How to Deal with ADHD
Parents who observe symptoms of ADHD in their children often panic. Not knowing what to do or even to believe the concept of ADHD, these parents turn to extensive courses of discipline that often leads to stress and anxiety.
Trust me… I’ve been there.
Panic will not help parents especially when they already know that they are raising a child with ADHD. Aggression over the matter only worsens the situation. Sit back, release all the negative thoughts from your head, and see the situation in a more objective manner. It does help to think of your child as not your own. Relieve yourself of the expectations you have on your child and try to see him as a young individual needing your assistance badly.
See yourself as a mentor and not a commander. This way, you would find it easier to look at him as an individual and not as the person you would want him to be.
Parents have primary expectations upon their children. However, when dealing with young ones suffering from ADHD, it is important to set aside such expectations and know who the child is, what the child can do and how he can be guided well to become the best person that he is.
First to note when dealing with children suffering from ADHD is the need to accept reality. Denying the fact that your child has ADHD and that he can become just like the other normal kids, can be treated like that of the other normal kids would only make things worse. Once acceptance is perceived by the parent, realistic goals become a source of confidence for both the parent and the child.
Second is to ask for professional help or research on the matter; support groups may also help in this aspect of the acceptance process. There is nothing better than knowing what your child is dealing with and how it is affecting him personally as a young individual. This approach could reduce both unrealistic expectations on the part of the parent and rigorous conflicts when it comes to handling confrontations.
Third is to know what you want to do next, to medicate, or to deal with the matter through adjusting both the lifestyle and the nutrient intake of the family. There are several research materials over the internet that provide a conceivable knowledge that parents could use as they handle ADHD difficulties among their children especially when it comes to medication and nutrition.
It will surprise you that taking these first three steps shall lead you in a whole lot better and rewarding relationship with your child; a matter that every parent hopes to achieve, whether or not the young one has ADHD.
for more helpful information relating to kids and ADHD, please check the following hubs
- How to Deal with ADHD found at http://rutheddavid.hubpages.com/hub/How-to-Deal-with-ADHD
- ADHD: Result of Genes or Parenting? Found at http://rutheddavid.hubpages.com/hub/ADHD-Result-of-Genes-or-Parenting
- What is ADHD: A Discussion and Definition found at http://rutheddavid.hubpages.com/hub/What-is-ADHD-A-Discussion-and-Definition
- Hyperactivity and Impulsivity: Main Aspects of ADHD found at http://rutheddavid.hubpages.com/hub/Hyperactivity-and-Impulsivity-Main-Aspects-of-ADHD
- ADHD and the Human Brain found at http://rutheddavid.hubpages.com/hub/ADHD-and-the-Human-Brain
- ADHD and the Aspect of Non-Aggression in Kids http://rutheddavid.hubpages.com/hub/ADHD-and-the-Aspect-of-Non-Aggression-in-Kids
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