The 7 Good Reasons Never To Give Up

Don't lose heart and hope about things which disturb you. You are the one who is in control of your own happiness. Never allow setbacks put you down and instead learn from them moving forward with a positive mind set..
Don't lose heart and hope about things which disturb you. You are the one who is in control of your own happiness. Never allow setbacks put you down and instead learn from them moving forward with a positive mind set.. | Source


There comes a point in the life of every person when accomplishment of goals and objectives start to appear like an uphill task. Everything that comes across you seems to go in the wrong direction leaving you baffled and frustrated. At times like these you start to lose your interest and even ponder over the idea of giving up on it all. In a situation like this, the role of perseverance and determination becomes much significant. You have to look and search for reasons not to quit, stay well motivated, and inspired. For that matter, keeping the following things in mind can place you in a better position in meeting up with the challenges and setbacks of life.

1.THE WORD “POSSIBLE” IS IMPORTANT

Starting a new beginning is always possible. When things don’t seem to go right for you, one thing you need to be sure about is that you can restart again or can even think about better ways to deal with a wrong situation. There is always a room for betterment. All you are required to do is to stay determined and learn to handle the difficult situations instead of losing your heart and giving up totally . The role of word “possible” becomes vital in your thinking at this point.

2.LEARN FROM MISTAKES

Mistakes are kind of blessings in disguise. They become a source of a strong learning experience only if you are willing to learn something good from them. Mistakes make you realize about what, when, and where it all went wrong. They are kind of vital for your self -improvement. Therefore taking mistakes in a positive light as a learning experience can help you stick to what you are doing without the idea of giving up coming close to you.

3.LEARN FROM REAL LIFE HEROES

One of the best motivators and your source of inspiration can be the real life heroes around you. Just think about all those big names who have made achievements in their lives despite the most difficult of the circumstances. For instance, people like Abraham Lincoln, Nelson Mandela, or any one around you who inspires you with his or her perseverance can be the source of inspiration for you. Looking at their life experiences will make you realize that success comes to those who try again and again without giving up no matter how hard the circumstances or situations they had to face.

4.BE STRONG, STAY STRONG

Being strong is one of the ultimate remedies for your road to success in your endeavors. Without a firm resolve and determination it is not at all conceivable to accomplish anything. You have to take care of the fact that standing solid in front of all the hindrances that come your way is essential. You should not lose hope and heart for a single minute. Remember to handle the odd situations with rationality and patience while staying strong against all the high tides.

5.FOLLOW AND BELIEVE IN YOUR DREAMS

In order not to give up, you have to take care of two very important factors namely trust and hope. You have to trust in yourself, in your abilities, and in whatever you dream for. You have to put your good hopes up with the belief that you can attain the objectives ahead no matter what. Dreams help in your personal growth and in order to attain something you have to follow your dreams. There is however a possibility that you cannot attain a certain dream. But during the whole process of moving towards your goal, you learn a lot which in turn makes you a better person. So for a new you, you have to follow what your mind and heart desires instead of loosing heart and giving up.

6.HATERS GONNA HATE

A vital thing to keep in mind while you work for something is that there will always be people around you who will try to put you down, get jealous, or will leave no chance to discourage you in one way or another. Naysayers and haters will always try their best to demoralize you. But remembering that you don’t have to give up and will continue to do your work without being bothered or disheartened at whatever the other person say. Always keep this thing in mind that there will always be haters and hindrances but you have to stay firm and strong against all the odds that pop up in front of you.

7.HAPPINESS IS WHAT YOU DESERVE

Every person has the right to be happy and it is the happiness which you deserve. You have to understand a fact that you are in control of your happiness and it is totally up to you about how you deal with the whole idea of contentment. Most people don’t realize the fact that they also deserve happiness like others do. Therefore they don’t pay heed to this thought. But in order not to give up on something you have to take charge without a shadow of doubt and a trust that you can also get what you want out of life.


Therefore whenever you are down with the idea of thinking to quit or give up, just always try to remember that battles are not won easily. You have to keep on fighting with patience and courage in order to be the successful one in the end. Don’t let setbacks put you down rather treat them as your motivating forces which can help you move ahead with the idea of whatever you conceive and believe you can achieve.




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Vinodkpillai 4 years ago from Hyderabad, India

For somebody going through adverse circumstances, no amount of support, comfort and help can be excessive. And since we all have our share of tough times, sometime or the other, this hub will continue to serve a useful purpose....

Voted up and useful. Thanks!


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learner365 4 years ago Author

Hi Vinodkpillai...Thank you very much for your very kind comment and your votes.I appreciate much !!!


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Vellur 4 years ago from Dubai

Great hub - never giving up is the secret to success.Interesting read.


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learner365 4 years ago Author

Thank you Vellur for your appreciation. Perseverance is all what we need in order to be successful!!!


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Movie Master 4 years ago from United Kingdom

Good advice, I especially like ' Mistakes are a kind of blessing in disguise' maintaining a positive attitude makes a big difference!

Voting up and shared, thank you.


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learner365 4 years ago Author

Hi Movie Master...We really should look at things from a positive perspective,only then we can be able to cope with the not so good sides of life.

Thank you very much for your appreciation,your vote,sharing and your time :)


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Cyndi10 4 years ago from Georgia

Trust in yourself and haters gonna hate are sooooo very true. This is a good article with a lot of truths that so many could use. I'm glad Movie Master shared this with the rest of us.


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learner365 4 years ago Author

Hi cyndi, thanks for your comment and appreciation.I am glad that you liked the article. I really tried my best to explain the truth from my personal experience and point of view. And yeah i am grateful to Movie Master for sharing the article with fellow Hubbers as well. It is indeed much appreciated :)


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SanneL 4 years ago from Sweden

Thank you for this very inspirational and motivating hub. I agree with everything here. Battles are not won easily. You have to keep on fighting and stay positive and many times be very patient. We just have to know that anything in life is POSSIBLE!! Sharing this must read hub!


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learner365 4 years ago Author

Hey SanneL ...If we really want to get something out of life,we really need to concentrate on all these things. Thank you so very much for your appreciation,sharing and your time to comment. It was good seeing you here :)


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billybuc 4 years ago from Olympia, WA

I'm going to link this to a hub I did yesterday...The Arthur Boorman story...same message and yours is excellent.


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learner365 4 years ago Author

Thank you billybuc for your appreciation and linking of the Hub :)


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StellaSee 4 years ago from California

Hi learner365! Your first bullet point reminded me of a quote that was on my calendar which said that "there's only one apostrophe separating 'i'm possible' from 'impossible' so take that giant leap!" And I totally agree with following your dreams.. I'm hoping that as long as we work hard toward it, we'll get to a place that we'll be satisfied with what we accomplished, even though that might not be what we originally intended.


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learner365 4 years ago Author

Hi StellaSee...Thank you for your wonderful comment. It is true indeed that we must try to achieve what we always dream of in our lives, keeping the thing in mind that the end which we perceive can be different from our expectations. But never lose hope on anything. If one thing can't be good for you,the other must be meant for you...so with this thought in mind it is always better to keep on moving forward without giving up.

Thank you very much for coming by and leaving your feedback.I appreciate that :)


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alocsin 4 years ago from Orange County, CA

If you think of mistakes as learning experiences rather than errors, you'll welcome them when they come and use them as tools. Voting this Up and Interesting.


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learner365 4 years ago Author

Hi and thank you alocsin for your feedback on the Hub.i appreciate that :)


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Au fait 4 years ago from North Texas

Good advice. Just what I need right now. Not sure it's enough, but you have some important messages in this hub, especially regarding the nay sayers. Especially like that part.

Voted you up, interesting, and useful. Will share this hub with my followers!


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learner365 4 years ago Author

Hi Au fait...Thank you for your feedback,your votes and sharing the Hub. I am glad to know that you found something useful and worth learning of.I appreciate your time for reading and commenting. Thanks again!!! :)


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snowdrops 4 years ago from The Second Star to the Right

excelletn advises Learner. We should always think not to give up!


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learner365 4 years ago Author

Thank you snowdrops for your feedback.You are right giving up shouldn't be an option at all !!!


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learner365 4 years ago Author

Thank you for leaving your feedback!!!


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unknown spy 4 years ago from Neverland - where children never grow up.

very positive and inspiring message you have here. we are born with a purpose.


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learner365 4 years ago Author

Thanks for your comment and appreciation unknown spy. We are indeed born with a purpose and to know about it and achieve it we must move forward with patience and courage!!!


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Rosalinem 4 years ago from Nairobi, Kenya

I needed this advice this week not to give up. Thanks, very well written and I am bookmarking it for future reference.


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learner365 4 years ago Author

Hi Rosalinem and thank you for your appreciation as well the bookmarking. I am glad that the article is useful for you. Thank you for dropping in your feedback :)


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Life Iz Beautiful 4 years ago from India

Thank you Saadia for this hub. We all know we have to be strong but constant reminder is always helpful.

Have a bright day ahead.


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learner365 4 years ago Author

Thank you Salini for dropping in your wonderful comment. I appreciate :)

You too have a very nice day ahead !!

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