Just curious, this question is to you men. Suppose you had two women you are interested in and they are both interested in you. One is very beautiful the other is just plain looking. But the beautiful woman is poor living week to week and will be depending on you for finacial support, while the other woman is very rich, and never worries about money.
Both women are very nice and have all the other qualities you are looking for which one do you choose?
Rich men prefer wealthy women. Rich men don't want poor women because to them, poor women simply don't bring anything to the socioeconomic table. Rich men oftentimes view poor women as socioeconomic vampires i.e. golddiggers. No rich man in his logical mind wants to enter into a relationship w/a poor woman no matter how beautiful she is.
To rich men, poor women are the kiss of socioeconomic death. They also realize that poor women are after their money. No rich man who is smart enters into a relationship w/ a poor woman. That is socioeconomic suicide. Rich men go w/ rich women. If the rich man want a fling or a dalliance, he will go w/the poor woman w/ the sole purpose of a thrill & promptly disgarding her when the thrill is gone.
Rich men despise poor women as they are considered to be inferiors. That is the name of the socioeconomic game. They may go w/poor women as a curiosity as they would do to a new dish or a fad. To rich men, poor women are not to be taken seriously. They are just a fad, a fancy w/nothing significant nor permanent coming out of such an encounter.
My advice: if a woman is poor, forget about rich men. They DON'T want you. If they do, it is only for a dalliance, nothing more, nothing less. Rich men want women who can hold their socioeconomic weight. In essence, like ATTRACTS like. This is simple mathematical logic. There is no way in hell that a rich man will be ever serious or fall in love w/a poor woman. If a woman wants to attract a rich man, she had better be rich & successful herself or working towards being rich & successful. Remember, poor women are socioeconomic liabilities to rich men. Rich men DON'T want socioeconomic liabilities. Poor women are to be avoided like the plague to the average rich men. They see the poor women for who THE LATTER actually are-socioeconomic vampires.
I'm not really sure which I'd choose, especially if I was looking for a plain poor woman or a beautiful rich woman, but the two who are interested in me are the reverse ... Actually, I never talk about money, so I'd probably discover the beautiful woman is poor when it's too late ... But I might marry a very, very, very old, stinking rich woman who has a title ...
I am going to have to say I would be so confused I'd have to pass and wait for a couple more to come along. Beauty is not everything and you know the words to the Beatle's song, ".....money can't buy me love."
ROFL Camlo it most certainly does. I have learned from this experience. 1. Always check the floor thoroughly before wearing heels inside. 2. look at what the cat dragged in. 3.Be suspicious of rubber strangers in de wash house.
EXACTLY, wealthy men, especially those who are self-made, want women who are equally successful. Wealthy men want women who can spar w/them socioeconomically. They want women who are their socioeconomic equal. They RESPECT women who are socioeconomically equal to them.
To wealthy men, poor women are considered to be untermenschen-inferiors. They despise poor women because the latter have nothing to offer them socioeconomically. It would be a waste of time for a wealthy man to enter into a relationship w/a poor woman unless it is for a momentary thrill or to indulge in some type of fantasy. For example, a wealthy CEO is going to enter a relationship w/a clerk, secretary, or a woman in a lower position for a dalliance. The CEO doesn't view such a woman as intelligent or worthy, it will just a hit & go. The CEO will enter into a serious/respectful relationship w/a woman who is a highly placed executive or professional because this woman is seen as intelligent, educated, & even powerful. This is the woman the CEO will respect & deem as serious.
If you are a woman and you made a decent amount of money and you met a man who you much indeed liked that was a waiter at a restaurant. Would you date him and pick up the tabs? If you were a man would you mind?