Interview: Pamela Oglesby

Pamela Oglesby
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Meet Pamela

Pamela Oglesby, also known as Pamela99, is known in HubVille for her informative and comprehensive medical and health - related articles.

One of the first nurses I met when I joined HubPages, Pamela's work continues to make me so proud. I believe that nurses give the best patient education out of the entire health care team.

Pamela is a remarkably strong woman. Rather than giving up when diagnosed with lupus, she readjusted her life goals. As a writer, she can reach a much larger audience in the same thorough, meaningful and responsible style that she served as a nurse.

I encourage you to peruse Pamela's profile to check out some of the varied subjects she has written about. I am quite sure you will find a myriad of subjects that you are interested in learning more about.


The times I feel most relaxed are ....

At home I feel relaxed when it is quiet and I am sitting in my favorite chair reading a good book on my Kindle. I also feel so peaceful with prayer and meditation. My favorite times are when I am sitting with my children and their families laughing and talking.

The times I feel saddest are.. .

when I think about the reality of losing my mother, who has some serious heart problems and losing my husband. He had a stroke 5 years ago and has been having some stroke related problems recently and the doctors can’t treat the problem

Something I'd like to teach others...

I like to teach others about healthy living and new medical advances. I was a nurse for 22 years, so good health will probably always be a part of my writing. I have also done a lot of work with spouses of alcoholics

My secret passion ... my dream job....

I would love to have a job where I could travel, then write about my experiences

.Most hated gift I ever gave someone ...

I can’t think of anything specific, but I hate giving money as a gift. I prefer to try to pick out something special for that person.

The gift I could have done without ...

Some relatives brought me back a bamboo beach bag from the Bahamas, which was huge. They knew I have lupus and can’t go to the beach, so it sits in the top of my closet taking up space. I really should give it away to someone who can use it.

If you peeked in my junk drawer, you'd be surprised to find ...

a packed drawer with things like measuring tapes, small tools, tape, string, a jar of screws and nails, a small drill and work knife.

My date from Hades ....

When I was about 17 my mother made me go on a date with a friend’s son. We did not really hit it off at all and I was not happy with my mother. Then, he asked me to go to dinner and I grudgingly said yes. So, a week later after I actually turned down 4 dates and the guy stood me up!

My worst/ or funniest vacation story ...

.My worst vacation was a cruise to the Bahamas with some family members. First there was a bomb threat so we got onboard 3 hours late. Next, the seas were rough and we couldn’t even land on Freeport as they were busy having a tornado. I had been sick prior to the trip and was pumped full of prednisone, which makes me a bit nervous. Plus, I had to watch after my elderly mother. My husband seemed to be ignoring me to spend time with his daughter and that didn’t go over well. Fortunately, we spent time with other family members aboard and the last day was pretty good, but I don’t want to take that cruise again, ever.

A life goal on my bucket list....

Now that I am retired, I still want to do some more traveling, especially related to my ongoing ancestral search. I definitely want to visit England.

What I most look for in a friend...

I look for someone that is there for me in good times and bad; someone I can laugh with and someone I can trust.

Something I will never part with...

My mother’s ring. My 3 sons bought me a mother’s ring when they were fairly young and could hardly afford it. This was about 6 months after my home was broken into and all my jewelry was stolen.

A life lesson I will never forget ....

When you are dating someone don’t jump into a serious relationship too quickly as you are both on your best behavior in the beginning. It is important to be friends and gain trust before giving in to the hormones. I did it all wrong in my first marriage. These are so much better with this marriage as we were friends for some years before we really fell in love.

The worst part of getting older...

The worst part of getting older is having wisdom now that would have been helpful when I was younger, but now health problem limits my activities.

A writing lesson I learned the hard way...

I am doing freelance writing and the hardest thing is using commas correctly 100% of the time. I have been studying them as you can have no errors when you do this type of writing. Of course, on Hubpages I've made many errors over the years and reading out loud helps me find little errors better than any other method.

My favorite movie and why...

That’s a hard question I love romantic comedies, action and suspense movies (no horror flicks). I’m a big fan of the old Alfred Hitchcock movies. A couple of older movies I like are The Shawshank Redemption and The Blind Side. The Shawshank Redemption is a good story of friendship and a wrong that is made right.

What subjects / genres do you enjoy reading/ about ?

I like history, biographies, Christian themed stories, suspense novels (but no vampires or anything evil) and well-written fiction. I thought The Help was a very good book. I also read National Geographic.

What would be a subject/ genre that you would like to read more/ about..

I am interested in a large variety of things but I still want to read more about history.

Can you take us to a favorite piece of writing on HubPages by you that does not get much traffic..

Do Livestock Injections Harm You? I think this is such an important topic and people do not realize the harm it causes.

Thank you, Pamela....

I selected The Supremes and The Temptations: "For Better or Worse" for you, Pam.

Your life philosophy is truly inspiring and motivating. I thank you very much for allowing us to get to know you better.

© Maria Jordan (revised September, 2014)


The Supremes & The Temptations: For Better or Worse

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marcoujor 3 years ago from Jeffersonville PA Author

Thank you so much for your kind remarks. Great to see you, Justin.

Hoping you and yours are having a peaceful and lovely Chistmas!


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PDXKaraokeGuy 3 years ago from Portland, Oregon

very nice interview and introduction of Pamela. There's so many great statements in this piece that i don't know where to begin or what to, so I won't, really. Just know you did a good job and I enjoyed this. Well done!


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marcoujor 4 years ago from Jeffersonville PA Author

Pam,

I LOVED your interview in the Hub Newsletter and will be linking for those who may have missed it.

Hugs, Maria


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Pamela99 4 years ago from United States

That is so sweet. Hugs to you also my dear Maria.


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marcoujor 4 years ago from Jeffersonville PA Author

This is a reflection of YOU, dear Pamela. Hugs, Maria


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Pamela99 4 years ago from United States

I am still awed by the continued comments. Welcome FreezeFrame . I appreciate all the new comments.


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marcoujor 4 years ago from Jeffersonville PA Author

Nice to meet you, FreezeFrame, and thanks for your FINE FEEDBACK.


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marcoujor 4 years ago from Jeffersonville PA Author

Michelle, It is MARVELOUS to see you and thank you for the visit. I am anxious to read your H.O.W. as we share a passion for animals.

Hi to Pamela and hugs to you both, Maria


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FreezeFrame34 4 years ago from Charleston SC

You did a great interview! Lots of great information to inspire the neophyte and the veteran Hubber!


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midget38 4 years ago from Singapore

Hi Maria, glad to have known the both of you better! Thanks for sharing this great interview!! Sharing!


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Pamela99 4 years ago from United States

Melvoy, I have always enjoyed your hubs and you have always seemed like one of the very special people on Hubpages. Thank you for your kind comments. Mar, Thank you also. Hugs to you both.


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marcoujor 4 years ago from Jeffersonville PA Author

Melovy, Thanks for your MEANINGFUL and POSITIVE feedback to Pamela. Hope you both have a lovely week. Hugs, Maria


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Melovy 4 years ago from UK

I was absorbed in this from start to finish. I "met" Pamela quite early on after I joined Hubpages and it is interesting to learn more about her life. I particularly could relate to her reply to the question, "What makes you sad?" since my father is in a similar position to her mother.

Wishing you and your husband well Pamela.


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marcoujor 4 years ago from Jeffersonville PA Author

Tom, It is TERRIFIC that you have started following Pam, as well as it is to see you here. Hope you are having a great weekend. Hugs, Maria


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kashmir56 4 years ago from Massachusetts

Another great interview my friend with pamela, we have just become followers so it was nice to learn more about this nice lady . She is a good writer and always leaves great comments here on HP.

Vote up and more !!!


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marcoujor 4 years ago from Jeffersonville PA Author

Pam, I am so PLEASED that you PARTICIPATED in this series and you are more than welcome.

I am not at all SURPRISED that Pam has been SUPPORTIVE to you, spy. So happy you STOPPED by.

Hyph, I am glad you HAPPENED along to offer these HEARTFELT words and to be referred to Pam's HELPFUL article.

Hope y'all have a peaceful day. Hugs, Maria


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Hyphenbird 4 years ago from America-Broken But Still Beautiful

Pamela is such a nice-and wise-lady. I have really enjoyed getting to know you Pamela and I thank you Mar for this interview. I shall go right now and read that Hub you suggest Pamela. Injections, vaccinations and other health related matters are important to me also.


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unknown spy 4 years ago from Neverland - where children never grow up.

Pamela, one of my friend and loyal followers. she is very supportive!! Glad to know more about this amazing woman.


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Pamela99 4 years ago from United States

I want to thank everyone, especially Maria, again for all these wonderful comments. I appreciate them so much and am glad to be a part of such a wonderful group. I hope everyone has a wonderful weekend.


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marcoujor 4 years ago from Jeffersonville PA Author

Mary, Thanks for MENTIONING Pamela's wisdom. You both have MUCH to offer in that department.

Vincent, You are VERY welcome and I happen to agree with your remarks totally.

Hope you both have a great weekend, as well as Pam. Hugs, Maria


Vincent Moore 4 years ago

Another welcomed interview of a hubber loved by so many. Pam writes very interesting well researched articles. I also am blessed with her occasional visit to my poetry and the comments she has left me. Much appreciate her visits. Keep writing Pam you are a talented and very creative writer. Thank you Maria for highlighting this wonderful lady.


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tillsontitan 4 years ago from New York

HubPages is graced with so many lovely ladies and Pamela is certainly one of the loveliest. I love her comment, "The worst part of getting older is having wisdom now that would have been helpful when I was younger"...now why didn't I think of that? It is so very true.

I have been privileged to be a follower of Pam's and keep her in my thoughts and prayers.

Voted up, useful, awesome, and interesting.


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marcoujor 4 years ago from Jeffersonville PA Author

Dear Genna,

So happy you enjoyed this interview from such as GENTEEL lady, just as you are.

Hi to Pam and may you both have a lovely day. Hugs, Maria


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Genna East 4 years ago from Massachusetts, USA

Maria, thank you for introducing me to Pamela 99. I am so pleased to see such wonderful hubbers with the courage and character of Pamela’s.

Pam, I so identify with your struggle over the use of commas. I, too, always seem to struggle with them. A writer once told me, “Genna, you have the most prolific use of the comma I have ever encountered.” But we can’t sacrifice creativity for the sake of grammar.

I hope you realize your goal in travelling to England. :-) By the way, I love that song, “The Long Day is Over.”

Thank you , Maria and Pam.


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marcoujor 4 years ago from Jeffersonville PA Author

Good Afternoon, Y'all,

Nellieanna, You leave the NICEST and most detailed comments in this entire community and I'm NOT kidding...!!!

Terrye, I am always TICKLED to see you.

Femme, Thank you for being so FABULOUS.

Moonlake, It is always a MOST lovely day when you stop by.

Joyce, Thanks for JOINING this wonderful interview on Pam.

Suziecat, It is SINCERELY great to SEE you.

Rasma, Love your RIGHTEOUS support of this series.

Lesley, Thanks for LENDING that LOVELY offer of being tour

guide...sounds like a trip I could also LEAN towards.

Hi to Pam and thanks to each of you for these beautiful comments.

Hugs, Maria


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Movie Master 4 years ago from United Kingdom

Another wonderful interview Maria, I hope Pamela makes it to England one day..... I can be her guide!

Thank you both, voted up.


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Gypsy Rose Lee 4 years ago from Riga, Latvia

Another wonderful interview Maria. Good to get to know about Pamela. We share a love of history. Hugs.


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suziecat7 4 years ago from Asheville, NC

Great interview - enjoy getting to know my fellow Hubbers better.


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writer20 4 years ago from Southern Nevada

Pamela sounds like a great lady. I'm going to look at her hubs.

I felt some connection with her because I love Alfred Hitchcock and a few other things she mentioned. England is very expensive so start saving now Pamela.

Voted up and Awesome, Joyce.


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moonlake 4 years ago from America

Enjoyed your interview with Pam. She is a nice lady and always leaves nice comments.

Maria I have to catch up on your interviews. We were gone for awhile and I'm behind. Voted uP!


femmeflashpoint 4 years ago

Thank you, Mar.

Until now, I wasn't familiar with Nurse Pam, but very happy to get acquainted with her!

I was so very impressed the positive ambiance flowing through her comments. She has a great deal on her shoulders, and yet her attitude is most definitely on the upside, and her faith in Christ is obvious as well.

Thank you for the introduction to your friend, Mar. I look forward to getting better acquainted!!

femme


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TToombs08 4 years ago from Somewhere between Heaven and Hell without a road map.

Excellent, Mar! Pamela is such a joy to read and I always learn something new and interesting. Thank you so much for letting us get to know Pamela better. Voted up and more.


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Nellieanna 4 years ago from TEXAS

This interview has really affected me. I've known this lovely lady almost from the earliest of my Hub days, over 2 years ago and we've interacted throughout the time, but not so deeply. She's left lovely comments on many of my hubs and I've visited hers from time to time. But I am so amazed that I never dreamed she was ill and certainly not with a serious illness like lupus, nor was I more than in passing aware that she is a veteran RN! This is truly amazing. She's among the most pleasant, positive and cheerful people with whom I've mingled on here! That she has such an attitude in spite of what I know is not an easy situation is inspirational.

I've a good friend who has lupus and she, too, is winning with it, but it is sometimes fiercely difficult. Pamela, I've just emailed Gail your hub link, "Lupus - My Story and Changes I Made". It's a mini-manual for everyone to improve their habits for better health and especially for someone with lupus. So many of your hubs are excellent resources for health matters as well as others that concern us all!

Not to dwell on that, Pamela - because it's clear that you focus on it mainly to deal with it and work to live with it in the most positive of ways. You have my admiration and love.

Your interview is so interesting, too. I see we share some favorite movies and types of movies. "The Shawshank Redemption" is such a classic. It was one which my beloved stepson has said was important to his personal odyssey, too.

And I've never met a Hitchcock film I didn't like. Do you know of "Rebecca", based on Dauphne Du Maurier's timeless novels; - one of Hitch's earliest films in the 1940s? I saw it then and have loved it ever since. I looked and looked for a tape or DVD and finally my granddaughters found one for me! What a cast: Laurence Olivier & Joan Fontaine, with Judith Anderson,Gladys Cooper, George Sanders. We could enjoy an evening of classic movies together, I'll bet!

Maria, again you've brought into the spotlight a marvelous person. Thank you! (the music is good too! I love Nora Jones and you've introduced me to a lovely new piece. The Temptations are good, too - and with the Supremes - wow.)


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marcoujor 4 years ago from Jeffersonville PA Author

Tammy, How THOUGHTFUL of you to stop by with these TOP of the line comments.

Ruby, Thanks for giving Pam RIGHTFUL praise for her writing.

Thank you, Jim, for JOINING Pam's interview...JUST great to see you.

Paula, I also appreciate getting o know the PERSONAL side of PEOPLE. It's often quite PERSPECTIVE building!

Rosemay, I have also REALIZED that I have forgotten to formally follow someone. Glad you are following Pam now!

Hope everyone has a great week. Hi to Pam. Hugs, Maria


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Rosemay50 4 years ago from Hawkes Bay - NewZealand

Maria it is only through reading this interview that I realised that I don't 'follow' Pam, although we do drop in on each other now and then. I will be rectifying that because I see now that I am missing out on some really useful writing.

Pam what an unfortunate cruise, really bad timing. Your positive outlook is an inspiration. Stay strong.

Nora Jones is one of my favourite singers, just love her voice and this particular song.


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fpherj48 4 years ago from Beautiful Upstate New York

Maria.....Pam is great! I do follow her and enjoy her health hubs. She has a wonderful way of getting the point across and writes so entertainingly. She's a sweet person.

Pam....So nice of you to share some of your personal thoughts. These interview hubs are a superb idea. Keep up the terrific writing. Your readers appreciate you!


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The Frog Prince 4 years ago from Arlington, TX

Pamela is one of the most grounded writers I have experienced here. Great writer and a wonderful person.

Nice interview Maria.

The Frog


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always exploring 4 years ago from Southern Illinois

I am always happy to see that Pam has written another Hub. She keeps up with all the medical information and presents it with clarity. It is nice to get better acquainted with her. Thank you Mar..Best wishes Pam...


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tammyswallow 4 years ago from North Carolina

Pamela is such a nice and supportive hubber. I didn't realize she had lupus. It is a pleasure to learn more about her. You did an excellent job Maria!


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marcoujor 4 years ago from Jeffersonville PA Author

Good Afternoon, Y'all,

Rich, I just had a ROLICKING good time on your weekly news hub and now I am REALLY smiling at seeing you again.

ImKarn, Thank you so much for stopping by with your INSIGHTS. It is lovely to meet you.

Martie, Thanks for MENTIONING the credibility of Pam's work.

Doctor Mohan, Your comments about Pam and nurses in general make you a DARNED MAGNIFICENT kinda Doc... (yes, Sista, I am doling out compliments like they are candy, but not licorice, Mohan)

Pam, I am PROUD about this well-deserved PRAISE that you are getting. It is great that you stopped by and come back anytime.

Thanks to each of you and have a pleasant day. Hugs, Maria


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Docmo 4 years ago from UK

Another great interview, another awesome hubber. I have learnt so much in my career from nurses ( yes, that too;-) I find the compassionate, caring and creative side never ceases to surprise me. Pamela is another great spirit who creates info rich hub and its always great to find out more! Thanks Mar.


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MartieCoetser 4 years ago from South Africa

Pamela is one of my favorite hubbers. Her style of writing - short and sweet to the point - and her endearing personality appeal to me. If I need to know anything in the health department, I check Pamela's hubs first.

Pamela, my wish for you is to have all the strength and insight you need in your circumstances.

Thank you, marcoujor, for another enjoyable interview!


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ImKarn23 4 years ago

This was a lovely introduction to - or tribute to Pamela - for those of us that know her! btw, that sounds like a HORRIBLE cruise! I've been on 4 and i adore them - but lately - it seems they're becoming a little scary..

Beautiful hub, Maria


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Pamela99 4 years ago from United States

I want to thank you Maria for all your kind words, and to all the people making comments. I am feeling a bit overwhelmed by the attention right now. Thank you all so much. I love reading all your hubs and am so glad to be a part of this type of community.


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rcrumple 4 years ago from Kentucky

Maria -

Have read several of Pamela's hubs and they are always extremely interesting and full of facts. She does a great job and is a great person, for sure. You did a marvelous job presenting her to us! Up & Interesting


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marcoujor 4 years ago from Jeffersonville PA Author

Good Morning, Y'all,

Thanks to each of you for your PROMPT feedback about Pam. I know how PLEASED she will feel reading this the first time.

Bill, Thanks for BEING the first to get here.

Janine, It is JUST like you to be sweet in your comments, my friend.

Gail, I agree that Pam puts life in GREAT perspective and GIVES so much to us in her writings.

Mary, I MIGHTILY agree with your synopsis of Pam.

Linda, It is fabulous to have such a source that we all can LEARN from, you are so right.

LORD, LOOKS like a cool LINE-UP of supporters, despite my bias towards nurses...LOL.

car51, I CERTAINLY encourage everyone to visit Pam's profile, such a wide variety to check out.

Hope you all have a peaceful day. Hi to Pam. Hugs, Maria


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Car51 4 years ago

When I went to Pamela's profile, I see she has 1500+ followers! That's a lot of people, hopefully benefiting from Pam's medical expertise (as well as her other areas of interest)! Will look up a few of her hubs myself!!


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Lord De Cross 4 years ago

For some reason, Pam, Gypsy Rose, Maria Couchara and always exploring come to my hubs, almost lined up. Pamela has sharee her grief with us through Lupus, DNA and getting prepared for a loved one's departure. Pamela is like an angel nurse to us. No wonder three ladies that I mentioned are in the RN field. I sincerely hope her hubby gets better and we should pray for her too. Thanks Pam for being such a good friend.


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Sunshine625 4 years ago from Orlando, FL

I always appreciate Pam's health hubs. They are informative and educational. I always learn something new from her. I learned more about her from this interview. Thank you Pam and Maria for sharing with us.


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mary615 4 years ago from Florida

Great interview with one of my favorite Hubbers. She is a strong, courageous lady.

Well done. I voted it UP, etc.


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Happyboomernurse 4 years ago from South Carolina

How wonderful to learn about the personal side of Pamela, whose well researched, timely, and interesting medical articles I love and always learn from.

Although I knew she had personal challenges with Lupus, I didn't know she was also stressed with medical challenges that her husband and mother are dealing with.

She is a positive example for all of us that we can still live a meaningful and contributory life despite any challenges that we have.

I admire and am in awe of this lovely lady and enjoyed reading this wonderful interview.

Voted up across the board except for funny and shared.

Hub Hugs & Love to Both of You,

Gail


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Janine Huldie 4 years ago from New York, New York

Maria, as usual beautiful article and I very much do love this series. I am enjoying reading and getting to know some of the women I know and some like Pamela that I didn't have the privilege of knowing before your article. Beautiful as always and have shared, voted and tweeted too. Hugs from me to u :)


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billybuc 4 years ago from Olympia, WA

Another wonderful interview, Maria, and again it is about one of the people I admire on HP. Great job and this is a wonderful series!

Blessings to you....and a hug.

bill

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