What every married couples hope to achieve.
Everyone dreams of having a perfect family. However, the fact is nobody's perfect, reality hurts and the world & life is unfair. Thus, each and everyone of us are born with different family backgrounds. Some people are naturally born rich, while some are poor. Some family live harmoniously while others live in sufferings. To them, an ideal family is far from reach. It is not easy to obtain an ideal family as every family has its ups and downs.
As always, everyone's perspective of an ideal family is different. One's perspective may be to be showered with cash, while others, to be showered with love and happiness. Without a doubt, being a dream comes true, that children will love families with no rules or regulations being enforced on them. Similarly, which parents would not want to see & love their children doing so well academically.
There are different factors to ensure in the making of an ideal family. One factor is to have a big harmonious family living together under one roof. Alas, it will not be fruitful, if there's no comunication with one another. To add on to the present responsibility, the man of the house will be the person who ensures that happiness lingers around the house all the time. Making sure that there is no lack of attention or love being given respectively for all his children. By doing this, not only does the relationship between husband and wife be better, but it will also bring the everyone's ties closer. Eventually, everyone will feel a sense of belonging in the family.
Another factor that comes into picture, is the support between family members. Children will most surely need all the support and encouragement from both of their parents, so that they will have the motivation to do well in school. Parents must prioritise and ensure that they are always there for their children. Occassional beatings and scoldings will make things worse and may led the children to become rebellious. Forcing the children to study 24/7 is a main "no-no". All the naggings will soon fell on deaf ears and the children will totally lost their interest in studying. As the phrase goes, "All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy".
This is where, the parents come into play. Their main task now is to enlighten their children and relieving them from their daily accumulated stress. Parents may reward their children everytime when they do well in school. Apart from that, an appropriate daily home schedule should be plan out so that it doesn't seem to be a burden to the children. During the one-month school holidays, parents can also go on overseas for vacation if their budget permits. Another alternative way, to cut the cost of travelling overseas, they can also go camping by the beach. Not only can the family spend the time together watching the sunset, they can also have a lot of fun with the sand and the sea too. Hearing the sound of the waves & feeling the sea breeze blowing in your face is proven to be quite an experience & also a good, natural stress-reliever. All this will lead the family to bond even more closer.
Parents need the support too. Children, upon seeing the difficulties that their parents are facing, should help in any way they can. To ease the burden on their parents' shoulders, the children should be forever grateful for what their parents have done. They should also make their parents feel appreciated on what they have always done from their upbringing to the present.
To sum it all, having an ideal family doesn't requires one to be living wealthily or being famous. It is more of a harmonious family where people live in bliss. It doesn't matter which family you are being born into.
One thing for certain, is that everyone has a part to play in the family.
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