NAW is LAW in the South

Andy and Barney
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"Every important yes requires a thousand no's."
"Every important yes requires a thousand no's." | Source

A Southern Word

Naw is Law in the South...

A Carolina boy said it best. Andy Griffith said it with authenticity. It means : a firm ‘no’. You can mess around with the word no, but the word naw means there are no choices.

Say you are a child and you ask your mom for a dog. Her first response might be, “No,” with a-maybe-tone of voice. That meant you could ask again.

The second ‘no’ would be in a firmer tone. That meant waiting a little longer and you could start pleading. “Please, can I have a dog?”

At this point she feels the need to explain the reason she is saying ‘no’, the responsibility and the expense. Next, the promises. I’ll squeeze him, and pet him, and feed him, and clean up the messes. Mom will feel sorry for you, and she will think about it. What’s left? Whining and listless begging. “Please, mama, Please?”

This situation is one that can be settled very easily, with a 'naw'. It’s understood by all southerners that naw is the final answer. Accepted with no questions asked.

No is a powerful word. It’s defining. Warren Buffett said he might say no a hundred times to investment proposals before he says ‘yes’. Every important yes requires a lot of no’s.

Saying no is taking a stand for the better part of yourself. You are actually uncovering your values and saying yes to a deeper motivation. There is nothing as strong as a clear intention.

Saying no to drugs will prevent addiction.

Saying no to complacency will advance your career.

Saying no violence will promote peace.

Therefore, saying no can distill your values. You will be saying yes to honesty, kindness, respect, courage, and integrity.


The family has spoken

My southern family has been reading this hub, and reminded me that it's a common thing to say 'heck naw'.

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Ghaelach 4 years ago

Hi Ann.

My heart skipped a beat when I saw your photo of

Mr. Warren Buffett. I thought I was in for another lesson from the Guru of the stock exchange.

Not to be struck down with sorrow, we have you with the theories of "No" and "Naw".

Enjoyed it Ann.

LOL Ghaelach


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anndavis25 4 years ago from Clearwater, Fl. Author

Ha ha ha ha ha Ghaelach...I thank ye'


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drbj 4 years ago from south Florida

Hi, Ann, When I was advising outplaced executives who were getting discouraged by hearing so many no's when looking for new jobs, the motto of the day (in the 90s) was: "Every No (or Naw) gets you one step closer to that Yes!"

But you are right. No may be negotiable. Naw is final. :)


girltalksshop 4 years ago

Interesting...I have a new feather in my cap now. lol! : ) Voted up and accordingly.


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aslaught 4 years ago from Alabama

Enjoyed this hub!


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rebeccamealey 4 years ago from Northeastern Georgia, USA

Cute hub. Voted up and funny! I love Andy Griffith, and I am from the south.


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Dim Flaxenwick 4 years ago from Great Britain

Voted up of course. It was so interesting. I am practising saying Naw but somehow, I don´t think I can get the accent quite right, here in England.


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Eiddwen 4 years ago from Wales

A brilliant hub and one which deserves that up up and awaayyy!!!

Take care and enjoy your day.

Eddy.


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PurvisBobbi44 4 years ago from Florida

anndavis25,

My mother was from the South, and she never had to speak when I asked for something she did not like--I just got a look that said "NO"loud and clear. We called it "The Look of the Undead" as we were teenagers with no couth. Her dark brown eyes could drill holes into a person; when she was thinking "No." So, I always had to ask the same question in another way, with the same results, probably.

Loved your hub.

Bobbi


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anndavis25 4 years ago from Clearwater, Fl. Author

Bobbi, I know exactly that look you are talking about. I did it myself. Took me a while to master it, but it really worked. Ha Ha.

Thanks for comments.


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anndavis25 4 years ago from Clearwater, Fl. Author

Eiddwen, You're grading me a 'yes'. Thank you.


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anndavis25 4 years ago from Clearwater, Fl. Author

Southern tuttoring is necessary, or listen to Andy Griffith. Smile....Thanks.


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anndavis25 4 years ago from Clearwater, Fl. Author

Bet you have an accent like me. Well, mine is more of a drawl. Ya'll come back now...


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anndavis25 4 years ago from Clearwater, Fl. Author

aslaught, honey, I preciate it...stop in again.


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anndavis25 4 years ago from Clearwater, Fl. Author

I would be willing to bet you will start saying naw just for fun....smile


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anndavis25 4 years ago from Clearwater, Fl. Author

Well put drbj. No one knows no's like an outplaced executive. ad25


Shana Eddleman 4 years ago

Like this....NAW... I LOVE it !


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anndavis25 4 years ago from Clearwater, Fl. Author

Awww, Shana, my wonderful neice. Thank you. You are the one who reminded me that most everybody says: 'heck naw'.


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mary615 4 years ago from Florida

Being an ole southern gal, I could relate to your Hub. I have such a drawl, its hard to be understood by some people. I've lived in Fl. for 20 years and still talk the same way! Goodnight.


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DonnaCosmato 4 years ago from USA

Great hub and even though I have southern roots, I didn't make the connection in the title until I started reading this.


stessily 4 years ago

Ann, It's fun to play around with naw and its equivalent, nope, all in fun, drawing out the vowel indefinitely. But they both can also mean business!


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NiaLee 4 years ago from BIG APPLE

Yes, Ann, we need to be reminded of this sometimes. We need to know how to take a stand and be firm. I will keep it with me. I am eager to visit that colorful historical south. LOve and peace


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anndavis25 4 years ago from Clearwater, Fl. Author

Nia, ya'll come!


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anndavis25 4 years ago from Clearwater, Fl. Author

I agree, sometimes we say it in fun. But it does mean business (with an attitude)


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anndavis25 4 years ago from Clearwater, Fl. Author

Hi Donna, hope it brought a smile.


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anndavis25 4 years ago from Clearwater, Fl. Author

Do you notice when you are around people from the North, they seem to connect our drawl to illiteracy? I had to throw in a couple of sophiscated words once in a while to prove my point. I have one really good friend who calls me an educated hick. laugh laugh. Once in a while when I have to call someone about a product I bought, I get a southerner. It makes me homesick. So I need to live close to you Mary. Why heck fire! We could shoot some snakes!


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James A Watkins 4 years ago from Chicago

Heck naw you didn't write about naw!

Well I loved it. Thank you for the wit and wisdom. Nice combo there.


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anndavis25 4 years ago from Clearwater, Fl. Author

Your dad would understand. Come by again.


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ahorseback 4 years ago

I must say I love that southern lilt in voice , my daughter raised in the south has it , I just love to listen to her song like conversations ! Awesome


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anndavis25 4 years ago from Clearwater, Fl. Author

Thank ya'll, honey. Nice of you to visit, ya'll come back now, ya hear!

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