What makes a Man Cool?

Am I Cool?

Oh yes, no doubt about it. I wear trendy shoes, hip clothes, talk the current slang, and where ever I go, I make heads turn. Cool, huh!

So, what does Cool actually mean?

Does cool mean being in the trend, being in the era, acting like the younger generation?

What REALLY makes a person cool?

Is it the above or is there something deeper to it?

A person's attitude makes one stylish. How a person reacts in happiness and sorrow gets him a score of how cool he is. His caring for others, his connectivity with others, his self belief and confidence in any situation mark the person's personality.

Clothes, shoes are all temporary things. Fashion comes and goes, for how long can a man sustain to all the changes happening in the fashion industry. His pocket will not allow him to be an ardent follower, because with a wink of an eye, technology and fashion changes. One who consumes all the latest gadgets and fashionable clothes is not considered trendy. But, a person whose personality ignites a room full of fashionable people is considered fashionable. This person will light up a dark room, and he will be the coolest person around even if he is wearing such outdated clothes according to the fashion police.

Ponder upon the below...

Now, next time when you have a party to go to and your wardrobe is outdated. Think again, how can I steal the thunder of the party? No, worries. You can upgrade yourself by wearing a bright smile, a caring attitude, and be an honest person with self awareness. This can make you look more appealing than people with the latest clothesline. As the saying goes, that the beauty lies deep, and it's not just superficial. We should have that kind of perspective towards life. Always on the go with confidence, perkiness, self-awareness, honest and good by the heart. That will ALWAYS make us on the Go with what ever situation we are in and don't have to open our wardrobe to check out for fab outerwear since each move of ours will be as COOL as an ice-cream and make us as popular as ever!

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Ashantina 5 years ago

So true Ruchira!! Being "cool" is so much more than the external/garments... its about keepin' it real, getting on with all kinds of people and having a great positive attitude :)


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Ruchira 5 years ago from United States Author

Yes, Ashantina. It is the attitude that matters and not the branded clothing et. al.

thank you so much for stopping by with your precious comment...appreciate it :)


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epigramman 5 years ago

..well your hubs are cool because you ask provocative questions and make your readers think and feel - and to me that's a pretty cool equation.


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Ruchira 5 years ago from United States Author

Thank you Epi and apologize for the late reply.

I just feel that all the incidents we experience are so related to the life we live/lead and thus, like to share it with my community as and when I become aware of it :)


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Sunshine625 4 years ago from Orlando, FL

Yay! I'm cool and so are YOU and so is this HUB!!


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Ardie 4 years ago from Neverland

Cool is for sure a way a person acts rather than they way they look. I think someone is cool who can carry his or her self in a respectful, calm, kind manner :) Excellent reminder that material possessions do not make us who we are!


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Alecia Murphy 4 years ago from Wilmington, North Carolina

I think being cool is all about how you are than what you present yourself as. Otherwise, bullies would have stayed cool after high school. Great hub!


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MartieCoetser 4 years ago from South Africa

Well, Ruchira, you are certainly very cool :)

Thanks for this cool explanation of the term 'cool'.


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rlaha 4 years ago from Spartanburg, SC

Being "cool" is how you feel inside, not what you look like on the outside. Thanks for sharing this hub :).


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Ruchira 4 years ago from United States Author

Thanks Linda. Yes, WE are COOL...lol

Thanks for your vote of confidence :)


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Ruchira 4 years ago from United States Author

Hi Ardie,

Pleasure to see ya! Well said indeed, cool defines ourselves and not what we possess. Thanks for stopping by.

Hi Alecia,

Pleasure to see ya. Exactly, it's the inside that counts and not what you are on the outside. Thanks for stopping by.

Hello Martie,

Thanks and you are no less, my dear!

Hi Rlaha,

Well said indeed, my friend. I am glad you liked the above. Thanks for stopping by!

Appreciate it!


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rlaha 4 years ago from Spartanburg, SC

:) Thanks for writing it :).


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tammyswallow 4 years ago from North Carolina

Very cool! Voted up!


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Ruchira 4 years ago from United States Author

Thanks Tammy!

I am glad you liked it :)


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PDXKaraokeGuy 4 years ago from Portland, Oregon

nice hub, ruchira. I like your thoughts


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Ruchira 4 years ago from United States Author

Thanks Justin...I am glad that you liked the above :)

Cheers!


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PDXKaraokeGuy 4 years ago from Portland, Oregon

you're welcome!


Katie 4 years ago

Being cool is all in the mind. Portrayed it beautifully.


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Ruchira 4 years ago from United States Author

Thanks katie. Appreciate your views on the above...cheers!


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Suelynn 4 years ago from Manitoba, Canada

Lovely points you make, Ruchira! :) Attitude is everything. Voted interesting, beautiful and Up.


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PurvisBobbi44 4 years ago from Florida

Ruchira,

That was a great hub to read---"Cool" is a word I still use after hearing my mother say it doing my teen years.

This hub is as cool as you are and all your readers.

Have a great day---I voted up

Your Hub Friend,

Bobbi


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epigramman 4 years ago

...probably someone like me ..... lol ..... and you're pretty cool yourself for supporting me and leaving me super comments as a great friend that you are and also as an esteemed collegue here at the hub

sending you warm wishes and good energy from lake erie time ontario canada 4:25pm


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Ruchira 4 years ago from United States Author

Thank you Suelynn. Attitude sure takes us miles so, gotta keep a check on it.

Thank you PurvisBobbi44. Appreciate your kind words, my friend. Yes, cool sure is a wonderful word and surprisingly is trendy too :) Cheers!

Thank you Epi. Always a pleasure to hear from a cool and dignified person your self. Wishing you a happy monday :)

Apologizes for responding late to your comments!


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weestro 4 years ago from Virginia

Great tips on being cool, if only more people followed this advice! Voted up and awesome!


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Ruchira 4 years ago from United States Author

Hi weestro,

Thanks for your consent...Am glad you liked it :)

Cheers!


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StephenCowry 4 years ago

Coolness comes from within. It's like the bearing of ourselves that makes it cool. Great hub!


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Ruchira 4 years ago from United States Author

well said StephenCowry. Thanks for stopping by!


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rajan jolly 4 years ago from From Mumbai, presently in Jalandhar,INDIA.

Great well written hub Ruchira. A cool person for me is one who is human. This one quality touches me the most.

Voted up, beautiful and awesome


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Ruchira 4 years ago from United States Author

I agree Rajan. A person who is true to himself and does not posses a dual personality can shine even in darkness :)

thanks for your feedback and support.


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epigramman 4 years ago

I am back to say that I am cool.

lake erie time 1:30am


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Ruchira 4 years ago from United States Author

oh yes, you are Epi Sir :) Such a pleasure to see you!!

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