History Of The Gold Digger

In today's society Gold Diggersare instantly thought of as females, but history has claimed this to be false. The very first Gold Diggers were MEN, yes men. In historical times when men controlled all there wives money and received huge dowries upon marriage, you had groups of men targeting wealthy women in hopes to woo her and to someday cash in on that huge lump sum of cash. Female Gold digging Started around 1848 during the California gold rush era, the term Gold Digger is historical as well. Men during this era would go out digging for gold, and once they struck it big, they would go into the nearby bars and celebrate by spreading the wealth around. When they got to these bars, beautiful women all dolled up to perfection, dressed in skimpy little outfits, would line up around the bar area, looking ever so available and waiting for the men who stuck it big to roll in. The men dug for the gold, and the women lived off the men and helped them spend it, giving birth to the most popular term GOLD DIGGER.

The Great Depression started around 1929 also known as Black Tuesday, the day the stock market crashed. The great Depression was a deep tragedy, that caused millions of Americans to become unemployed. Young women during the depression times who weren't married didn't have very many choices, a large percentage of them still lived at home with there parents and were looked upon as burdens. This era started a big Gold Digger movement Courtship was put to a halt and Survival became the number one priority for a young women of these times. Most started working in Burlesque clubs to meet rich men, back in those days people didn't have much money to spare, so if a men was into Burlesque, he was very wealthy. The women would work these clubs until they found a rich man who was willing to take them in and take care of them, givng them expensive gifts and money in exchange for uninhibited sexual pleasures (How far would a good girl go before she becomes a bad girl). Gold Diggers were more common during this time because casual sex was less popular. Most Gold Diggers of the depression times would take the money that there Fat Cats gave them and would buy food and pay bills for there loved ones, during this era gold digging was all about Survival. In today's society this is no longer a true statement.

Mentality Of Today's Gold Digger

True Gold Diggers have mastered the craft of what I like to call Pseudo Love weather they are male/female. Today's Gold Digger feeds on Material Items, materialism evokes there every move. They have no real interest in intimacy or emotional support, just companionship entirely for material gain. Most gold diggers psychological come from there childhoods, were there was lots of neglect, betrayal and hurt, so they have developed materialism as a defense mechanism against future let downs. Growing up, a large percentage were very poor and learned that money is the only way to solve problems. A common characteristic in a gold digger is detachment between emotions and feelings. They are very capable of detaching themselves mentally and emotionally.

The Fat Cat

These days the term Fat Cat has evolved to the word Sugar Daddy and the term Gold Digger is making a move to the modern day term Sugar Babe these terms have less of a negative tone . The Sugar Daddy is a man of wealth and power, some often married and some are not. The unmarried Sugar Daddy has no time for a traditional relationship because he spends obsessive hours at work and seeks the Sugar Daddy/ Sugar Babe relationship, with no strings attached action in exchange for material items, money and companionship for lavish travel and vacations. The married Sugar Daddy psychologically seeks a sugar babe to relieve his sexual anguish and stress that may be coming from the angry and sexually inhibited wife who's at home keeping the house and taking care of his children. Today's society is changing a bit with websites like www.sugardaddie.com and www.millionairematch.com the proclaimed Gold Digger/Sugar Babe can find her Sugar Daddie right online. With today's economy being in a downward situation, statics have shown 82 percent of job losses have effected men. More women then men are holding on to there jobs turning the work force into what's called The Lipstick Economy . With women doing so well in the work force, this may be the era of the return of the Male Gold Digger, watch out for your wallets ladies.

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Darknlovely3436 5 years ago from NewYork

awesome vote up to this hub...


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cherrycrime26 5 years ago from NY, Now Living in Atlanta Ga Author

@Darknlovely Thanks darknlovely :)


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prettynutjob30 5 years ago from From the land of Chocolate Chips,and all other things sweet.

Great hub.


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cherrycrime26 5 years ago from NY, Now Living in Atlanta Ga Author

@prettynutjob30 Thank you so much


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epigramman 5 years ago

...I pressed all of the buttons on this most beautiful hub subject of yours .....and even better I will post this to my Facebook page with a direct link back here so the whole world can see .......


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cherrycrime26 5 years ago from NY, Now Living in Atlanta Ga Author

@EPIGRAMMAN Thanks so much for all your support, your so wonderful, (Mmmmmuah)*HUB KISSES*


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kallini2010 5 years ago from Toronto, Canada

I think it was true for all times and countries. Whoever has the wealth, has the power/control and there are counterparts ever so willing to become freeloaders. The phenomenon is as old as society itself - maybe the names change, but the principle is the same...


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cherrycrime26 5 years ago from NY, Now Living in Atlanta Ga Author

@kallini2010 very true, been around since the ages of time :)


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Astra Nomik 5 years ago from Edge of Reality and Known Space

They are not getting my nuggets. I bought them and I am eating them....I bought 'em in MacDonalds. What, you think I have actual real gold? LOL. Just being silly. I enjoyed your hub on gold diggers. It is quite a hub. Now that economically things are in a bad way, maybe that will influence some people's bahavior.


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cherrycrime26 5 years ago from NY, Now Living in Atlanta Ga Author

@AstrA lol, and thanks for your comment:)


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kittythedreamer 5 years ago from the Ether

Can I say that this hub is absolutely awesome! I love the fact that you expose the original gold-digging men with their need to marry a woman for her dowry! It wasn't always women! Great write-up. Voted up and awesome. :) Keep 'em coming!


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cherrycrime26 5 years ago from NY, Now Living in Atlanta Ga Author

@kittythedreamer nope I never degrade women in my blogs, and I never will, thanks kitty.


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tnvrstar 5 years ago from doha, qatar

really interesting hub. Yes some men are out there who love golds more than women and prefer to use them all the time. on the other hand some women out there who doesn't love gold rather prefers cheap shiny jeweleries


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cherrycrime26 5 years ago from NY, Now Living in Atlanta Ga Author

@tnvrstar Really? Very interesting, cheap shiny jeweleries? LOL


kimberlyslyrics 5 years ago

Wicked!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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cherrycrime26 5 years ago from NY, Now Living in Atlanta Ga Author

@Kimberlylyrics Thanks kimberly, *hub kisses*


kimberlyslyrics 5 years ago

right back at cha girlly

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Philipo 5 years ago from Nigeria

Very educative. Though i disagree that men were the original gold diggers. I thought woemn are.


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cherrycrime26 5 years ago from NY, Now Living in Atlanta Ga Author

@Philip, thanks for your comment, I did some deep research on this one, and as far back as I could go, it actually started with the male species :)


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ladyt11 5 years ago

Awesome hub & very interesting! I can't wait to share this hub with some of my male relatives and friends who are always talking about women after their money, lol! Some of them flash it around and when the woman spots them and comes for the bait she's a gold digger! I know that there are women out there like that but it is good and funny to know that men actually started it. I love this!


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cherrycrime26 5 years ago from NY, Now Living in Atlanta Ga Author

@Ladyt11 What a wonderful comment, yes gold digging can be a sport for male or females, lol, love the comment thanks.


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Sun Pen 50 5 years ago from Srilanka

great! Thank you for the sincerity i telling the truth. problems need solutions. Nature gives you a solution for any problem if you allow enough time. So let the men also survive physically, economically, socially and mentally. Otherwise the problem will boomerang to you!!! Ladies!!! So be a little benevolent. Ha! ha!


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Treasuresofheaven 5 years ago from Michigan

Hello, the Lipstick Economy is a new term for me. This is a very interesting write up. You have provided great information. Thanks for the read!


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cherrycrime26 5 years ago from NY, Now Living in Atlanta Ga Author

@Treasure of heaven Thanks so much for your great comment!


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cherrycrime26 5 years ago from NY, Now Living in Atlanta Ga Author

@sunken lol, you are so right :)


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sarclair 5 years ago

WOW.. This is an interesting hub. I would never have thought of a man as being a gold digger. You see? We thought it was women.


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cherrycrime26 5 years ago from NY, Now Living in Atlanta Ga Author

@sarclair, yes deep research has been put into this hub and I'm sorry my dear, history holds men as the very first gold diggers!


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Jaspals 5 years ago from India / Australia

Wonderful. I read it more than once. Very interesting. Also learned few new terms.


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cherrycrime26 5 years ago from NY, Now Living in Atlanta Ga Author

@Jaspals Thank you so much :)


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Aamna Aamad 5 years ago from Pakistan

Wow, when i read the title of your hub i was not sure what gold diggers would be....and to my amazement it was least of what i expected. somehow you have increased my vocabulary. beautiful hub voted up.


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cherrycrime26 5 years ago from NY, Now Living in Atlanta Ga Author

@Aamna Thanks glad I could help :)


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Made 5 years ago from Finland

A very good hub, I learned something. :)


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cherrycrime26 5 years ago from NY, Now Living in Atlanta Ga Author

@Made Thank You so much :)

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