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Have you ever received a strange/rude/mean comment on your hub?

  1. lorlie6 profile image85
    lorlie6posted 4 years ago

    What to do?  This Hubber was 'sickened' by the content of my work, left a rude comment, and did not have the guts to email me, explaining what his/her point was.
    I know the topic of the Hub is quite controversial, but if he/she found it so terribly offensive, why on earth would he/she read it in the first place?
    Strange and cowardly.
    I will remain on HubPages because I know that most people on this site have more sense than to write such a childish thing.
    Yep-I'm steamed, but I will get over this and go on to have a great day.

  2. Jonathan Janco profile image81
    Jonathan Jancoposted 4 years ago

    You could say a couple of my hubs are starting to resemble forums threads because of the comments left. I just go with the flow. Can't please everyone.

    1. lorlie6 profile image85
      lorlie6posted 4 years ago in reply to this

      Hey Jonathan, I completely agree with you-I think I'm p*ssed because in my over 2 years I've never received a comment like this. 
      I'll get over it in probably 10 minutes. tongue

  3. janesix profile image72
    janesixposted 4 years ago

    Dating and falling in love with a sixteen year old boy is disgusting for a grown woman.

    If it had been a man and a girl, you wouldnt have gotten so many positive responses.

    1. janesix profile image72
      janesixposted 4 years ago in reply to this

      Maybe drunk addicts dont have morals?

      1. lorlie6 profile image85
        lorlie6posted 4 years ago in reply to this

        Wow, janesix-I'm amazed you'd publicly attack me this way.
        I deliberately left your name out of this, since I did want to give you privacy.  Oh well, someone will probably report this, but I won't.
        Looking forward to your next comment.

        1. janesix profile image72
          janesixposted 4 years ago in reply to this

          You are a predator who deliberately gained guardianship of a teenage boy who you were sexually attracted to. I have doubts that your intentions were platonic in nature.

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            Motown2Chitownposted 4 years ago in reply to this

            Wow - this is possibly one of the most judgmental comments I've ever come across in an HP forum.  Sad, really.  Perhaps it would be worth getting to know lorlie a little better before making these grossly negative assumptions about her character.

            As an aside, predators don't generally stay married to their 'prey' for 21 years.

  4. Marcy Goodfleisch profile image92
    Marcy Goodfleischposted 4 years ago

    Yes!I wrote a hub about Rush Limbaugh and got bashed badly.  I tried to publish as many comments as possible, but the posters even started bashing each other, so I deleted anything that attacked another Hubber.  It does feel like you're in a war zone, though.  And yes, it will pass.

    1. lorlie6 profile image85
      lorlie6posted 4 years ago in reply to this

      And Marcy-check out her comments here!

  5. prettydarkhorse profile image64
    prettydarkhorseposted 4 years ago

    Hi lorlie, I just choose to delete it specially if it does not contribute to the hub! Take care and have a good day!

  6. internpete profile image93
    internpeteposted 4 years ago

    Yeah, on one of my hubs about skimboarding, someone just posted, 'I'm a pro at this" haha sure!

  7. Disturbia profile image61
    Disturbiaposted 4 years ago

    Just deal with the negative comments same as the positive ones. People have the right to their opinions whether they are positive or negative. If we can't handle negative comments, then we shouldn't be putting our work on display for other people to comment on.

  8. Will Apse profile image90
    Will Apseposted 4 years ago

    janesix does say some odd things, sometimes, in these forums. I wouldn't take it to heart.

    ps I am sure she has good reason for the odd things that she says, so I wouldn't hold it against her too much, either.

    1. lorlie6 profile image85
      lorlie6posted 4 years ago in reply to this

      Will, I agree with psycheskinner that this comment went over the top.  'Odd' is a bit mild for such behavior.

  9. psycheskinner profile image80
    psycheskinnerposted 4 years ago

    A good reason for referring to someone as 'disgusting' and a 'predator'?  I don't think so. That crosses a line.

  10. Stacie L profile image88
    Stacie Lposted 4 years ago

    Yes, I have received offensive ,rude and sickening comments. Those that have a different opinion does not offend me. I pick which ones will stay and which will be deleted.

  11. Will Apse profile image90
    Will Apseposted 4 years ago

    Ok, she says extreme things. I take that as odd.

    When something is genuinely extreme and unrealistic, a filter kicks in my brain. Whatever was said gets dumped in the bin marked 'too odd to be taken seriously'.

    But I also run through the possible reasons for the overly extreme behavior.

  12. LeanMan profile image81
    LeanManposted 4 years ago

    I have had comments suggesting that I have sex with my mother/grandmother/daughter and dogs (at the same time)... and those are some of the milder comments - I guess that goes with the territory if you write about places like Saudi Arabia, for some reason a lot of the Saudis don't like it when I discuss subjects like dating in Saudi Arabia and Saudi Women...

    If you write anything in the slightest controversial you will get some bad comments, in fact you could write about the smurfs and get bad comments from some people out there... just smile and hit the "deny" button and delete their ass...

  13. WriteAngled profile image90
    WriteAngledposted 4 years ago

    Lorlie, you make it clear in your hub that you stayed "just friends" until he reached legal age of consent and married you. Given this and the fact you have stayed together, I do not see how anyone can make any moral objections about your situation.

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