beings or another).  In other words, they're the kind of thing that make your skin crawl and give off vibes that whoever posted them is a truly creepy person who should just crawl behind whatever woodwork they crawled out from. 

    Anyway, I wish if people ran into them (and there aren't all that many most of the time), they'd just let them go unresponded-to and sink to their death.  Most of us wouldn't bother answering crackpots in offline life.  Why do it here.  (If anyone is wondering if I'm referring to any particular thread, let's just say it's something I saw awhile back.  I don't see where it is now. )  I saw someone else's thread about name-calling.  I just thought I'd add my own thread about things I wish could happen on the forums.  roll

    1. Marisa Wright profile image92
      Marisa Wrightposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      You're quite right! I think we should all make a resolution that if we see one of those posts, we ignore it - unless and until people start posting in support of the argument, in which case I can see why people find it impossible to keep quiet.

      1. Lisa HW profile image82
        Lisa HWposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Good policy, Marisa.   

        The one potential and minor flaw might be that sockpuppets could support their alter-ego's argument; but at that point the individual would have turned himself into a sockpuppet who is on the forums against the "policy" about not showing up as a sockpuppet to get everyone else stirred up - which could then mean the person would get himself bounced out of the forums.

        I find keeping quiet can seem pretty impossible even if with just one freako thread and nobody else responding; but freakos aren't going to be changed and aren't going to pay attention to what anyone else says; and if such people (let's say, for example, it were a woman  roll) just post to get people stirred up answering them gives them what they wanted.

        Whenever I've run into this kind of thing (oh, let's say - maybe six months ago?  roll ) I find the only way to resist replying is to tell myself if I answer I may end up being the one who puts the thread back at the top of the list of threads on the front page.   (Just wanted to add, again, that I don't mean the usual foolishness that's going to offend one person or another.  I mean the relatively rare but really freako things.  hmm )

        1. ceciliabeltran profile image84
          ceciliabeltranposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          super freaky! Okay, let's call the police to have that guy followed.

      2. watchya profile image60
        watchyaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I hate to keep quiet !
        I like psycho threads. At least they're different. You don't have to take them seriously!

  2. profile image0
    zampanoposted 7 years ago

    Relax Lisa.
    The important thing is we're in good health, alive & kicking
    and our children don't suffer from malnutrition.

  3. Aficionada profile image95
    Aficionadaposted 7 years ago

    Well said, Lisa.  I think I know whereof you speak.  Seemingly a real streak of "insanity," right?

    1. Lisa HW profile image82
      Lisa HWposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Aficionada, I think you do. 

      zampano, I'm not frazzled in the least - just made an observation I thought might be worth making.  It's precisely because I'm fortunate enough to have a well fed family that I have the luxury of making forum observations - and keeping in mind that man (and women and girls and boys) don't live by bread alone; and sometimes aiming to clean up the "environment" for some of them isn't such a bad thing.

  4. Cagsil profile image59
    Cagsilposted 7 years ago

    I'm in agreement with letting the threads die. However, we could begin to see a re-occurring issue, grant it, we won't have the issue, but that person would. If that makes sense.

    If not, let me see if I can do better- *How to keep a idiot occupied? Flip this card over!" type thing coming.

    He'll start a thread, it will die, he will bump it to revive it, and then it will die, then bump it to revive...so on and so forth.

    lol lol lol lol lol

    He'll constantly be talking to himself primarily. smile wink

    1. ceciliabeltran profile image84
      ceciliabeltranposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I am intrigued...and yet don't want to read.

  5. habee profile image90
    habeeposted 7 years ago

    Sorry, you're right, of course. Sometimes, however, I just can't control my tongue! I should never stoop to replying to nonsense - unless it's all in fun, which is a totally different ball of wax.

  6. Aficionada profile image95
    Aficionadaposted 7 years ago

    Would it have been (would it be) better to click on the "report" tab?  When is that the appropriate step?

    I know I got sucked in by replying to someone other than the OP (about other issues), and of course that keeps the topic going, even if it's not at all related to it. 

    ETA: I guess one of my replies was actually to his content.

  7. ceciliabeltran profile image84
    ceciliabeltranposted 7 years ago

    oooh...i know this guy. that is a sincerely weird person, just when I thought I've met all the weird ones here.

    1. Lisa HW profile image82
      Lisa HWposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      lol   lol   ceciliabeltran, don't you mean, "I remember this woman from her thread about six months ago?"   wink

      1. ceciliabeltran profile image84
        ceciliabeltranposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        lol yeah...well that was of another kind of weird;)

  8. profile image0
    zampanoposted 7 years ago

    I certainly agreee that a good education is as precious as bread for an harmonious development.
    And that education is the instrument that allows a person do decide, make choices.
    Nowdays crusades are mostly conducted by non educated people.
    Every day we notice that a lot of uninteresting threads get to sink to the bottom of the sorted list. That is a natural and reliable process.
    And if an irritating thread is going on, feeding on posts that you consider to be "moronic", what can you do about that ?
    It means that there is a "market" for rubbish also.
    From my point of view it is a waste of time.
    Of course I'm not talking about posts that are universally considered to be offensive, in which case one is supposed to refer them to the site admin.
    I often learn and laugh from reading the forum or by hopping (I love it).
    Been here for some months now and never saw nothing really shocking.
    By employing your energy in your good quality writings, just by that fact, you are raising the average quality of the site and providing the standards that help others separate the wheat from the chaff.
    smile

    1. Lisa HW profile image82
      Lisa HWposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      zampano,  I enjoy the forums too, and this thread isn't about the fact that we run into stuff we find "moronic".  I agree that that's all part of how forums are, complete with whatever shows up.   One reason I enjoy the forums is that some of the "moronic" stuff makes me laugh. 

      I think you may not have run into that rare kind of freako thread I mean.  I've been here for close to three years now, and I haven't run into this type of thing more than, maybe, three or four times either.  This thread isn't about the normal mix of threads, disagreements, foolishness, or even someone else's  "weird" (to me) religious beliefs.  It's about a very unique kind of "freako" thinking that I don't think would be a case of "reporting", because (in the case of that woman from six months I mentioned), the individual didn't "attack" anyone and only expressed thoughts that "gave off creepy vibes".  The kind of thread I mean is pretty universally offensive but probably falls within the boundaries of what wouldn't be deleted/banned - which is why I started this thread.  Besides, I'm not one to report much of anything on here.  I see all of us as a bunch of community members.  My approach is more to  try to raise yet another subject for discussion, especially since I know at least some people know exactly the kind of thread I'm talking about.  (If someone hasn't seen that kind he's going to miss my motives/point here.  hmm  )

      It's not a crusade.  It's just an observation and single thread-subject about those rare times when something really freako/creepy shows up.

      1. ceciliabeltran profile image84
        ceciliabeltranposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        The threads were closed. He seriously needs help. I pity his ex-wife.

  9. TerryGl profile image62
    TerryGlposted 7 years ago

    There was one particluar thread on the forum today that was quite offensive to women. I did the only thing I could do and pressed the report tab.

    I provided the Hubpage team my two cents worth why the thread originator should be banned from the forum.

    6 Hours after joining and had 22 odd threads and posts all designed to inflame the forum and no hubpages posted.

    Maybe, if enough of us provided this type of feedback, then HP would revoke the Hubbers forum rights or existence on HP.

    I agree one hundred per cent with you.

    In fact, I just checked the thread. He was banned and opened a new account and took straight up from where he left off on in his own thread. Now, based upon that action, we must let these threads die down and not respond. Alas, though,there are about 3 pages on each thread he started.

  10. ceciliabeltran profile image84
    ceciliabeltranposted 7 years ago

    The man seriously did something he's justifying.

  11. ceciliabeltran profile image84
    ceciliabeltranposted 7 years ago

    Hold it! It's still there.

  12. Aficionada profile image95
    Aficionadaposted 7 years ago

    Yeah - I don't quite get it.  Instead of "Post a Reply," the end of the thread says "Closed to Reply," but a new post came in after that note had appeared.

  13. TerryGl profile image62
    TerryGlposted 7 years ago

    Well, that's the answer.

    Rather then reply, report the matter. State you find the thread offensive and HP team, if they get enough complaints can simply do what they have done. Closed To Reply.

    Bravo, bravo ...  All very exciting though, did you see the highly articulated correctly worded and guilded snibe responses.. breathtaking..

  14. relache profile image88
    relacheposted 7 years ago

    It's a hopeless cause.  People aren't even smart enough to not reply to spam so that the posts can be deleted cleanly...

    1. Faybe Bay profile image85
      Faybe Bayposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      He opened another. He has more than one thread going on the same topic and I thought that was not allowed. He even said he was banned and rejoined in one of the threads and called someone a stupid B****

    2. Daniel Carter profile image92
      Daniel Carterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Not completely hopeless. It's hard to control our ego's need to say something, but practice really does yield a calmer mind, and the calmer we become with lots of practice, the less often we need to reply to drivel. We are easily provoked. I know that I am. But I think less provoked about many things than a year or two ago.

      The guy uses "insane" as part of his ID. That should be enough to clarify his position and state of well-being.

  15. profile image0
    zampanoposted 7 years ago

    Well, I realize I don't know what thread you are talking about, but it sure excites one's curiosity...

    1. myownworld profile image81
      myownworldposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Ok. I have to admit I'm pretty intrigued myself.... !

      1. rebekahELLE profile image91
        rebekahELLEposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        me too. everyone's idea of ugly, psycho is different. I think the most psycho threads are those created by sock puppets, when I see a thread started by someone who has only been here 20 min., I don't even look at it. most new hubbers do not sign up to start a thread on a site they've just joined, unless it's clearly someone asking for help in the need help forum.


        come on lisa, give us a clue. we could play, guess the thread. big_smile

  16. Randy Godwin profile image92
    Randy Godwinposted 7 years ago

    Another good reason to limit new members to the help forums for a trial period or until a certain number of hubs are published.

  17. leeberttea profile image60
    leebertteaposted 7 years ago

    To each their own. Some folks are entertained by ugliness. Let the marketplace of ideas dictate which threads rise to the top.

  18. watchya profile image60
    watchyaposted 7 years ago
  19. rebekahELLE profile image91
    rebekahELLEposted 7 years ago

    ohh, yes, I wasn't online much yesterday. that is psycho. yikes:

    I wouldn't even respond to a thread like that. I would not want my profile to show up on that kind of thread which is open to the WWW.

  20. rebekahELLE profile image91
    rebekahELLEposted 7 years ago

    why was the thread closed and still had a page of replies after it was closed? hmm

    those kind of people (OP) remind me of those wacko, religious cult people. ladies, be careful with your online dating...

    1. watchya profile image60
      watchyaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Everything online is dangerous. You never know with whom you're talking, or to whom you're e-mailing.

      1. rebekahELLE profile image91
        rebekahELLEposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        very true! I just think of people who find dates online and how dangerous it is, or those who go into chatrooms with webcams....
        that is psycho to me. 

        off to live the day! big_smile

  21. sabrebIade profile image83
    sabrebIadeposted 7 years ago

    Yeah..I saw those threads too and I ALMOST replied.
    But then I thought better of it and just let it drop.
    My inner "Samuel L Jackson" almost surfaced.

  22. profile image0
    zampanoposted 7 years ago

    Ohh that ?
    I've just had a look at it. I remember having read that thread title and judging from it I didn't event bother to look further.
    It's just rubbish. Nothing to be outraged about...
    The poor kid doesn't even know what he is talking about. It must be depression...

    1. myownworld profile image81
      myownworldposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      That's how I feel too. Just walk away - It's not worth our energy or focus.
      Of course, sometimes one can't help but comment, but I don't let it get to me. Just a click, and it's switched off. That simple. smile

 
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