Family History for Kids - Through Storytelling

Family history is very important to me.
Family history is very important to me. | Source

Family Histories

Family history is extremely important to me. I grew up learning family histories from my parents, grandparents, aunts, and uncles. Wow – I heard some pretty amazing stories, too! I’m a grandparent now, and I want my grandchildren to learn about their ancestors on my side of the family. I’ve done a lot of research on my ancestors, but some of it is a little too complicated to share with my young grandchildren. A long line of names and dates involved with family histories can be pretty confusing and very boring for kids, so it often goes in one ear and out the other. I prefer to use the same methods that were used with me when I was a child – teaching family history through storytelling.

I grew up hearing family history. Many of the stories involved my grandmother's childhood home in Charleston.
I grew up hearing family history. Many of the stories involved my grandmother's childhood home in Charleston. | Source

Oral Tradition

The oral tradition is the oldest form of passing down information from one generation to another. Before written language emerged, storytelling was the only way to pass along family histories and important events. Even after writing was developed, few people were literate, so the oral tradition dominated cultures around the globe for centuries. Some of our most famous examples of literature began as oral stories long before they were written down. A good example of this is the epic poem, Beowulf.

Many stories in the oral tradition were composed as poetry. Words with rhythm and rhyme were easier to remember than prose. Most groups of people had their own storytellers, and these men often held a well respected place in society. For example, the Anglo-Saxons had their scops, and the Norse had their skalds. These individuals traveled around from hall to hall and from castle to castle to both teach and entertain. Unfortunately, the oral tradition seems all but dead in our modern world.

My mom, a nurse, had a real gift for storytelling.
My mom, a nurse, had a real gift for storytelling. | Source

Storytelling

Storytelling is a wonderful way to share family history with children. You’ll be able to hold the attention of younger kids if the tales are more interesting, of course. Practically everyone has some fascinating stories about their family members, in addition to having some colorful characters lurking in their family tree. If you have a really unforgettable story or family member, that would be a good place to begin with your family history stories. Later, you can build on that one story or character to expand your storytelling, using it, him, or her as a point of reference:

“Remember the story I told you about your grandfather and how he was a fighter pilot in World War II? Today I’m going to tell you a story about his brother, your great-uncle Tom.” This will give the child a chance to make family connections and base new information on former learning. Yeah – the teacher always come out in me!

Old family Bibles often contain information about ancestors.
Old family Bibles often contain information about ancestors. | Source

Family Tree

To make your storytelling of family histories easier for children to understand, make a family tree to share with your children and/or grandchildren. There are several different types of family trees available, and you can find free templates on the internet to download. Some are for three generations, some are for four, and some are for more.

When you’re creating a family tree to share with kids, I suggest keeping it short and simple. A three-generation family tree is probably enough for young children to handle. You might also want to include small photographs on the family tree. As the child gets older, family trees can be added to, and more information can be included, like birth dates, marriage dates, death dates, and locations.

Below are some examples of family trees I found on the net. All the examples provide free downloads that can be printed and filled out. If you decide to complete this activity, and if your children or grandchildren are old enough, you might want to let them help make the family tree.

Bowtie Family Tree
Bowtie Family Tree | Source
Fan-Type Family Tree
Fan-Type Family Tree | Source
Pedigree Family Tree
Pedigree Family Tree | Source
Hourglass Family Tree
Hourglass Family Tree | Source
Simple family trees are best for kids.
Simple family trees are best for kids. | Source
Photo albums can add a lot to your family stories.
Photo albums can add a lot to your family stories. | Source
Dad in his World War II uniform.
Dad in his World War II uniform. | Source

Photo Albums

Stories are always more interesting with some type of pictures, and photo albums can come in handy here. Think of the people in the photographs as the characters in a story. This will really help kids put a face with the name. Don’t forget about the importance of setting in your family history tales, either. You can share photographs of houses, farms, and landscapes that provide more meaning and another dimension to your storytelling. It’s even better when you use the old photos while you’re sharing your stories with kids. They’ll serve the same purpose as illustrations in storybooks. Have the related photos ready before you begin the story. I’ll give you an example:

“Today I’m going to tell you a story about your grandfather when he was a little boy. (Show photo of grandfather.) He grew up on a farm in Ireland, and he lived in this house as a child. (Show picture of house.)”

The more photographs and photo albums you have that are related to the story, the better. This will help kids get to know their ancestors in a more personal way, even if the ancestors died years before the child was born. This is especially true in the case of interesting or unusual images. For example, my father’s family ran a dairy when he was a kid, and he used to ride the cows. He showed me an old pic of him on the back of a cow, and this really made his cow-riding story come alive for me.

In addition to photo albums, personal possessions can be good storytelling aids, too. The grandkids love it when I tell them stories about their great-grandmother’s nursing adventures and show them her nurse’s cape. I also tell them about how their great-great-grandfather served in World War I and spent time in a foxhole in France. I show them a photo of him in his uniform and allow them to examine a brass shell casing he engraved while in the foxhole.

Family History

How much of your family history do you know? Hopefully, you know interesting tidbits to engage in storytelling. If you don’t, or if you’d like more information, talk to some of your older relatives. Write down what you learn. This is important because you might get small pieces from several relatives, and it’ll be up to you to weave a narrative by putting the parts of the puzzle together.

If you have old documents, older kids might appreciate viewing them. These might include deeds, military records, census reports, or marriage certificates. Old family Bibles often have pages for family births, deaths, and marriages, too, so these might be good to share. If you have or can find old newspaper clippings, they can add a lot of interest to your family history stories, too.

Although I’ve stressed storytelling and the oral tradition here, I think writing down the information is important, too. For years, I’ve kept a folder with just such information. It includes written accounts of interesting family stories, poems written by my grandmother, some of my great-grandmother’s recipes, and newspaper clips about my great-great-uncle, who was a hot air balloonist. Such a collection can be passed down through the generations, providing a wealth of family history.

Enhance your storytelling stories with interesting items. My grandfather engraved this shell casing in a foxhole during World War I.
Enhance your storytelling stories with interesting items. My grandfather engraved this shell casing in a foxhole during World War I. | Source

Storytelling Stories

So…how do you make your storytelling stories interesting enough to appeal to a child with a short attention span? There’s an art to storytelling. I know people who can recount a mundane trip to the grocery store and make it sound interesting. Actually, I’m pretty good at storytelling, myself. I’ve had lots of practice. Teaching, rearing three kids, and entertaining nine grandchildren has honed my skills. Using photo albums and other things I’ve already discussed will help, and so will using a variety of sentence structures. Use dialogue, too, along with some colorful yet authentic dialect. My gang loves it when I “do” the voices of different characters.

Of course, having great material for storytelling stories is invaluable, but you have to work with what you have. Making a story more interesting isn’t the same as lying. Be honest with your child about his family history. Sure, most kids would love to hear that their ancestors were knights of the Round Table or war heroes, but resist the temptation to spread such fallacies when you have no credible evidence to support such claims. It is important, however, to instill a sense of pride in the child about his ancestors. These don’t have to be super-human heroic efforts. Instead, you might want to stress qualities like hard work, innovation, determination, kindness, compassion, and generosity. You never know how a child’s ancestors and his family history might serve as a positive influence.

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billybuc 4 years ago from Olympia, WA

I completely agree with you. Family history is so important. I am the keeper of all the old documents and photos and I love holding onto them and helping other family members relive events from the past. It is important, I believe, for any family.

Great hub my friend!


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Mmargie1966 4 years ago from Gainesville, GA

I LOVE THIS, Holle! What a great way to keep your family history alive! The pictures are an incredible addition!

I'm sharing this one!


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DzyMsLizzy 4 years ago from Oakley, CA

Great article, Holle! I was the beneficiary of much story-telling by my dad, and to a lesser extent, my mom. Dad's stories tended to center around scrapes and escapades he and his brother got into, as well as family things that happened on a day-to-day basis when he was a boy. Nothing terribly exciting, or very connected to history, except that he was in the Navy SeaBees during WWII, which was "sort of" equivalent to the Army's Corps of Engineers. ..he used to say, "We built the roads for the Japs to retreat on." (Not a very "PC" statement to make nowadays, though.)

I have a lot of his tales saved as free-verse poems in first-person voice.

I, too, am a big fan of the hobby of genealogy, and have written hubs myself on the charts, and how-to's, but your idea of including the kids by making a story-telling opportunity is golden! Voted up, useful, interesting and shared!


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Millionaire Tips 4 years ago from USA

Awesome hub - I love all the details about how to make the family story interesting. I am learning how to be a good storyteller, and appreciate all the advice you have provided here. Voted up.

I also added a link to this hub on my "How to Make Your Genealogy Come Alive For Your Bored Family" hub.


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chef-de-jour 4 years ago from Wakefield, West Yorkshire,UK

Thank you for this, a reminder to all families - keep the stories alive and let each generation feed from them.

My old Aunt Cecilia was a natural story teller and often held us spellbound with her tales from the neighbourhood, from her years on the farm and during the second world war. She wasn't what you'd call an educated woman but she had the knack of delivering language in a manner that simply demanded attention and sometimes applause!


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grand old lady 4 years ago from Philippines

Family stories are really valuable. The best story tellers are the ones who like to include the family scandals. It's okay because it's the past and the person came out well, anyway. My father once "exaggerated" a story saying we were related to Lapu Lapu, who killed Magellan. He told me that because I studied in a foreign school where Magellan was depicted as a hero and Lapu Lapu a murderer. At any rate, he made "history" interesting.


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drbj 4 years ago from south Florida

Thanks for reminding us, Holle, how important family histories are. Sometimes we remember when it's too late and the family storytellers are no longer here.


Mohammad Wasim 4 years ago from To become a good human being need love.

In this modern world the children and grandchildren are no more interested to listen the exaggerated stories of the family. No matter it was true or not. What you are now in present. This is countable.

The intention of telling or reminding the ancestral stories cause of awaking or annoying the performance of children and grandchildren.

It is a type of provoking children and they are not ready to listen such a Fairy tale. Every human being are respectable. Why parents and grandparents intend to teach classification among the people to pretend high ranking and superior way of life of the forefather. Negative proliferation attitude must be working in his mind,when some one tell the stories of ancestors. They never use to say the family scandals. Such a people exaggerate to make the stories interesting.

To be very fare. If I use to say my family history to my friend or girl friend. They will say immediately to keep your mouth shirt. No one like to listen such a foolish or attention maker attitude or show-off tendency. Such a people are always be neglected.


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Lightshare 4 years ago

Good idea Habee, thus we make them heroes of our family.


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Marcy Goodfleisch 4 years ago from Planet Earth

I love family history - and I like the ideas you share here! What a sweet way to honor our heritage and teach our children! Voted up!


Mohammad.Wasim 4 years ago

Family trees and photos are really very interesting to watch and to know about them. It helps to perceive family relationship. It will be nice, not to compel of keeping on the tradition and influence among the new generation of the family.

Today's world, money brings tradition, standard of living and will be respected in society. A poor also can get an opportunity to become rich and start to move in high society . Such a people does not bother to tell their children or grandchildren about the true stories of family heritage.

In the king families are quite obvious that the great changing comes in family tradition . The new generation are not ready to learn and to respect the family tradition or to keep continue the family heritage. I think , every one should be respected in the society. Swelling and superstitious by family background will be wiped out from the society. Simple introduction of the family without any negative attitude or dominating tendency of conveying family heritage is no more respected in the new generation.


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Homeplace Series 2 years ago from Hollister, MO

Thank you for your neat Family History Hub. I love family storytelling. I like to share family stories in both non-fiction and fiction venues. Keep up the good work! ;-)


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JaneA 2 years ago from California

What a great subject and what a lot of good ideas.

One idea I have had to get (older) kids interested in their history is to ask them to interview a grandparent using their phone. The trick might be to only ask 4 or 5 key questions. Not very traditional - but these new fangled devices make things easy!


Ibidii 2 years ago

One thing to do is go through all your photos and label them with who is in the photo. If there is not enough room on the photo give the photo a number and write the number in a composition book as an index of photo information. I have a ton of photos that do not have any identification on it and it will be a mystery to figure out who is in the photos!

Awesome hub and a good way to get the kids and younger adults into enjoying the Family History! I write stories on all the family history I can find in my lines. I have a Face Book page as well as adding the stories to Hubs. I love ancestry.com and have over 25,000 names there that I have added. I love family History!


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Joe Fiduccia 20 months ago from Monroe County, PA

Though I unfortunately don't know much about our family's history, I tend to do a lot of the 'storytelling' with our son from my own experiences in life. I talk about the days when I was his age and what I remember / learned from them. And I try to relate those times to something he might be going through as well. Great article. Thank you for sharing!

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