How to difuse a family feud?

My ex SIL refuses to allow my brother or his family to even speak to their children. She threatens to quit communicting with them if they try to talk to us.One is 19 and just joined the army the younger son is soon to be 18. They were both adopted by her husband when she divorced my brother. None of our family has been able to visit either of them since the oldest as about 4-5years old. What advice is there? We don't want to compound the problems for the kids but we do want to talk

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5 years ago
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