I have contemplated on whether I should answer this or not. I am because I know that someone out there will read it and it will help her to decide what is right. The best thing I ever did, was to say no to the father of my first son, when he told me to abort the child, and he walked out on me, then my parents abandoned me for doing it. I did not see him again till after I had him that morning, 8 months later and he showed up at the hospital, unexpected, and no one told me he was there waiting in the entrance of the Hospital till 3am the next morning when the nurses let him in to see me, I gave birth at midnight. He was the only one there, and I did not know it. I nearly died giving birth. None of my family came. I was 19. Now I have 2 beautiful grandsons from him and they are wonderful young men. One went to Iraq and Afghanistan in the Navy and built the Forts along with other fellow guys, our military guys use.