Kanye West and Kim Kardashian
Kanye and Kim
Kanye and Kim K.
A train wreck waiting to happen. Kanye West is having a man clock moment and he’s about to do something extremely foolish. What is a man clock moment? It’s when men’s friends start settling down, getting married, and having children and for the first time a man realizes there’s something missing from his life. At that moment men start making decisions to grab someone in an attempt to experience the moments they have yet to experience: marriage and fatherhood.
I give Kanye West credit for settling down a little bit and reducing the crazy antics. He’s settling his mind in order to take on the responsibility of marriage and fatherhood. Settling your mind is calming down, not free falling off the edge of a building, not participating in activities that risk your life or drinking till you throw up, etc. With his mom passing years ago, I am aware there is a void in his life that a family would help heal.
The B.E.T. couples picture says it all. You see Kim K. posing for a picture (uninvolved) enjoying the lime light, Kanye happy beyond belief (oblivious to his date’s intentions), Jay joking around, and Beyonce leans in to determine what's so funny. The body language on the picture is clear.
Kim K. does not seem to show love to Kanye like she’s into him. A picture is worth a thousand words and if you look at the couples’ picture next to Jay and Beyonce you can visually see a difference in terms of interest, friendship, and love. Kim is notorious from jumping from man to man looking for love and anyone who invests time and love into a committed relationship doesn’t often hop on the next thing smoking a.s.a.p. all the time. When someone jumps from person to person they are incapable of commitment or deep love in any way because people are disposable in their lives.
***Kim K. does not display a personality and it is difficult to determine who she really is and that’s a big RED DANGER sign. If you can’t display who you are, then you rob others of the ability to determine if you are compatible with their needs and you prove to be someone not truth worthy. Men often make the mistake of dealing with this type of woman only to find out, usually when they take half their fortune or get outrageous child support money, that the person presented to them is nothing close to who that person really is.
While watching the B.E.T. awards you saw Beyonce dance to the music, sing along to songs, and joke with her husband. They have a friendship and too many people try and have relationships without being friends. If you consider marriages that last like Barack and Michelle Obama, Will and Jada Smith, Ozzie and Sharon Osborne, Kevin Bacon and Kyra Sedgwick, and John Travolta and Kelly Preston; you will notice genuine people, loyalty, and true friendship.
*Kim K. is also not the type of woman that you want to include in your marriage circle. For a young married woman; Kim K. should not be your running buddy. While I understand that Kim K. is Beyonce’s husband’s friend’s new girl, I would stick to double dates and only common social event engagements but hanging out as buddies-no way. I’m going to have to go old-school regarding this advice: mothers would advise there are certain types of women you do not hang around as a married woman. Those types of women include women that bed hop 24-7, relationship switch 24-7, unreadable, deceitful, and those who display disingenuous behavior. Look at the way the two women are dressed for the B.E.T. awards ceremony: Beyonce is dressed fashionably and sexy but tasteful. Kim K. is dressed skin tight with back out to the top of her lumps; alluring and a little too much.
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