On Random Acts Of Kindness

You'll Never Be Sorry You Were Kind!
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Examining Random Acts Of Kindness



A hub on Random Acts of Kindness was great stuff encouraging hubbers to get busy with kind acts toward others and to write about their experiences.

I thought I would just leave a little “bravo” note in the hub's comments, but was surprised to realize that I had more to say on the topic than should go in a comments section.

It caused me to give some real thought to the idea--I believe that may have been the purpose of the hub, don't you think? Yes, thinking it through is good.

Nothing to do then but get busy and write my own hub on living out the concepts of kindness. Picking up the gauntlet was the appropriate action. Motivated, I had to put the fingers to the keyboard.

My course was set, all I had to do was get in motion mode. Am I sure, do I really have much to say about it? After all, I've failed many times to show kindness when I should have.


Kindness Can Work--But Sometimes It Takes Time

Last year I began to encounter a "hard" woman working the check-out at a business I visited on a semi-regular basis. I determined to be friendly to her, thinking she must have a sad history and life, but she seemed so angry it was almost scary.

It took a long time, months actually. She started to recognize me, first smiling back, and finally she interacted with me in a friendly way the last time I was there. I’m not sure that counted as random in the end, but it was motivation for me to think more about random acts of kindness rather than just focusing on my own doings when I am out and about.

One of my favorites is to smile directly at little ones trapped in shopping carts while parents are "absently" on their cell, etc. Poor little things, waiting, tired, but worst of all, pitifully lonely. Seeing their eyes light up when this Grandmama winks or waves at them in passing is well worth the few seconds it takes to focus on them. They nearly always brighten up and sometimes respond shyly or playfully. So cute that I can’t help but smile even more.

On top of that, an added benefit (that really is the most important one, if it happens) is that the commotion often causes the parents to focus on their little ones. They see me smile and they smile at their child. A good thing indeed, and if I am kind to the little ones I can sometimes make that happen. It's a wonderful thing to be a part of that!

Never hesitate to be kind!
Never hesitate to be kind! | Source

On the other end of the spectrum, I am forced to visit a sad nursing home each week. It’s all out of my control and I do not like seeing what I see there. However, as I am able I try to just speak to the folks trapped there.

Whatever the reason for them being there–sometimes it’s their own lifestyle that put them there, sometimes it’s just because we live in a fallen world and health issues are out of our control, and sometimes it’s neglect by family members (very interesting to start seeing each situation for what it really is)–but whatever the reason, why not brighten their day with a kind hello?

To see sagging heads and hearts lifted by such a simple kindness is tragic to me. How can I not begin to learn their names so I can speak more personally to them? Even though it is difficult to face them, why not do what little I can to make them smile since I have to go there? Seems like a small thing, but in the face of their suffering it is not as easy as one might think.

And isn't it the case that we usually “have” to be where ever we are? Sure, we get some down time, but otherwise we’re doing what we need to do, right? So why not do small things to brighten the days of people we meet? We live in a world full of hurting people. Most go to school or work and set their fears, their concerns, their painful memories or tragic circumstances aside in order to focus on tasks at hand. Why not take the time be kind to everyone?


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In the Home


Can a look at this topic be complete without mentioning that families are responsible to teach children how to show kindness to others? It takes knowledge and effort to help children understand the difference between a show of kindness and sincere kindness.

It's important to be polite but there is a difference in just being polite and showing true kindness. Balance is important, so children also need wisdom to know that they need to be careful of a number of issues that could come up when dealing with people.

But showing simple kindness from the heart as we go through our daily lives is something we can help our children understand. My grandchildren have a better chance to learn kindness than I did, and my prayer is that their children will have an even better grip on the concepts of true kindness.


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On Kindly Serving Others:

Love Kindness!

As a Christian I am reminded of our instruction in Micah 6:8, “He has told you, O man, what is good; ... to do justice, to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God” (ESV).

For me as a believer (John 3:16, John 14:6, ActsOfTheWord.com), the admonishment of Micah 6:8 and consequent blessings go far beyond what will naturally come as a result of my being kind to strangers.

I only wish I could say that I have always done so. I think I’ll try to make up for those times in this new year. Could this be the year of random kindnesses for each of us?

Oh! I can’t end there! Let me see...as a kindness to you I found this video for your pleasure. I hope it makes you smile and I hope that you are encouraged to begin something important where ever you are at.

Happy “random kindnessing” to you in this new year!



A 2nd Grade Kindness Project:

Kindness Gives Us A Glad Heart!

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Fiddleman 5 years ago from Zirconia, North Carolina

I like! Thanks for your comment as you said I am just a click of two away from becoming your newest follower. God bless!


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RTalloni 5 years ago from the short journey Author

Thanks very much, both for reading and for commenting!


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Suzanne Day 5 years ago from Melbourne, Victoria, Australia

Your random acts of kindness to lonely children are no doubt more appreciated than you think!


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RTalloni 5 years ago from the short journey Author

Thanks so much for stopping by and commenting. There is a mystery to kindness that seems to be irresistible to most people, especially children.


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RTalloni 5 years ago from the short journey Author

Hello Dorissun! :)

It can be quite funny to be friendly to people who are not used to friendliness. Living in the southern, USA, everyone says hello to each other all time. In traveling it has been interesting to see the responses. When shopping in other places the disgust at my friendliness has often been overt, but they are always glad to take my money for a purchase. :)

Thank you very much for stopping by and leaving a comment. I hope you can continue to be friendly no matter what other people's responses are!

RT


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