How to make an Attractive Personality

How to be the Cynosure of all eyes - Tips for having an attractive personality

Here are some useful ideas to bolster your demeanor, make attractive personality and captivate others. Please comment if you like/dislike these ideas.

1. Way of speaking

The way of speaking is one of the crucial aspects of attractive personality in which you present your ideas, feeling and information among others. So you must be careful about what you speak and how you perform it. The first noticeable thing about speech is the way of your performance. How are your gestures? The physical activities while speaking are important to capture the attention of your audience. Generally, the upper part of the body are more involved in conversational expressions. The movement of hands, facial muscles and eyes have their own kind of meaning and bringing these all right expressions together should be our aim in conversation. These expressions tell how serious and enthusiastic you are while talking. Are you looking at your audience? It's normal that people generally do not talk to the walls (unless they have some mental issues or serious preparation for an interview going on). The connection between speaker and audience is the eye. So do not forget to make a strong bond with your audience. Make eye contact with them but do not stare like you are going to kill them. How is your voice? To impress others, you must have loud and soft euphony. For boys, it is said that they must have smooth, bold and commanding voice whereas for girls loud, clear and sweet sound is required, just like a dulcet sound of kukus. Your words and expressions must be clear and understandable. Fluency is another crucial facet. Faltering and stammering (hesitancy and unsteady speech) are not supposed to happen.

2. What are you speaking?

Not only for the way you speak, you are also noticed for what you are speaking. The gist of the speech is what enters the brain. To make your speech credible and commanding, you must not say something that is vague. Unclear and confused statements darken your effectiveness. You need to build your impression through very convincing and diplomatic style. Logical and creative answers with cogent and suitable expressions help to make a reliable picture of you so that people want to hear you again and again. People start to ignore you if you are going through a lot of unimportant stuff. Both garrulous (overly talkative) and laconic (not speaking at all) characters are extremely harmful, so you should give an eloquent speech in a succinct way, that is more effective. Euphemistic expressions might also uplift your quality of speech.

3. Your dress up

Wearing style and the perfect match of dress up play the main role in your personality. Your dress speaks about you. Some teens and young people might think modish and voguish dress up effective but this is not the case all the time. Your choice must suit the condition. Like if you are going to a party, you should select the style and design that matches at that moment. It is quite different from the dress at a funeral ceremony. Also, over adorning and gaudiness does not feel good for a modest personality. Females are generally called a Peacock when they overuse their make up taking a long time, just like a Fop for males. Basically, for the female, the perfect match of dress up gives luscious and attractive look instead of insipid one. Next important and unavoidable part is footwear, regarded as the key to fascinate girls at first sight.

4. Your behaviour

It is said that the first impression is the last impression. So, in order to maintain your performance from starting, you need to be very careful about your behaviour with others. How to treat your children, adults, relatives, seniors, friends etc are important for your behaviour. Among children and relatives solicitous behaviour is needed while you should appear solemnly in front seniors. But you have to be more straightforward among friends. Good sense of humour helps to make more friends. Sometimes humorous, trickery and witty answers engender an amiable environment among friends.

5. Confidence

Confidence is a weapon of our personality. It is the strongest of all. You can combat a gunman with a stick if you are confident. The strength of a body is like a confidence of a mind. Even if you don't have an attractive face, well-built body and height, your confidence can compensate all those insufficiencies. It is visible in almost everything you do like walking, speaking, working, sitting etc. The confident and hopeful people are easily distinguished from depressed and hopeless people. Confidence is your energy and surety which shows how successful you are going to be at something. Researchers have conducted many types of research on it. Let's not jump in that depth (just imagine how some unattractive guys get beautiful girls).

6. Physical Fitness

Physical appearance is the first thing people see about you before you interact with them. It's the first impression. It's good to have a sound physical fitness and shape which helps in having a good matching of dress as well as appealing people to talk. It also plays a main role in other aspects (confidence and style). Physically fit body brings healthy thoughts and is good for the mind too.

At Last

If you are overly concerned about building a sound personality, you should not ignore these tips. Applying these simple ideas through repeated practice in daily life can significantly change one's life. We won’t get our life back again to live as we wish, so it's better to be careful from starting than to regret later. These banal notions are well-known to us and we don’t care much about these but knowing well and applying in real life are two different things.

Naturally many people are bestowed with such characters and who do not need to think about these consciously but for those who feel themselves a quite fiasco to live a gregarious and friendly lifestyle and even failing to attract their special one, these tips may work effectively.

Comments 22 comments

Dr kulk 6 years ago

too good

Asmita pathak 6 years ago

very useful writing

santu 6 years ago

thanks for this tips

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amit raaz 4 years ago

hi anuj.your personality rule is so also follow this step in my life and make a attractive personality.thanks

4 years ago

nice post...... :)

4 years ago

nice...expect more from you

nadia khan 4 years ago


sunil 3 years ago

Very nice..........

misbah 2 years ago

Can u suggest something for identifying good frnds

Sumit sharma 2 years ago


SHIYON 2 years ago

True statement s

komal 2 years ago

i m impressed this tips

tanu 2 years ago


Aniket tembhurne 2 years ago

It really worked. I got a new life.

Shaheer 24 months ago

Awesom i adviced every person to plzz follow such rules for making good personality :-)

hemant sharma 24 months ago

Nice thing

Yash gupta 23 months ago

Very nice it works but they should allaborate more

Arohi 19 months ago

Ur think abut of personality is very gud i'll also follow....;)

shrikrishna kadam 18 months ago

It's very simple and very applicable

poudel kamala 13 months ago

Thank you for you useful and very simple

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