My Obsession With Marilyn Monroe


When it Started

It's a little embarrassing to say that I am obssessed with stars but there is a few that have caught my interest for some reason or another, such as Lucille Ball, James Dean, Marlon Brando, Bette Davis, Elvis Presley, John Lennon, George Harrison amongst some others. Marilyn is just one of a few movie stars that I have been interested in. Maybe obsession is a little exaggerated but probably my sisters don't thinks so.
I think my obsession in Marilyn Monroe started as a slow interest from the time I first saw a picture of her. I remember my dad said once that he thought that Marilyn Monroe was one of the most beautful woman in the world. From there she just caught my interest and I started watching her movies and reading about her life. My dad got me interested in documentaries, yea I know I am a nerd, but we would watch WWII documentaries together and so one night I saw a documentary on Marilyn Monroe and I decided, what the heck I will watch it and it didn't dissappoint. From that documentary I saw Marilyn as a person instead of a sex symbol and I could see the sadness in her eyes. I knew that there was something behind the glitz and glamour and there was a person almost reaching out for something that maybe she didn't know what it was. I saw her natural dark hair instead of the bleached blonde that she is known for and it touched me. Nevertheless, this hub isn't a biography or anything, just a few pictures and snipits of a movie star that you can say is the movie star of the century, that has made the biggest impression during the little time that she was on Earth.

Marilyn the Star

Marilyn was born on June 1,1926 in Los Angeles California. Her real name was Norma Jean Mortenson but there was some mix up with the name on her birth certificate concerning her father so she really never knew for sure who her father was. She did see a picture that her mother showed her of her father and she thought he looked like Clark Gable, so she would fantasize that he was her real father.

When she was around 7 years old her mother had a nervous breakdown and was not able to care for Norma Jean anymore and this is when she got bounced from home to home for a whle. She experienced some abuse and sexual abuse from family members of her foster homes. She also had an aunt that took her in and gave her the name of her aunts husband which was Monroe.

Her aunt was the one that really encouaged her to become a model because of her unique beauty and had high hopes for Norma Jean. Norma Jean married very young to a man named Daughtry but that didn't last long and neither did her other two marriages. Many believe that her promiscuity as an adult was the result of the abuse that she experienced and it was hard for her to really be committed to someone.

She became such a huge sex symbol and the model for what women should look like and how men want women to look, which by the way is far different than how women are viewed today. I think Marilyn was a size 8 or so, which would have been considered obese in today's standards, but she made the look her own and everyone loved her curves that made her the biggest sex symbol of all time, with a star on the walk of fame even.

Marilyn and Conspiracies

 Now I can say that I am into some conspiracies but I am not a huge conspiracy theorist or anything like that. I mean everyone has heard the rumors about Robert Kennedy, and JFK and her being murdered by one of them. That she had a kazillion abortions, and that she was an all around bad girl. I don't know if any of those things are true, I wasn't there and I do not pretend to be a genius about comspiracies. I don't know if she slept with the kennedy's, but I know if she did she wasn't the first person to sleep with a president and she certainly won't be the last.
I do know that she made a mark in history in a way that only she could and that she will always be remembered.
I think it was very sad the way she died however, overdosed on pills whether taken intentionally or not, naked in her bed and all alone. That is a very sad way to die.

Marilyn Quotes

 A career is wonderful, but you can't curl up with it on a cold night.
Marilyn Monroe

A sex symbol becomes a thing. I just hate to be a thing.
Marilyn Monroe

An actress is not a machine, but they treat you like a machine. A money machine.
Marilyn Monroe

Before marriage, a girl has to make love to a man to hold him. After marriage, she has to hold him to make love to him.
Marilyn Monroe

Being a sex symbol is a heavy load to carry, especially when one is tired, hurt and bewildered.
Marilyn Monroe

Dogs never bite me. Just humans.
Marilyn Monroe

Dreaming about being an actress, is more exciting then being one.
Marilyn Monroe

Fame will go by and, so long, I've had you, fame. If it goes by, I've always known it was fickle. So at least it's something I experience, but that's not where I live.
Marilyn Monroe

First, I'm trying to prove to myself that I'm a person. Then maybe I'll convince myself that I'm an actress.
Marilyn Monroe

Hollywood is a place where they'll pay you a thousand dollars for a kiss and fifty cents for your soul.
Marilyn Monroe

Husbands are chiefly good as lovers when they are betraying their wives.
Marilyn Monroe

I am invariably late for appointments - sometimes as much as two hours. I've tried to change my ways but the things that make me late are too strong, and too pleasing.
Marilyn Monroe

I am involved in a freedom ride protesting the loss of the minority rights belonging to the few remaining earthbound stars. All we demanded was our right to twinkle.
Marilyn Monroe

I am not interested in money. I just want to be wonderful.
Marilyn Monroe

I don't know who invented high heels, but all women owe him a lot.
Marilyn Monroe

I don't mind living in a man's world as long as I can be a woman in it.
Marilyn Monroe

I don't mind making jokes, but I don't want to look like one.
Marilyn Monroe

I don't want to make money, I just want to be wonderful.
Marilyn Monroe

I have feelings too. I am still human. All I want is to be loved, for myself and for my talent.
Marilyn Monroe

I have too many fantasies to be a housewife. I guess I am a fantasy.
Marilyn Monroe

Goodbye Norma Jean

Marilyn died on Aug 5, 1962 in Los Angeles. She was known to be the epitome of the dumb blonde but I don't think she was dumb at all. It is sad that Hollywood thinks it is sexy for a smart, young, sensitive girl to take on the persona of a dumb blonde. That was never her and that's what made her so sad. She knew she wasn't allowed to be herself. She wanted to be a dramatic actress which she played very well. Unfortunately, everyone just wanted to think of her as a sex symbol.

I guess at a young age I wanted to know everything there was to know about Marilyn Monroe and so my obsession of sorts continues. I have watched all of her movies and read biographies and I guess her pictures are really the legacy that she leaves behind, she always looked so amazing in her pictures and now her beauty is frozen in time for us to admire.

One of Marilyn's husbands was Joe Dimaggio, famous baseball player and until Joe DiMaggio died in 1999, he would send Marilyn Monroe flowers to her grave every week.

The Most Famous Marilyn Picture Ever!

Fun Facts about Marilyn

In 1999, Marilyn was voted the 'Sexiest Woman of the Century' by People Magazine.

Her mother was born in Piedras Negras, Mexico but it is unclear what her actual race was.

Contrary to what people thought about her religious background, Marilyn had actually converted to Judaism, many people think that she was an atheist and that's not correct.

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msorensson 6 years ago

Oh but we all love Marilyn Monroe, ladyjane1 :-)

I think we are all fascinated by the fact that behind that sexy look there is a little demure girl...At least that is how I see her.

Thank you for all the facts about her!!

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suny51 6 years ago

I am a big fan of that beautiful girl.

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Wayne Brown 6 years ago from Texas

My sentiments exactly...thanks LJ1!

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somelikeitscott 6 years ago from Las Vegas

Great hub- love her too!! Is it just me or were these people real stars as opposed to the supposed "stars" we have today? It could have been the studio system that only allowed us to see what they wanted us to see, it could have been our youthful eyes looking at them and remembering them fondly as our parents educated us on them like your Dad did for you but it could also have been that they just had more talent!

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ladyjane1 6 years ago from Texas Author

msorenson thanks for visiting and you are right everyone does love Marilyn. Thanks for always visiting.

@suny51 welcome to my hub and thanks for visiting, I appreciate your comment and I love that beautiful girl too. Cheers.

@waynebrown thanks for visiting cowboy, always a pleasure, Cheers!

@somelikeitscott I know exactly what you mean. As a matter of fact my sister and I were talking about this just the other day about actors and movies and how they were such classy stars back then and now most of the younger ones are just bratty who think they have more talent then they actually do. I think of people like James Dean and Marilyn Monroe and Marlon Brando and they just don't make them like that anymore. I appreciate your input my friend and thanks for visiting. Cheers.

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50 Caliber 6 years ago from Arizona

Lady Jane, great hub, it fits you well. "Dogs don't bite me, but humans do", my favorite of her quotes. I enjoyed reading them as most would have you think she was a ditsy blond lacking ability to but one thing. I always figured most had to be relatively well educated to rise to stardom. It's good to know she denounced stardom and saw her employers for what most are "purple people eaters" never swallowing but spitting a lot. Thank you for a good read. 50

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breakfastpop 6 years ago

Thanks for a great tribute to Marilyn.

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Pamela99 6 years ago from United States

Ladyjane, What a very nice tribute to Marilyn. She was such a beauty.

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hubmu 6 years ago from BN

This hub give me more info about Marilyn Monroe, like it, keep it up.

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rose56 6 years ago

Very good Miss ladyjane. I think alot of people felt that way about her as well. Thanks again for your great input.


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Nellieanna 6 years ago from TEXAS

Beautiful tribute to a beautiful - and tragic - icon, LadyJane

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Sandyspider 6 years ago from Wisconsin, USA

It is too bad that she died the way she did. Nice tribute.

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ladyjane1 6 years ago from Texas Author

50 Caliber thanks for reading and for the compliment and I Agree that Marilyn was smarter than most people think she was and I can only imagine how many people tried to take advantage of her. Thanks for visiting, Cheers.

@breakfastpop thanks for stopping by nice to see you, Cheers.

@hubmu thanks for the compliment and I'm glad you learned something new. Cheers.

@rose56 thanks for reading my hub I appreciate ya. Cheers.

@Nellieanna good to see you and thanks for visiting. Cheers.

@sandyspider thanks for stopping by and you are right it is ssad and it seems that too many people are dying in this way whether intentional or not. Cheers.

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drbj 6 years ago from south Florida

Marilyn Monroe was a stunning woman and a remarkable talent. It's sad to think that she never seemed to know just how good an actor she really was. See the movie, "Bus Stop," if you can find it and you'll see what I mean.

Excellent hub, ladyjane, you made her come alive if just for a few minutes.

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Green Lotus 6 years ago from Atlanta, GA

I'm a big MM fan too LadyJane..I've seen almost all her movies, many more than once. I don't believe there's been an actress since who can touch her rare beauty and special charisma. Thanks for giving her a worthy tribute.

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Lee B 6 years ago from New Mexico

I, too, am obsessed with MM and have read a lot about her. Though she had little formal education, she read a lot and was much smarter than people realize. Just reading the quotes you've chosen, one can see how witty she was!

Great hub! I really enjoyed reading it!

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ladyjane1 6 years ago from Texas Author

drbj thanks for reading I appreciate your kind comments and you are right "Bus Stop" is a movie that really allows her talent to shine through. But like Elvis, Marilyn had talent in acting but someone else was pulling the strings because they weren't taken seriously and that's a shame. Cheers.

@GreenLotus thanks for your kind comments and Maryilyn was definitely chock full of charisma. Cheers.

@Lee B you are right it was apparent to me as well in certain movies that she was dumming herself down because that is what sold back then a dumb sexy blonde but I could tell she was smarter than that. Thanks for stopping by. Cheers.

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loriamoore 6 years ago

You know, I've never seen a Marilyn Monroe movie before. I guess I need to do that.

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MFB III 6 years ago from United States

once in a while in this rough hewn world we are graced with a vision of perfection, sadly the world eventually adds flaws to even the most perfect of flesh and spirit, but oh, how she shined in her innocence and her early years, before the strain and the lure of the pills and booze stole her diamond soul.~~~Superb hub~~~MFB III

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ladyjane1 6 years ago from Texas Author

Loriamoore if you wanna see a funny Marilyn movie my favorite is Some Like it Hot and Marilyn at her best would be the movie Bus Stop. Check em out cheers.

MFBIII I agree with you completely thanks for visiting. Cheers.

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tonymac04 6 years ago from South Africa

This was a great lady, indeed, and still inmy mind one of the most beautiful ever. I love her movies and "Some Like it Hot" is a real classic.

Thanks for sharing

Love and peace


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ladyjane1 6 years ago from Texas Author

Tonymac thanks for visiting I appreciate your feedback. I agree that Marilyn was one of the most beautiful women ever. Cheers.

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compu-smart 6 years ago from London UK

Neat hub!!

I used to have every single poster of her on my bedroom walls when I was growing up!

We all love you Marilyn Monroe:)

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tdanielle55 6 years ago

She was so Gorgeous!

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TattoGuy 6 years ago

Great hub about the amazing Monroe, Marilyn actually had a very high IQ and was not the dumb girl she portrayed, am a big fan of her myself and her Calendar hangs in my office, R.I.P Marilyn !

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ladyjane1 6 years ago from Texas Author

compu-smart thanks for your input. Cheers.

tdanielle55 I agree with you thanks for reading. Cheers.

Tattoguy I agree with you as well I never thought that she was dumb for a minute. Cheers.

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4FoodSafety 6 years ago from Fontana, WI

You gave me a new appreciation. Fascinating Hub! Very well researched and written. I look forward to reading more.

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ladyjane1 6 years ago from Texas Author

4FoodSafety thanks for reading I appreciate your feeback. Cheers.

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Micky Dee 6 years ago

She's forever beautiful and young! Thank you LJ!

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MaryRenee 6 years ago

beautiful hub LadyJane :) i also am obesessed with her! i have 3 pictures of her on my walls, and a a ton of other marilyn themed stuff. i love it! :)

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ladyjane1 6 years ago from Texas Author

MaryRenee thanks for reading and commenting. Glad to hear that you are a Marilyn fas as well, frankly I don't know how anyone wouldn't be. Thanks for visiting, Cheers.

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William F. Torpey 6 years ago from South Valley Stream, N.Y.

Marilyn Monroe was really special. She worked well with Bing Crosby in "Let's Make Love" in 1960. I think you'll like this youtube video:

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ladyjane1 6 years ago from Texas Author

William thanks for reading and thanks for sharing that. I will have a look. Cheers.

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LiveLife'10 6 years ago

This is so wonderful. There are times as a woman I can identify with her. Women are often used, misunderstood and unable to be our true self for fear of judgement especially if we hold a public position. Thank you for the beautiful way you put her life into words.

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ladyjane1 6 years ago from Texas Author

LiveLife'10 thanks for reading and nice comment. Im glad you enjoyed this hub about Marilyn. My obsession continues LOl. Cheers.

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Bloget 6 years ago from Minnesota

Nice Tribute to Marilyn

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ladyjane1 6 years ago from Texas Author

bloget thank you for reading and for commenting. Cheers.

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Dolores Monet 6 years ago from East Coast, United States

Lady Jane, I so enjoyed this tribute to one of the greatest actors of the 20th century. She could break your heart and make you laugh. She depicted so much heart while being, at the same time, the ultimate glamor girl. I loved Marylin when I was just a kid, watching old movies on TV - it was the way the whole room just seemed to light up when she appeared on screen.

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ladyjane1 6 years ago from Texas Author

Dolores thanks so much for reading my hub about Marilyn and I agree with all your comments. She was great. Her life ended in such a sad way. Cheers.

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epigramman 6 years ago

..just like my obsession with your hubs - so just don't drive any more automobiles in Monte Carlo Grace - we NEED you here!!! Where you belong!!!!

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ladyjane1 6 years ago from Texas Author

Hello epigramman I guess if you insist on calling me Grace then that's fine lol. And I believe that she died in Monaco not Monte Carlo. Although she may have been driving a Monte Carlo. LOL Thanks its nice to be needed. Cheers.

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alexmita 6 years ago from London

ladyjane1 great hub! Since you like Marilyn so much, why don't you have a look at this photo. It was taken by Philippe Halsman, one of the best photographers I have ever seen. This photo is the best of Marilyn in my humble opinion. Thanks again

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ladyjane1 6 years ago from Texas Author

alex thanks for reading. Thanks for the photo, it is an awesome picture and one that I have never seen. In my opinion she could never take a bad photo, just like Grace Kelly they loved the camera and the camera definitely loved them. Cheers.

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Arlecchino 6 years ago from Top of the Cloud

She is still the best!

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ladyjane1 6 years ago from Texas Author

Arlecchino thanks so much for reading and I agree that Marilyn was the best, but such a sad story however. Cheers to you for visiting.

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Joyce F 6 years ago from USA

Like you I'm a little Obsessed with Marilyn Monroe. Her fascinating yet tragic story caught my attention when I was a little girl and loved reading about her. The brain behind the beautiful lady was not so well known.

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ladyjane1 6 years ago from Texas Author

Joyce thanks for reading and for your nice comments. Marilyn attracted so many people male and female because she was such a fascinating person. Too bad her life ended so tragically. Thanks for stopping by. Cheers.

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FelineFrance 6 years ago

I am stating this with the best intentions and I do not mean to be nit-picky but you have Marilyn Monroe's birthday off by one day and you have her death date off by one day.

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ladyjane1 6 years ago from Texas Author

FelineFrance thanks for pointing that out to me, I don't know how that got past me. Appreciate it. Cheers.

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bellawritter23 5 years ago from California

I had chills running up and down my spine on this one Ladyjane. I love Marilyn and Audrey as well! I think this is absolutely a wonderful article and tribute as well! Thanks for sharing your words.

smiles :)


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ladyjane1 5 years ago from Texas Author

bella great to see you and thanks for the compliment. Yes Marilyn and Audrey were in a class all by themselves and no one will ever touch either one. Thanks for sharing your thoughts as well. Cheers.

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Lady_Tenaz 5 years ago

I think she was a guera (a light skinned chicana)the name Norma is quite common over there too. Either way she was stunning! I always loved Marilyn as well. Love your profile pic too, Grace Kelly! You have wonderful taste in classic beauty.

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ladyjane1 5 years ago from Texas Author

Lady_Tenaz thanks for reading and I agree with you Marilyn and Grace Kelly are both stunning and both amazing in their own right. Pleased you enjoyed my hub. Cheers.

Michael Sube 5 years ago

Marilyn Monroe will always be one of the greatest individuals of all the time. She was the perfect example for a person with drive and passion. I think she had a great life and did what she thought was right!

Great hub!

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ladyjane1 5 years ago from Texas Author

Michael I agree with you, she did have a lot of drive and passion, its just a shame that she was taken so young. Thanks for stopping by. Cheers.

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DanielBing1 5 years ago from New Hampshire

Well she was pretty hot I'll say that.

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Movie Master 5 years ago from United Kingdom

I love Marilyn, her story is beautiful and tragic, there have been so many books written about her, yet still no-one knows the truth.

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ladyjane1 5 years ago from Texas Author

Movie Master thanks for reading and commenting. And you are right, we probably will never know the truth. Cheers.

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Check021 5 years ago

Marilyn Monroe was truly a star. It's sad tho,that she died on "junkie" way - although - she had everything she wanted. I can understand the way of her thinking back then, and why she didn't gave up of her "heroin addiction". It was beautiful - just like her. Heroin, is "De Facto" best known drug for depression and things that can bother one star like Marilyn or anyone - what is actually a problem in these days. Her dead made her "undiable" hitting her,situating her, to the center of one cult and culture that even today is walking on streets of U.S.A and world-wide.

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ladyjane1 5 years ago from Texas Author

Milanovic thank you so much for your wonderful comments. Im glad that we share the same interest in Marilyn and Im glad you enjoyed my hub. Cheers to you in Serbia.

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stars439 5 years ago from Louisiana, The Magnolia and Pelican State.

Wonderful hub. She was very beautiful, and intelligent. I thought she was great in the film, the Misfits. She was and extremely charming woman in ways that I believe really turned men on because she was one of the two most beautiful women of the world. I think Gina Lola Bridgita was breathtakingly beautiful. I think all women are beautiful because of motherhood. I am a man, but I think women should have been in charge of the world. We have had too many wars. Women understand the value of life more I think because of child birth maybe. GBY

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ladyjane1 5 years ago from Texas Author

stars439 thanks for stopping by and reading my hub and I appreciate your views on women and motherhood. Very nice. Cheers.

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thewritingowl 4 years ago from Ireland

Love it, I too have always been fascinated by Marilyn Monroe. She was one of a kind and very intelligent and as you say its a shame that never got recognised but I think she had too many skeletons in her closet from her unsettled formative years. Great article.

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prairieprincess 4 years ago from Canada

Beautiful! I always loved Marilyn, too. Her story is both sad and tragic but you can't help but love her. Thanks for a great article!

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ladyjane1 4 years ago from Texas Author

Thanks praireprincess I appreciate you taking the time to read my hub. Cheers.

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justmesuzanne 20 months ago from Texas

Lovely! Voted up, awesome, beautiful and shared! :)

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