Everything happens for the good...

Source

A spiritual 'cliche'?

There are some ‘spiritual cliches’, if I am allowed to use that term. Please do not mistake me and I do not speak negatively of ‘them’. I call them so only because we hear them so frequently in our lives that, many times, we forget their implications. One such ‘cliché’ is - God’s delays are not His denials - about which I wrote before. Though I have used that statement many times to console a despairing one, it is only this experience which reminds me of the powerful truth of this statement.


Another such statement is, “Everything happens for the good.”
Once again, this is a statement which is usually offered in consolation to a person going through a rough patch. What I mean is that when someone wins a medal or gets a promotion, we never go to him/her and say,
“Don’t worry! Everything happens for the good.”

When I have been down or going through a rough patch and someone has offered this statement to me, I try very hard not to get agitated or irritated. This is because, though I know that this statement is true, it is so hard to accept that something so difficult or rough could actually be for my good. At such times, it is the reassurance of many experiences that helps me keep my anxiety and temper in check. And recently too, I had another powerful experience about the truth of this statement. It happened via my father’s health problem.

The stone that troubled...

One weekend, towards the end of June 2012, I was travelling to Bangalore with my wife when I received a call from my mother who was back at home in Puttaparthi. She said that my father was complaining of fatigue and vomiting. She also added that he had a sharp pain in his left lower-back.


“Oh no”, I thought, “he seemed fine when we left Puttaparthi this morning. Why did this have to happen just when are reaching Bangalore?”

“Don’t worry. I just wanted to inform you. It might be indigestion,” my mother said.
I too had a slight bug in the stomach and I accepted my mother’s explanation. We spent two days in Bangalore at my sister’s place and were soon back at Puttaparthi. By that time, dad seemed quite fine and I felt he was on the road to recovery. The next morning changed it all.

Monday morning saw dad in a very pained and tired state again. Since he is a heart patient, I was worried. But all the pain seemed to be only in the left lower-back and it was shooting. I called up a close friend at the Sathya Sai Institute of Higher Medical Sciences and he said that it might be kidney stones. We sought and got an appointment immediately and made our way to the hospital.

The ultrasound and X-Rays revealed several stones. But the most worrisome one was a stone,over 1cm in length, in the left ureter. 1cm is a small measure when you look at it on a ruler in your geometry box but when it comes to a stone in the ureter, it is a real ‘big’ problem.

“Not a big problem really”, said the doctor, “we can do a surgical procedure and evict that stone.”
I was relieved and so were my mother and wife. But since my father was a heart patient, the doctor needed some tests and clearances before the surgery could be done. Foremost among these were the blood-sugar tests and blood-pressure tests.

My father is also a diabetic but he has always maintained good control over sugar levels. However, on that day, when the ‘random-sugar’ test was done, the sugar levels in his blood read 298! This is way beyond the acceptable high of 180 for a surgery. The blood pressure read 200/100 - again well over the acceptable high of 135/85 for the surgery!

This shocked me. It meant that the doctors would not touch him surgically. The doctor prescribed some medication and pain-killers. He said that the parameters would have to come below the acceptable highs and stabilize before they could do the surgery. And that would mean a minimum 4 weeks of waiting. I wondered as to how my father would bear the pain for almost 30 days. (His pain tolerance is very low.)

It was at this time I thought,
“How can it be said that everything is for the good? Why did the blood parameters shoot up so high just now? How can that be for the good? High BP and high sugar are bad anytime!!”

Wisdom dawns

We were worried to say the least. We put him under strict diet control. We prayed that we should remain firm in our conviction that everything is for the good.


Perfectly in resonance with my fears, my dad began to experience bouts of severe pain. That stone in the ureter had become a huge rock as far as my dad was concerned. It was a pain for me to see my dad writhing in pain on the bed. Such was his pain that he would often use the muscle-sprain spray on his back to get psychological relief (even after taking pain-killers).

Three days passed thus and my tolerance was also reached. I could not see him in such pain. I gave him vibhuti. At the same time, my sister and brother-in-law at Bangalore also were doing special prayers for him. My mother and wife also prayed and this much I can say that my father had a lot of ‘prayer’ vibes flowing towards him, for him.

And then the magic happened.

The next day morning, he got up as if nothing was wrong! He went for his walk and was cooking breakfast. He was cracking his jokes and sounding quite garrulous for the morning. And that continued throughout the day...and the next... and the next... and the next! It was amazing and we began to doubt whether he even had any pain to start with.

2 months after he first complained of the severe pain, his blood-sugar and blood-pressure were more ‘normal’ than even mine! And they had been so for more than a month now! Just for the sake of being ‘medically sure’, we decided to consult the doctor again - after all he had said that we could return for the surgery when the blood parameters had stabilized.

Even as we met the doctor and explained to him about how the previous 40 days had been, he ordered for another X-Ray and ultrasound to be done. My father was with the doctor and the technician doing the tests. I waited for him to come with the results.

He came out with tears in his eyes.
“This is really a temple of healing... this is a temple of healing...”, he was saying.
“What did the doctor say dad?”
“He said that Swami had blessed me. He said that he could not believe that there was no stone in the ureter anymore...”
“...and so...”
“He told me to go home and come back only if the pain comes back. I think I am healed without the surgery!”

I drove my dad back home.
“I know why my blood parameters went high that day”, my father began.
“And why was that?”

“If they had not gone high, then I would have undergone an unnecessary surgery. I would have also missed experiencing this wonderful grace of the Lord. See, everything happens for the good!”

"I take charge only when you surrender completely to me. It is precisely for this that I am waiting. Hand over all these matters to me and say, 'Lord, take care of them. Thy will be done.' Say this sincerely and I shall intervene and work a miracle."
"I take charge only when you surrender completely to me. It is precisely for this that I am waiting. Hand over all these matters to me and say, 'Lord, take care of them. Thy will be done.' Say this sincerely and I shall intervene and work a miracle." | Source

The experience of Ms. Karunamba Ramamoorthy

At home, I opened the pages of the June 2012 edition of Sanathana Sarathi. Exactly in the center was an article entitled, “Miracle of Vibhuti”. It was awesome. This is the experience in brief.

It is August 1962 and Ms. Karunamba Ramamoorthy is visiting Puttaparthi with her family. Her son, Satish, develops a severe ache in the left leg which progressively intensifies in pain. IN a couple of days, he also develops high fever, sleeplessness and delirium. Physical access to Swami (Bhagawan Sri Sathya Sai Baba) is quite easy (it is 1962) but Swami avoids the issue of Satish’s health. On top of that, He tells them ‘angrily’ that He is leaving Puttaparthi for a tour and that the family should return to their native place, Mysore.

By the time the family completes the arduous journey of 15-16 hours, Satish is almost unconscious. He is admitted to the Sri Krishnarajendra Hospital. The leg had swollen and is accumulating fluid in copious amounts. The doctors say that the only alternative is to amputate the leg. The operation is scheduled.

The day before the operation, Swami lands up in Mysore. The desperate Ms.Karunamba rushes to Him and informs Him about the operation. He jokes,
“What else will these doctors do? Cut legs, cut hands and also cut throats. I will give you a pinch of vibhuti. Put it in His mouth. Everything will be alright.”

In a day, Satish is much better and the operation is cancelled. The whole family goes for darshan to offer gratitude to Swami. He tells them,
“Dear ones! You must have felt bad when I spoke rudely to you in Puttaparthi. Had you stayed there, one of you was destined to die. I wanted you to leave. If I had spoken softly, you would not have listened. So I had to do what I did.:

And then, Swami provides a gem of an insight on how faith should be,
“Do you know how your faith should be? Even if you throw a stone chanting My name, it should turn into a diamond. Now, everything will be fine. Go home. Satish will be cured. Return to Puttaparthi for Dasara festival.”

Source

Parting thoughts...

Faith is a very powerful thing. So difficult to define, yet easy to reap benefits from. Faith has the ability to cure even the dreaded cancer. Well, faith is a topic for another article!

The point is, everything indeed happens for the good. Is it any surprise that Swami defines Surrender as “Whatever happens to you, think that it is for the good. That is true surrender!”


Want to post this article somewhere?

Since HubPages is very strict about plagiarism, if you use this article, or its part thereof, anywhere on any site, please also post the source link along. Thank you. :)

And if you want to subscribe to such articles, please "subscribe" to public updates on my Facebook profile or just "like" this Facebook page. Or you could follow these articles on Google+.

Else, you could bookmark the articles profile page or email me via this page with the subject "ADD ME TO MAILING LIST".

My other blog is at aravindb1982.blogspot.in.

© 2012 Aravind Balasubramanya

More by this Author


Comments 17 comments

Krishna nayana 8 months ago

Sai ram thank you so much sir this article gives me so much for sharing this valuable message


Maryam Shamsi profile image

Maryam Shamsi 2 years ago

As-Salam Alikum, Peace and blessings of God be upon you. This is a beautiful article, everything happens for our good. Therefore, we must always be thankful to our Lord, Almighty God who has created us. All blessings are from God, so we must worship God alone.

There is no worthy of worship except our Creator, God. He is just one and only. No one is equal to Him and He is free of all needs and we are in need of Him. God does not beget anyone nor God is begotten of anyone and Nothing is comparable to God and nothing is like God.

Let's devout ourselves to God and worship Him alone.

May God bless all of you. Ameen.


rajnish talwar 3 years ago

Swami has been unspeakably merciful to me personally too and He alone knows the reason for this. I believe that a Valmiki, Tulsidas or an N Kasturi are all amsha avataras and so are all of us indeed, but when ever i read an article by you, Br Aravind; yes, it always leaves a sweet taste in my Being about how Swami has manifested himself as such a profoundly simple and pleasant scribe such as you. He has given unmistakable proofs of His Being The Only Truth to infinite number of His Chosen Ones, but the gift of scribe He has manifested in you is an unusual one, of course it has the same Divine potential which in fact each bit of His manifestation has... Jaya Sairam..


Kokila Vaidyanathan 3 years ago

Sairam this is just magical. Answered every doubts and questions. Thank you soooo much.


Mark Aspa 3 years ago

oh that was so nice to read .... it is very reassuring and comforting to know we have such a God to look after us.


Venugopal.S 3 years ago

Thanks for sharing this. Those who read this, their faith will increase.


Parmila Singh 4 years ago

I take charge only when you surrender completely to me so well written and swami so cute in that sandles humble pranam swami


Krishna prasad 4 years ago

Sairam


Prasad 4 years ago

Thanks for sharing and really it is HIS Blessings for us to see such divine miracles happening even now.Similar divine miracle happened in the case of my Motherinlaw's also where the divine had cancelled the colon cancer completely with HIS Vibuthi and extended her life span for nearly 6-7 years.We bow at HIS FEET for showering HIS GRACE AND BLESSINGS and remaining with us at all times.Let HIS miracles continue for all the needy.

JAI SAI RAM


purnima.amin 4 years ago

Sai Ram. Thank you for sharing this article. Vibhuti taken and applied with devotion and reverence and faith really creates miracles. Swami's most precious gift to us is this holy ash. Sai Ram. Regards to all.


v.sai saraswuthi 4 years ago

amazing !!


SAMPATH 4 years ago

I really liked your artilce Br Aravind,

It is all Bhagwans Mercy on all of us,

May Bhagwan shower his choicest Blessings on all of us on this

Sai Krishna Janmastami day

JAI SAI RAM...


sai santosh 4 years ago

Thank you for sharing.


Siddarth 4 years ago

Thank you for the incident brother...I should keep this in my heart and mind continioulsy and act accordinglu all through my life....swami kindly give us all that firm conviction and strength ..


An Impressed Reader 4 years ago

Wonderful write up brother..

Swami really does intervene to cancel our karma if we truly leave things to him .. We are so lucky to have such a loving Lord and also to know and realise that we have him.. I feel this even more intensely when I see people around me struggle through their tough times without the comfort of God's presence.. It is not that he is not available to them .. It is just that they fail to recognise and believe that he is there as a bolster of support ..

To be able to constantly live in his presence is a gift that He alone can give us .. Unshakable faith in him is the biggest of all blessings.. It is the aid that fetches you every other blessing you ever need in life ..

Your articles always leave me with a certain sense of deep grounded peace and indescribable happiness.. I came to work today banking on the frequency of your writing.. I knew there would be an enlightening read waiting to usher Swami into my day.. I know am saying this for the nth time, but still, thank you! I have not lived enough number of years to be saying this, but from my heart, May Swami shower his choicest blessings on you and your family.


Aarthi 4 years ago

Yet another mesg for me from Swami thro you. Thanks, Barru. :) I liked the wonderful quote by Marilyn Monroe, esp "people change so that you can let go" and "good things fall apart so better things can fall together".


Kavita 4 years ago

Amazing experience and very beautifully penned down...Thank you so much for sharing!

    Sign in or sign up and post using a HubPages Network account.

    0 of 8192 characters used
    Post Comment

    No HTML is allowed in comments, but URLs will be hyperlinked. Comments are not for promoting your articles or other sites.


    Click to Rate This Article
    working