8 Tips on How to deal with Disobedient Child

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Stubbornness can be cute on a small child, but when the child reaches the age of going to school, unruly behaviour is a problem for parents, teachers and others. The first step to fix this problem is to admit that their methods of paternal and maternal care probably allowed their son to become unruly and a change of attitude is necessary because we must help our children to behave appropriately.

1. Set rules and limits.
Children need rules that is well established to structure their lives. " Parents should talk to each other and interact with their children , setting rules, boundaries and consequences for misbehaviour or disobedience. Such rules can be discussed at family gatherings, involving parents and children. Possible consequences for bad behaviour should be performed as an act of love, not as a mere punishment. Acts of threat and humiliation should be avoided. "

2. Don't say empty threats.
It is easy to warn a child that she will go to bed without dinner if she will not clean her room, but when you go and even feeds her even she disobeying you, you're sending a message that you really did not mean that. If you're not ready to make good threats, just do not.

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3. Parents should agree at the same rules.
" Behavioural issues of indiscipline are more present, for example, among children of parents who discuss, disagree and disagree in the way of educating children. Disagreements between parents or educators expose weaknesses, lack of control and lack of control, allowing the child manipulate your way. "

4. Spend time with your child.
You don't have to plan activities every minute of the day, just help your child while doing chores or let him do his homework at the kitchen table while you cook, creating a sense of togetherness that can reduce unruly behaviour, often caused by the insecurity.

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5. Strengthen your child's self-esteem.
" Low self-esteem is one of the great characteristics of children and adolescents with symptoms of opposition, challenge or get involved with drugs . therefore help create a good self-esteem in your child exerting a positive attitude to their reinforcement through praise, affection and Heads up. "

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6. Give reward for good behaviour.
Positive reinforcement tasks are a strong message to your child. Children who receive praise for good deeds are more susceptible to behave.

5. Strengthen your child's self-esteem.
" Low self-esteem is one of the great characteristics of children and adolescents with symptoms of opposition, challenge or get involved with drugs . therefore help create a good self-esteem in your child exerting a positive attitude to their reinforcement through praise, affection and Heads up. "


6. Reward good behaviour of his son.
Positive reinforcement tasks are a strong message to your child. Children who receive praise for good deeds are more susceptible to behave.

7. Encourage sports.
Through sport, basic concepts of respect, ethics, hierarchy, competition, learning rules and boundaries will be encouraged and taught. It will help them with their self-awareness, managing emotions, discipline and social inclusion. Besides, if you decide to play sports next to your son, his emotional ties will be stronger.



8. Visit your pediatrician if you think that the unruly behaviour of their child originates from a psychological problem. Children with Attention Deficit Disorder or other behavioural conditions may require medication or dietary changes to help them behave responsibly.

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Pratisha 2 years ago from Ahmedabad

Loved the article. Valuable tips. Yes, I have observed the positive effect of sports on my children.


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baby-care 2 years ago from Philippines Author

Thanks Pratisha:).. Yes it's true, sports in kids has lots of positive effects and benefits... So let's encourage them to do what they love.

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