I believe it should be both, as long as they both can raise the child to be a good role model for future generations to his/her peers including classmates, friends, and whomever they come into contact with. If the parents views are not the same about certain situations then that's a good thing because having a one side minded child may not be the best thing. I see both sides of a situation and I see how it could affect me in a positive and negitive way. The whole point of growing up and getting older is to learn. This is how I got to be the person that I am. I'm in a bad spot right now, but I am working towards a better future by looking at my options in two ways, and honestly it has taught me so much and it is leading me to a good future. I learned all of the pros and cons to a situation from my mom and dad, and they see things differently which is why I believe I am the way I am right now.