New years resolutions and how to reach your goals

Every single year, millions of people worldwide make new years resolutions.

If you're among those people who are quietly making forward motion towards goals you've set yourself - well done! and keep it up! But it's not easy for a lot of people mainly due to the fact that behavioural alteration can be tough work that calls for some initial motivation and perseverance over time. Other reasons we frequently flunk at keeping resolutions is that we wish for fast, impressive and pain-free outcomes. We would like to lose 20 pounds or halve our credit card debts by springtime, goals which (for many) are just too unreasonable. Another reason is pitiful planning! - we commonly don't bother coming up with a suitable plan to accomplishing our goals. Here are a few tips to help you keep your new years resolutions this year.

Even something so simple as how you state your resoutions can effect your whole thought process about them and ensuant behavior.  Your resolutions should be practical, accomplishable, specified, and be things you'll be able to keep track of.  If you want to start eating healthier, then try something like this: "My goal is to consume 5 servings of fruit and vegetables for at least five days weekly". Concentrating on this one goal as a way to supreme happiness can set you up to feel bad, aggravated, or disoriented when the anticipated result doesn't come after your alteration in behavior. Blending a behavioural goal and an emotional consequence into one affirmation is likewise difficult.  

Whenever you're attempting to alter a behavior, center on it in your goal statement. " My goal is to drop off 1 pound every week for the next ten weeks," is a more effective way to give voice to this resolution.

To assist prioritisation, create a list of pros and cons for each resolution you make. Pick out the most crucial goals and lay aside the others for later on in the year (or the next year). Once you have formed your resolution into a meaningful frame, cast a precise plan about making it reality.

Research reveals that separating your big goal into step-by-step, short-term goals is more comfortable and more probable to lead to achievivent of the resolution or goal.. Decide what kept you from reaching your goals and rise up with some managing schemes to address this barrier if it should happen again.  For instance, if you have satisfied your exercise goals for the week, allow yourself something nice as a reward ( whatever is satisfying to you, just be careful that it isnt going to create another bad habit! The rewards, like the  goals, should also be sensible and practical.  Research also shows that reinforcement is more effectual than penalty in the long-term, so try not to have a plan that requires taking stuff away for neglecting to meet your goals.  Never give up! Just think of the fulfilment you will feel when you accomplish  your goal, as opposed to the feeling of failure.  

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