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Do women like men who talk a lot?

  1. zzron profile image59
    zzronposted 5 years ago

    If so what about or what not about?
    http://s1.hubimg.com/u/2360620_f248.jpg

    1. lizzieBoo profile image78
      lizzieBooposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      I like men who talk alot. I talk too much for most men though.

    2. profile image0
      kimberlyslyricsposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      sex

    3. Hollie Thomas profile image61
      Hollie Thomasposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      NO

      1. Hollie Thomas profile image61
        Hollie Thomasposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        Not the ones who talk complete and utter BS.

        1. profile image0
          kimberlyslyricsposted 5 years ago in reply to this

          lol or hog the bathroom talking to themselves lol

  2. SomewayOuttaHere profile image61
    SomewayOuttaHereposted 5 years ago

    it depends on what they are talking about and when, why, where...........timing is everything right?

    what's with the pic of RD anyway? smile

    1. LisaKoski profile image90
      LisaKoskiposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      I think he posted the pic is because of the whole "you talkin to me?" quote

    2. zzron profile image59
      zzronposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      The picture just adds to the subject, it could be anyone.

  3. LisaKoski profile image90
    LisaKoskiposted 5 years ago

    I think it depends on the girl. In general most girls talk a lot already but I know there are a few out there who prefer to listen and don't say much and like guys who talk more. I like a good balance of conversation where we both talk pretty much the same amount. It's fine to talk lots, just don't talk about yourself the whole time!

  4. AshtonFirefly profile image81
    AshtonFireflyposted 5 years ago

    Depends on the woman, I guess. Some women prefer that men be quiet so that they can do all the talking smile And how much is "too much" or "alot" is going to vary from person to person, so...it's kinda iffy..

    As far as what to talk about, women tend to really like a guy that knows about a lot about a variety of different subjects and can engage in conversation with wit and humor. For women, one of the things that are on the top of their list for attractive qualities in a guy are kindness, intelligence, and sense of humor. In my experience, anyway.

  5. Cagsil profile image60
    Cagsilposted 5 years ago

    Well, let's see.....

    Men prefer women, most times, with their mouth full, so they cannot talk? If you know what I mean(not me in particular). You know, the typical alpha-male egotistical sexist windbag so full of himself.

    So women, I would have to say that most want men to simply obey, be kind and obedient....and speak when spoke to. lol (j/k)

    1. AshtonFirefly profile image81
      AshtonFireflyposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      (applause)
      Finally it is admitted: that men are alpha-male egotistical sexist windbags who are full of themselves.
      big_smile

      1. calpol25 profile image78
        calpol25posted 5 years ago in reply to this

        Yay!!!! ((((((Big Applause))))) big_smile

      2. Cagsil profile image60
        Cagsilposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        Bad assumption Ashton. That's not like you. yikes

        I didn't say all men are typical alpha-male egotistical sexist windbags. I said "the" typical alpha-male egotistical sexist windbags. Not all men are alpha-males. wink

        1. AshtonFirefly profile image81
          AshtonFireflyposted 5 years ago in reply to this

          :I You're right. Dang it.

          But still...you said "Most." So. That's....a partial admission. So there.

          tongue

          1. Cagsil profile image60
            Cagsilposted 5 years ago in reply to this

            Actually Ashton, you'd be wrong yet again. I said "most times"? lol Not most men. lol

            1. AshtonFirefly profile image81
              AshtonFireflyposted 5 years ago in reply to this

              Me= fail.
              GAHHH
              Okay. You win. Bah humbug.

              1. Cagsil profile image60
                Cagsilposted 5 years ago in reply to this

                lol

                1. AshtonFirefly profile image81
                  AshtonFireflyposted 5 years ago in reply to this

                  However.
                    your comments do not disprove the fact that men are  typical alpha-male egotistical sexist windbags. It simply proves you did not admit it.
                    Shame.
                    I shall not relent. I will fight for truth. Someday the truth will be known and admitted by all.

                  1. Cagsil profile image60
                    Cagsilposted 5 years ago in reply to this

                    All men are not alpha males to begin with. All men are not egotistical either. All men are not sexist either. I don't need to admit all men are, because that would be considered lying and I'm not in the habit to lie.

                    Yes, there are men who are alpha males, this is a proven fact. And, yes there are men who are egotistical, again this is proven fact. And yes there are men who are sexist windbags, again this is a proven fact.

                    But, not ALL men can be classified into one category, just like ALL women cannot be. To do so, is pure unadulterated dishonesty. wink

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                  kimberlyslyricsposted 5 years ago in reply to this

                  roll

  6. Pearldiver profile image86
    Pearldiverposted 5 years ago

    Geez Ron.... Good Question!

    I hope this answer helps smile

    It will take me a while to list all the things that Men Know in regards to Women!

    Please Bear With me mate!

































    There You Go.....


    See How Much Red Blooded Alpha Two Minute Terriers Knew About Women! big_smile

  7. WriteAngled profile image91
    WriteAngledposted 5 years ago

    Whoever the picture is in the first post needs a shave badly. I would not want to be seen in such scruffy company. If it is a celebrity of some sort, that does not change my opinion.

    If a clean, well presented man wishes to speak with me, the amount he talks is not important to me. What is important is that he speaks in a witty, erudite and intelligent manner about topics such as art, music, theatre, philosophy, and so on. It is equally important that he does not talk about cars, pop music, television or sports.

    1. Pearldiver profile image86
      Pearldiverposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Sheesh WA... the ONLY Ones left now all have beards, flatulence and talk a lot to themselves... but hey They ARE an Art in themselves and most can still eat without dribbling!

      How Sad... sad

      1. WriteAngled profile image91
        WriteAngledposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        Any surprise I prefer to be on my own now? lol

        1. Pearldiver profile image86
          Pearldiverposted 5 years ago in reply to this

          Hahaha.. Me too... And with strawberries like those on the plate.. I'm glad I'm Not Gay! smile

  8. whoisbid profile image74
    whoisbidposted 5 years ago

    Yeh, it really depends on the woman. I would say that women who gossip with other women probably like men who can't stop gossiping

    1. Pearldiver profile image86
      Pearldiverposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      I Don't Think So.... It's been proven that gossiping and loose tongues has a lot to do with an absolute absence of Pelvic Floor Exercises! yikes

  9. prettydarkhorse profile image63
    prettydarkhorseposted 5 years ago

    A man who talks sensibly and listens, not just blabbing. He can talk more often bec. I don't talk a lot.

  10. OutWest profile image60
    OutWestposted 5 years ago

    I think men need to listen.

  11. paradigmsearch profile image88
    paradigmsearchposted 5 years ago

    http://www.anri.barc.usda.gov/bnpcu/images/pig.jpeg
    Women's favorite definition of men. big_smile

    1. Cagsil profile image60
      Cagsilposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      Actually Para, you would be wrong with your picture. The most commonly used expression women use to describe men- "all men are dogs". wink lol

      1. paradigmsearch profile image88
        paradigmsearchposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        http://s1.hubimg.com/u/4710128.gif
        ----------- paradigmsearch -----------

    2. AshtonFirefly profile image81
      AshtonFireflyposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      LOL. yep.

  12. That Grrl profile image78
    That Grrlposted 5 years ago

    I don't like men who leave me to carry the conversation. But talking too much isn't good either. If someone is talking a lot they are usually talking about themselves, a lot.

  13. Rosie2010 profile image82
    Rosie2010posted 5 years ago

    It depends on what they talk about.  I loved my late husband dearly, but he loved history (too much) and sometimes he would go on and on about history of stuff... it was interesting the first five minutes but after that...

    http://s2.hubimg.com/u/5895301_f248.jpg


    I dated a guy who couldn't stop talking about his dead wife.  No second date for that one... ok, he didn't call me again.  I guess I wasn't a good listener.  Another one, who kept talking about past girlfriends... OMG!  Guys, we don't want to hear about your dead wives, ex-wives, past girlfriends.  We want you talk about us, to us.. how beautiful we are... to you.

    I love men who have a great sense of humour.   I hate mimes and I'm not good in charade, so they have talk to make me laugh. wink

  14. carolinemd21 profile image73
    carolinemd21posted 5 years ago

    I would have to say sometimes. It depends on what they're talking about. lol. I love men talking about me for one, but who doesn't like that. I don't like men who talk about themselves constantly. That can bore you to death. Usually positive things about life are the way to go to keep some interest.

  15. Fair2partlycloudy profile image60
    Fair2partlycloudyposted 5 years ago

    A listener would be nice! smile

  16. mega1 profile image80
    mega1posted 5 years ago

    I love a man who can get excited enough to talk and talk about something (anything) besides sports and sex. That's incredibly attractive!  And I especially love a man who does not "talk down" as if a woman wouldn't understand the deep subject he's involved with -  treats me like an equal and never plays strong and silent.  Oh, and men who will answer your questions with thoughtful answers and not pretend not to hear things they don't want to hear or talk about.

  17. etherealdabi profile image78
    etherealdabiposted 5 years ago

    It could just be me, and and I could be getting the wrong impression entirely, but in my experience women generally DO like men who talk.  Maybe not a lot, neccessarily, but something worth saying, something a woman wants to hear, and something that's being said in earnest and not simply BECAUSE a woman wants to hear it. I mean, can we honestly generalize between only men and women as opposed to looking at it individually?  People are all different, and so many more factors are involved.  Two men can say the exact same thing to a beautiful woman.  One man is successful and handsome.  The other...not so much.  Heh.  But the woman would likely love to hear it from the first man.  The other, if she even chose to listen in length, would just as well be speaking to a brick wall.  This is a generalization as well.  Either way, no one wants to hear a bunch of crap.  You tell me I'm sexy and you have no ulterior motive for doing so, I could listen to you all day.  You tell me I'm ugly, and I'll accept the criticism, but I really don't want to hear about it in length.  The question just depends on so many things, like the relationship between the man and woman.  Heh.  Sorry.  Didn't mean to make such a long post.

    1. Cardisa profile image91
      Cardisaposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      I like my man in moderation, he talks whenever necessary. My fiance talks way too much and it really gets to me. I had no idea he was so talkative.

      I like the quiet but not silent type. He should know when to talk and when to shut up.

    2. mega1 profile image80
      mega1posted 5 years ago in reply to this

      didn't know you were such a talker? eh?  big_smile  now, I find that very very attractive!

      1. Cardisa profile image91
        Cardisaposted 5 years ago in reply to this

        tongue

    3. yui lockhart profile image61
      yui lockhartposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      yes! As a woman, I like a man with full of sense when it comes to his talking, and I really want a man to start the conversation and give a topic. It is a major turn-off when I am the one who started the talking. Silent water runs deep they say.

  18. yui lockhart profile image61
    yui lockhartposted 5 years ago

    I preferably like a man who is good at listening rather than the man who does a lot of talking. Agree?

    1. Cardisa profile image91
      Cardisaposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      I agree!

  19. profile image0
    kimberlyslyricsposted 5 years ago

    I like a man who knows how to talk sexy for long periods of time lol

    1. Cagsil profile image60
      Cagsilposted 5 years ago in reply to this

      lol lol

  20. Pcunix profile image87
    Pcunixposted 5 years ago

    Wind me up, give me a topic and I'll happily yap on for hours :-)

    But you also need to know when to shut up and listen. 

    Not that I know anything: we've only been married 44 years and a lot of these teenage marriages don't work out in the long haul.

 
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