"Incest : Stolen Innocence Of Our Daughters By Their Fathers"

Incest: Stolen Innocence of Our Daughters By Their Fathers"

Little girls are suppose to be the apple of dads eyes, but why does dad hurt his little angels.
Little girls are suppose to be the apple of dads eyes, but why does dad hurt his little angels.

"Incest: Stolen innocence of Our daughters By Their Fathers"

I write this hub, in thanks that I have not had this to happen to any of my family tree, that I know of but I did remember it happening with a father that had lost his wife and had more daughters than son. I moved away but I did hear that he had sex with one of his daughters and a child was produced form that union, I can't tell you the day, whether he died or charges was brought against him. But this hub was on my mind because there's a lot of sick people out there, that's hurting innocence children. You that know me, know I love children and I guess you could say I'm an advocate for children that's being treated wrong and misuse and abused.

It's sad, but today's mothers, can't really except the fact that some our husbands, might want to molest our daughters or have sexual relations with them, it doesn't seem to matter that they fathered their daughters. We live in a society where there's nothing sacred or safe anymore, because Satan has messed up the minds of fathers and some so called mothers. I think that child molestation is more prevalent in fathers then mothers. All I do know is, it is wrong any way it goes; it's an abomination in the eyes of God.

There was a time when mothers could go away and leave their daughters with their biological fathers and never worry about sexual molestation happening to their girls. Now, it seems that those days are over. Incest was prevalent in the biblical days, but God outlawed incest. I'm not saying that all biological fathers are child predators,but the ones that are: are giving the good biological fathers... that walk the straight and narrow way, a bad wrap because of their immoral actions toward their daughters.

There are also some women that go that route, and I don't call them mothers.. .. because a genuine, loving, mother wouldn't do anything to hurt her children. The movie Precious, is a story about sexal molestation of a young child; molested by both of her parent, it was a sad movie,and the outcome of her adult life didn't have a happy ending. I think some so called fathers and mothers that perform these acts on their children; don't take into consideration how much damage they do to their children. The children grow up to be damaged adults that more than likely; will perform the same acts on their children or others, because it was done to them.

I ask both father and mothers, who are capable of such acts to think about your children; before you torture them with your carnal desires. If you ever love your children, then don't put them through these acts of molestation. These acts on your children causing them to feel dirty, guilty hurt and worthless, most of all taken advantage of. If you even contemplate any of these dastardly acts upon your children, seek mental health; right away, because thinking this way isn't natural or normal for you or anyone else. You may have this unnatural appetite, but be a parent and put your children first.

When your children grow up naturally; and thank you one day, for being such a loving and giving parent, instead of hating and dreading ever being your child in the first place. Which would you prefer, being loved and respected by your children or hated and dreaded by your children. There are options to sexual molestation, get psychological help, so you don't destroy your children lives. Please I beg of you, make a good difference in your children lives, a difference you can be proud of.

Benny Faye Douglass (C) copyright 2010



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creativeone59 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you so much White Dove, that you came forward to tell us about you hurt and abuse,so someone else can get help from your story. Thank you for your visit and your feedback. I appreciate you and your courage. Godspeed. creativeone59


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WHite Dove 5 years ago from Fairfield Pennsylvania

To all the folks who have written, cried and cursed the issues of childhood sexual abuse... THANK YOU for opening the doors of dialogue. I am a triumphant survivor of incest. After 45 years, I opened my heart and soul to the world. I owed it to myself to speak my truth, to empty the noxious fumes of hell from my soul and to let the light shine into my being. I needed to heal. I also wanted to help others feel encouraged to speak their truth. Of course your family doesn't want you to tell... the perpitrator doesn't want you to tell. The familial issues remain a secret because people don't want to believe that the person they love could be so cruel. Most of us thought we were the "only one" this happened to. Most pedophiles begin abusing children at the time they are 15 years old. Add that to a lifetime of abusing children and you get the number 60 million. That is the current number estimated of sexual abuse survivors. People have a hard time comprehending the fact that child molesters are not the 'dirty old man hiding in thee bushes.' Many child molesters are well respected citizens of the community. Here are stats provided by a study conducted by Abel and Harlow:

47% of the molesters in their study reported being molested when they were children

34% of child sexual abuse offenders were family members of the victim

93% of the victims knew their perpetrator

Parents... grandparents, aunts and uncles... learn about the issue BEFORE it happens to someone you love.


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creativeone59 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you JoJo, for your visit and for your input on this subject, what you say is true. Mother need to listen to their children more, because they might be trying to tell them something important. Godspeed. creativeone59


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ladyjojo 5 years ago

This hub is a great topic. I agree with you, yes this nastiness has gotten out of hand.

The funny thing is some mothers don't take heed or believe their children when they tell them they are being molested.

Some are afraid of the death treats made by the father/step dad.

Some single mothers will do anything just to keep a man even if it's to risk there own daughters all men that live in incest should be hang by their seeds until it pops.

Dirty, mean and wicked there are too many big women out there than needs men, why not look for one, instead of a child to destroy them forever.


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creativeone59 6 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you so much for your visit and your comment. I hope it help someone know that they aren't the only one abused. God bless you. creativeone59


Claire Lewis 6 years ago

Thank you for putting this up it means alot to me as someone i love dearly has gone through this and now has her fathers baby. its so hard to watch people go through this so thank you so much.


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creativeone59 6 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you so much Larry,my friend, I sometimes speak out on things that I believe to be true about the sins and iniquities of mankind and I know some people don't appreciate it. I just have to write God's truth whether people like it or not. I try to write what I believe is true, in the process I hope it touches someones heart. God bless you, my friend. creativeone59


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maven101 6 years ago from Northern Arizona

Benny...This must have been a difficult Hub to produce...Your concern and passion shines in every paragraph...Thank you for exposing this creeping moral decay that seems to be on the rise in this present permissive culture...

I was particularly heartbroken to read some of the comments by women that had been abused by their fathers...The pain and suffering that lasts a lifetime...

As a father of two beautiful women, the very idea of such acts is repugnant to me on every level, as I'm sure it would be to most fathers...

As an aside, I recently saw some pics on the Internet showing adult Muslim men preparing to be " married " to dozens of 6 year old girls...a common practice in the Muslim community...This is beyond sick, since it is sanctioned by Imams...There are a lot of sick and stupid people in this world, and not enough people, like you, to call attention to their heinous acts against children...Peace and love, my friend...Larry


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creativeone59 6 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you, Caroline, I love children and would not do anything to hurt them. I also an advocate for aborted babies, I don't people are aware of how important that babies and children are to Gid or they would hurt, maime or kill them so much. Thank you for your visit comment and feedanck. God bless you. creativeone59


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creativeone59 6 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Mamie, I first want to apoliguse for taking so long to answer you back, b ut my computer has been down and out. Thank you for having enough guts to come forward because there are others that afraid or to shame to say anything, but keep such a horrible crinme bottled inside only hurt you. I want to say that I'm so sorry you hadto endure so an atrocity, this is not what God want for his little children and for them to have to suffer such a detrimental action on their person is ourageous. I no I can't take away the pain that you and others suffered, but if I could I would. keep in touch. Much love. creativeone59


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CarolineVABC 6 years ago from Castaic

Thank you for shedding light upon the subject-it was most certainly needed. Many children who are victims of rape/molestation feel like it was their fault why they were treated this way and it is NOT their fault. Someone has to stand up and defend these children and explain to them that they are "victims" and not to feel guilty about speaking up and telling someone of their awful and sad experience. Thank you for sharing this and being an advocate for our children. Blessings!


mamie2tee 6 years ago

it is now 725am in the southwest, I had one of my questionable moments, that forced me to ask, why have I not seen too many movies about fathers molesting daughters? I would love to call myself a surviver of this murderest act,(because it kills your mind, body and soul), but I was/am a victim. Mine, started when I was just alittle over 5yrs old,until I was about to be 12yrs old, and he died, I am 39, and the scars of those moments still rings in my ear today. I tried to write a book about it to help others, but after my 19yrs marriage came to an end, moving around from one place to another, I lost it. I would like to tell someone my story one day, but not like this. Please know that there are soooo many of this situation out there, but just like "mum" was the word then, "mum" is still the word today.

PEOPLE LIKE YOU, ARE HIGHLY APPRECIATED, MAY GOD CONTINUE TO LET HIS BLESSING SHINE UPON YOU AND THRU YOU.


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creativeone59 6 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

My dear Debra,my heart truly hurts for you, but my heart is really torn up about all of the sexual cruelty your daughter has suffered at her loved ones hands.It seems that people with money get away with many things, but raping and molesting my daughter, wouldn't be one. If you can't do anything but go to the social services and have your daughter examine and checked out for diseases and STDS, someone have to look out for her, it's plain to see, that her father don't have her best interest at heart. God bless you and protect your daughter. I will keep you all in my prayers. Godspeed. creativeone59


Debra Ray 6 years ago

my soon to be divorced spouse has been raping/molesting our daughter since she was 14 years old. I was taking sleeping pills during the time and never knew he was forcing my beautiful daughter to have oral and anal sex with him. When I found October 2, 2009 I kicked him out and started pressing charges against him. that is when he abducted our daughter on October 5, 2009. He had the constables and police he had told them I was clinically insane and placed in Harris County Psychiatric Center stating I had punched my daughter in the face 14 times. I never hit my daughter but Her Father had been raping her. Now his parents who love money and does he make alot of money with his Government Job. His parents run around the neighborhood, church and tell everyone including my Brother and Father that I was placed in Harris county Psychiatric Center because he stated I had harmed our daughter. nothing is worse for a girl or boy than the betrail of a father molesting them as if they had any choice. He has threatened to kill our daughter and has told her that since she was 16 years old. His parents know of these acts but they are so greedy for money they do not care after all she is just a money source for them. also my daughters dad has started letting his brother who is a 44 year old looser RAPE/MOLEST MY DAUGHTER. mY DAUGHTER HAS TO PERFORM ORAL SEX, VAGINAL SEX AND ANAL SEX ON BOTH OF THESE EVIL FREEKS AT THE SAME TIME AND THE GRANDPARENTS GO OUT WITH THEIR FRIENDS ON FRIDAYS BECAUSE THEY KNOW THAT IS THE TIME THEIR SONS "HAVE FUN". I HAVE LEARNED ABOUT WHY THEIR DAUGHTER MOVED TO cALIFORNIA SHE HAD BEEN REPEATEDLY MOLESTED BY HER DAD AND BROTHERS SINCE SHE HAD BEEN 14 YEARS OLD AND IT WAS WHEN HER MOTHER PLAYED BRIDEGE AT FRIENDS HOMES, SO HER MOTHER KNEW SHE WAS BEING RAPED/MOLESTED OTHERWISE SHE WOULD HAVE HAD BRIDGE PLAYED AT HER HOME. i CAME FROM A NORMAL FAMILY NO ONE RAPED US CHILDREN OR EVEN SPOKE OF ANYTHING INAPPROPRIETE. sO i HAD ASSUMED cATHOLIC PERSONS WERE NOT ANIMALS KNOW i KNOW AND THEY STILL CALL THE POLICE AND CONSTABLES WHEN i JUST WANT TO TALK TO MY DAUGHTER OR i EVEN HAD A RESTRAINING ORDER PLACED AGAINST HER DAD AND GAVE COPY TO POLICE. IT SEEMS THAT NO ONE CARES A CHILD IS BEING MOLESTED/RAPED BY 2 MEN THAT SHOULD BE PROTECTING HER LIKE HER GRANDPARENTS SHE LIVES WITH BUT THEY JUST WANT MONEY AND TO "KEEP THEIR SONS SEXUALLY HAPPY".


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joque 6 years ago

Unfortunately, the ones who need this moving exposition the most probably won't read it, but perhaps one will, and change. Keep up the God work my Sister. There is a need. The fields are white and ready for harvest. I'm glad you are one of the workers in the vineyard.


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christalluna1124 6 years ago from Dallas Texas

A very real and heartbreaking subject. I like pmccray, am a survivor or both sexual and physical abuse. It was ignored in my family and when the problems carried over into adulthood it took years of therapy to understand that I was the victim. My family also refused to believe me and my sister. We rarely speak, my sister and i live in Texas and the rest of the family live in Mississippi. We keep to ourselves. No family reunions or holiday gatherings, even after all these years "39 to be exact, we are still the blame for the ulgy secret. When my biological father was dying, my family called me to tell me... I dont know why. I could not make myself tell him I loved him...I did to make sure there were no regrets on my part, call and say "I heard you were not feeling well and I will be praying for you". The remmants of this type of abuse lasts a lifetime. It will affect and INFECT any male-female relationship the victim has in the future. Thank you for a wonderful article.

Warmest regards, Chris


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H P Roychoudhury 6 years ago from Guwahati, India

What is in your hub is nothing but abuse. No body will agree to accept such concept. If it happens to any particular case, it would be a case of sick person. He requires treatment. Man is human beings, of course animal but not belong to lower animals. I doubt whether such case happened in lower animal too. There is no meaning of human civilization in human society in such cases. Thanks.


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creativeone59 6 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

I totally agree with you on that count, everyone that have children aren't parent and of course that's sad for the children. Until parent get mental help the children are in constant danger. Thank you bail up, for your comment and feedback. I appreciate you. creativeone59


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Bail Up ! 6 years ago

I saw the movie "Precious" last week and I can't tell you how angry I was at both those parents. Some people are so warped, they really shouldn't have children.


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creativeone59 7 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you so much pmccray, it took a lot of guts and courage to come out and tell the truth, but this too is how we continue to heal. I'm sorry that you had to endure this type of abuse. our people to get help for their problem;and there will be less hurt and harm to our children. God bless you and may you continue to stay strong. God Loves you. creativeone59


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pmccray 7 years ago from Utah

I hesitated on commenting about this hub, because I'm a survior of this type of abuse. My road to surviorship was long and lonely. After the abuse was made known(by me)I took on the existance of a leper in my immediate family, because no one wanted to acknowledge or believe my accusation. My Father of course denied the abuse, I then ran away from home at the age of sixteen and preferred living that way instead of living at home. Over the years the wounds have healed, I forgave my Father my family embraced me once more and now believe my charges. Years before my Dad's death he sent me a card, and in it were the simple words "I'm sorry". I keep that card in my Bible to this day. This type of abuse should never be hidden, this is why I'm writing this comment. If you stay silent you'll never be free. Thank you for this hub creativeone59


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creativeone59 7 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you RevLady, for your constant comment and feedback, it means a lot to me. Gods blessings to you. creativeone59


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RevLady 7 years ago from Lantana, Florida

I agree with all the aforementioned comments. Incest has existed since the beginning of time and will exist until Jesus returns. It is so unfortunate but a reality. Also tragic is the fact that the consequences it may have on the child is not a priority consideration by perpetrators.

Blessings,


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creativeone59 7 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

I agree on all counts, it's to much of it happening and not enough done it. thank you for your comment and response. Blessings to you and yours. creativeone59


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Veronica Allen 7 years ago from Georgia

You are so right creativeone59, this has gone on for a long time, just more light is being shed on it. I will never understand people who rob chidlren of their innoncence in such a heinous way. It's definetly the workings of Satan the Devil. Even now I teach my two and four year old that it doesn't matter who it is, inside the family or not, if someone approaches them in this matter or makes them feel uncomfortable in any way, to tell me. I think the more people speak up about it, the more light is shed upon it, the less it may occur. My whole family knows how I feel on this subject, and they all know that there is a set of rules and conduct that they all have to abide by concerning my children. I don't play when it comes down to this subject. I'm sorry, I got carried away, but this issue is really close to my heart. We need to do all we can to protect our childern.


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creativeone59 7 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

You know Hello hello, this probably has been going on a long time, but just starting to surface. thank you again for your support, you are always there for me . Godspeed , sweet lady. creativeone59


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Hello, hello, 7 years ago from London, UK

A well written hub about a very delicate and sad subject. Thank you for this eye opener. Unfortunately, in my opinion, you hear more and more of it. Whether there were always so many there and it was just kept quiet or did it really increase?

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