Answering under my pen name (I am Yoleen Lucas) - when someone insists on promoting ignorance and / or stupidity. Some people have criticized me for writing my facts-of-life book, saying teens are going to do what they're going to do anyway, and so they should not be taught anything. I prefer to avoid arguments, but since I was extremely fortunate to get this information, enabling me to escape the ghetto, anytime someone says something like this, I get riled up. Another thing is when someone tells me to ignore signs I see in a guy, and just jump into a relationship and not be such a cautious prude. In that instance, I usually just let the subject drop; if they want to be such an idiot, it's their privilege - that doesn't mean I have to follow suit. It's when they involve innocent teens that I'm more likely to pursue the argument.