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My Girl passed away a few minutes ago

  1. ASHWINSPGA profile image61
    ASHWINSPGAposted 8 years ago

    My girl passed away a few minutes ago. I just got a call from her mum. She was involved in a accident thats all i know for now. Something has died inside of me. I an not sure i will return here or not. before i go off  i want to apologize to everyone i might have hurt or offended all this while i have been here in HP especially you Mr Mark and thank you to those who have shown me your love all this while i have been here. Goodbye

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      daflaposted 8 years ago in reply to this

      I am praying for all of you.  I truly hope you do return, and that you know we will help you through this in any way we can.

    2. Just_Rodney profile image43
      Just_Rodneyposted 8 years ago in reply to this

      You need to return, my heartfelt sympathies.

      September seems to be a month of passing over. This is now the 4th person who in my very small world has passed on. It is a trying time I know! My wife has been gone 7 years this September.

      May you have the comfort and support of those left behind.

  2. guidebaba profile image60
    guidebabaposted 8 years ago

    Sorry to hear that. You need to RETURN BACK. This is not the end of LIFE. You have other People to LIVE for. sad

  3. artspeck profile image77
    artspeckposted 8 years ago

    Sincere condolences to you and the family of your girl Ashwinspga.
    Guidebaba is right though, for no matter how dark today may seem, life does go on, believe me, I've been there myself.
    Just give yourself some time, and life can only get better from this tragic day.
    Best wishes,

  4. Rik Ravado profile image93
    Rik Ravadoposted 8 years ago

    Do hope you'll be back - I'm thinking of you at this difficult time.   Best wishes.

  5. mistyhorizon2003 profile image92
    mistyhorizon2003posted 8 years ago

    I am so sorry to hear this truly I am. As someone who lost her Husband I really know what you must be feeling. Please come back to where all your friends can support you at this difficult time. My prayers are with you.

  6. spryte profile image87
    spryteposted 8 years ago

    Awww...Ash *hugs*

    I'm so sorry to hear of your tragic loss and I can only imagine how unreal your life must feel at this moment.  Take whatever time you need and treat yourself gently.  I know at the moment, priorities are probably turned all topsy turvey and nothing makes sense...but eventually things will settle into a different norm for you.  Don't close the door on your hub world just yet.  Leave it open a crack...and please let us know how you are doing.  We care about you.


  7. jyuva profile image40
    jyuvaposted 8 years ago

    Sincere condolences to you. Do hope you will be back soon sad

  8. Lady Guinevere profile image60
    Lady Guinevereposted 8 years ago

    So sorry to heat this.  Do come back because froends are what are going to help you through this.

  9. dishyum profile image61
    dishyumposted 8 years ago

    I'm extremely sorry for that, everyone here can understand it's too hard at this moment. We will be waiting for you!

  10. funride profile image79
    funrideposted 8 years ago

    I just found out this topic and I can believe what I read... sad

    Ashwin my friend, you´re a strong man and you have lots of friends who are willing to help you through this sad moment. My sincere condolences to you and remember that our thoughts are with you.

    Your friend Ricardo

  11. sixtyorso profile image75
    sixtyorsoposted 8 years ago

    Ashwin we are with you in this terribly dark moment in your life. Your friends at hubpages are here for you. Come back soon as you are able.

  12. Ryan Hupfer profile image80
    Ryan Hupferposted 8 years ago


    This is a hard time and please take all of the time that you need. We'll be here when you get back.

  13. anime_nanet profile image61
    anime_nanetposted 8 years ago

    I can only express my deepest condolences for your loss...

    Hang in there!

  14. Bob Ewing profile image62
    Bob Ewingposted 8 years ago

    My thoughts are with you during this difficult time.

  15. Shadesbreath profile image89
    Shadesbreathposted 8 years ago

    I'm sorry for your loss.

  16. robie2 profile image92
    robie2posted 8 years ago

    Ashwin I am sooo sorry. There are no words. Blessings and come back when you can

  17. marisuewrites profile image60
    marisuewritesposted 8 years ago

    I am so sorry, and wish you strength.

  18. Trsmd profile image60
    Trsmdposted 8 years ago

    Life is a period between Birth and Death..

    Hope you take some  break and expecting you here after short period.. we are always with you..

  19. Rochelle Frank profile image89
    Rochelle Frankposted 8 years ago

    Very sorry to hear that. I think losing a child or a partner (actually after re-reading, I'm not sure which she was to you) must be the saddest and most difficult thing a person can ever face in life.

  20. Anna Marie Bowman profile image93
    Anna Marie Bowmanposted 8 years ago

    I am so sorry.  No words can express it.  I know what you are going through, and my thoughts are with you.

  21. gwendymom profile image70
    gwendymomposted 8 years ago

    I don't know you although I have seen your name a few times, but I just wanted to say that I am so sorry to hear about your loss. You seem to have many friends here who care about you. I hope you return and let them help you through this troubling time.

  22. Christoph Reilly profile image85
    Christoph Reillyposted 8 years ago

    Ashwin.  I'm so sorry to hear this tragic news. I was just thinking of you this morning, oddly enough, apart from hubpages. I was watching a travel show and they were in Singapore. It made me wonder what you were doing right then. Then later, I logged on to hubpages and saw this.

    My thought are with you, buddy.

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    ace productionsposted 8 years ago

    I just join hubpages and I came across this. I am so sadden by your loss. It brings a  flood of feelings. I have also experienced several losts in the pass four years with what seems to be a never ending cycle for my family.

    I can tell you keep the faith and remember the loved you shared. we don't just pass away we evolve into the next stage of living

    May God bless you and keep you and yours through these troubled times.

  24. Dottie1 profile image81
    Dottie1posted 8 years ago

    Ashwin, I am soooo very sad to hear this news.  You will be in my daily thoughts and prayers.  Take your time but please do come back.  Your friend ~Dottie~

  25. Brainstormer profile image60
    Brainstormerposted 8 years ago

    Thinking of you and those around you. Take care mate.

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    shinujohn2008posted 8 years ago

    Hi ashwin u have been my friend for a long while. I am really shocked to hear this. We will all pray. Death is something that comes in unexpectedly and shocking.....My 3 cousin brothers who were very young in their 20's to 35's have passed away with in a span of 8 months. So i know the pain involved

  27. patnamohan profile image61
    patnamohanposted 8 years ago


  28. premsingh profile image61
    premsinghposted 8 years ago

    Dear Ashwin, I am very sorry to hear that you are facing a tough time. We all will pray to God to give you strength and courage to bear this shock

  29. SweetiePie profile image82
    SweetiePieposted 8 years ago

    I feel really bad about your loss.  It is so hard when someone passes, but please take care of yourself because she would not want you to get sick by not eating and sleeping.

    1. premsingh profile image61
      premsinghposted 8 years ago in reply to this

      Time is a great healer. I agree with sweetiePie not eating food and sleeping will give more pains to the soul of passed away girl

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    jupitarposted 8 years ago

    difficult time but have to over come.
    pray for you and your beloved one.
    take care yourself.

  31. terenceyap07 profile image61
    terenceyap07posted 8 years ago

    This life is short and every moment is precious. Though you no longer hold her hand in yours, you hold sweet memories of her in your heart. No one can take away those memories and the love that both of you have shared, my friend.

    May blessings of strength, peace and comfort decend upon you like a gentle morning rain.

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    SirDentposted 8 years ago

    I am praying that the Comforter will come down and embrace you in His arms.

  33. Shirley Anderson profile image85
    Shirley Andersonposted 8 years ago

    So sorry for your loss.  You are in our thoughts and prayers.

  34. Bonnie Ramsey profile image87
    Bonnie Ramseyposted 8 years ago


    I pray for your comfort and peace in your time of loss and hope you will return. You have many friends here to support you. Take care of yourself because I am sure that is what she would want for you. Your friends are with you in spirit during this time.


  35. mulder profile image80
    mulderposted 8 years ago

    unreal  Im so sorry  to hear of your  loss  .

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    iamtheknowerposted 8 years ago

    Hi Ashwin,

    I just cannot find the words to express my feelings . I can understand your feelings. I just want you to know that I am with you in your grief.

  37. crashcromwell profile image79
    crashcromwellposted 8 years ago

    I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. As others have, I will encourage you to write. I joined hubpages last winter when my wife and I were separated, and I found the sense of community to be incredibly supporting at a time when I needed it most. Not to mention, writing can also be incredibly therapeutic. I hope we'll see you soon.

  38. Project Mobius profile image60
    Project Mobiusposted 8 years ago

    i'm sorry to hear that. May your girl rest in peace

  39. pcjunkychick profile image80
    pcjunkychickposted 8 years ago

    I am so sorry for your loss.
    You are in my thoughts and prayers.

  40. Marian Swift profile image60
    Marian Swiftposted 8 years ago

    Deep condolences.  My thoughts are with you.

  41. VioletSun profile image69
    VioletSunposted 8 years ago

    Ashwin: I have not been in the forums lately and missed this thread; Misty wrote a a touching hub for you this is how I heard the news of your loss. I am so sorry about your loss; please don't close the doors to us. My prayers are with you and your loved ones.

  42. broalexdotinfo profile image60
    broalexdotinfoposted 8 years ago

    Deep condolences. I haven`t got to know you better, but hope you will be back soon. I have been really touched to hear this sad news. I have a 4 year old beautiful boy, and I think I just couldn`t stand going through such a moment. I feel really sorry and hope you will get a lot stronger and be back as soon as possible.



  43. mistyhorizon2003 profile image92
    mistyhorizon2003posted 8 years ago

    Part26/AKA Sword of Justice, I have posted on your other topic about poor Ashwin, but just in case anyone else stops in here without visiting it themselves I would like to paste the same post below:

    'OMG, what on earth has happened here. It seems like a witch hunt has been started with no evidence to back up the accusations that prove Ashwin hasn't actually lost his girl. What do you want to see, a death certificate or something?

    Leave Ashwin and Anitha alone, I am sure Ashwin is having enough trouble dealing with his grief, without finding out when he returns that some psycho has suddenly got it in for him, and for anyone who believes in him and offers their support.

    Oh, and by the way, it is not at all unusual for a funeral to be delayed by a week or more, I should know as my Husband died on Nov 23rd 2001, but his funeral wasn't until the Dec 4th'.

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    SirDentposted 8 years ago

    Can anyone say troll?

  45. AEvans profile image72
    AEvansposted 8 years ago

    I will pray and that saddens my heart to hear that , I understand you may not be here for a long while however come back when you are ready whenever that time comes.
    We are all human and all of us understand, well some of us do.

  46. terenceyap07 profile image61
    terenceyap07posted 8 years ago

    Dear part26,

    These are indeed serious accusations that should be best handled in private. I find your comment to be excessive and unnecessary to be made public. Such matters should be handled between you and ASHWINSPGA or the staff of Hubpages.



  47. mistyhorizon2003 profile image92
    mistyhorizon2003posted 8 years ago

    Not to mention these comments could be proven to be "libellous" or an example of "deformation of character", if it is later proven Ashwin did actually lose his fiance, and therefore he would be in a position to sue this person.

  48. G-Ma Johnson profile image61
    G-Ma Johnsonposted 8 years ago

    Oh dear oh my...sweetie I sent you an e-mail the instant I read this...My tears fall and my heart aches for you..remember "The will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you!"

    As you said to me "You cannot leave without my permission" remember?  We need you here and miss you here and want you here..Since we cannot actually HUG you or give you a shoulder to cry on...We can support you though and it helps to have 'friends' you can talk with..well write with.. so my prayers to you and her family and know you are loved and missed by us all....especially 'nana' as you call me...G-Ma hugs/prayers

  49. docbenduke profile image59
    docbendukeposted 8 years ago

    Oh that is reallt sad.all the same please take heart and be a man...